4 Reasons Why You Should Be Alone Today

I’ve heard it so many times from friends and family.

They feel like they’re attracting the wrong type of person, that’s why all their relationships fail.

Then they try really, really hard to attract them. This is when they work hard to make money, own a car, have a good career or even show up at places where singles mingle.

But sometimes, that doesn’t work at all.

Sometimes, you just have to be alone.

That’s right. Be alone.

This may sound counter intuitive, but there are many benefits to simply being on your own and NOT trying to attract a partner in life.

Here are 4 reasons why you should be alone today:

1.You can start caring about yourself

Or as I like to put, you can start giving a crap about yourself.

When was the last time you did something for yourself only? When was the last time you decided to be selfish just for that very moment so you can be happy? When was the last time you indulged in your passion or worked on that project you left aside?

You know you’re allowed to care for yourself right?

You’d want to grow old and look back knowing that you did things for yourself too. So start caring for yourself.

After you care for yourself…

2. You can gain a ton of confidence

It’s that simple.

When you do a lot of things, fulfill your needs and wants and overcome challenges your own way, you gain confidence.

You’d create an identity that has a place in society.

Why? Because you know you did it yourself. You did it your way. You’ve created things from expressing your self, your own way.

3. You can gain insane clarity

When was the last time you thought about yourself and your future? When was the last time you were not distracted by everything around you?

When was the last time you felt extremely clear about who you are and what you want in life?

A long time? That’s bad.

It’s time you start looking within and thinking for yourself. You’ve to be clear about your life. Otherwise, you’re just going to end up feeling lost.

You may have your responsibilities in the form of work or even relationships, but life’s too short to be THAT distracted all the time.

So just be alone. This will help cut out most, if not all distractions. Then you can start to think for yourself and have peace of mind.

4. People will will want to start being with you

With the confidence, clarity and ultimately, happiness you gain, people will start to recognize that change in you.

This is called charisma.

And slowly, it becomes inspiration. You’ll earn the respect and admiration from your peers.

This is how you attract the right person in life.

Face it, people are not happy today. People are scared and lonely.

People want to be around others who are happy and confident themselves. They want to feel secure and start feeling less scared.

So if you want to attract the right people in life, start by being alone. Stop trying so hard in doing things that supposedly impress others.

Work on yourself first.

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Erin shows overscheduled, overwhelmed women how to do less so that they can achieve more. Traditional productivity books—written by men—barely touch the tangle of cultural pressures that women feel when facing down a to-do list. How to Get Sh*t Done will teach you how to zero in on the three areas of your life where you want to excel, and then it will show you how to off-load, outsource, or just stop giving a damn about the rest.

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