• Steve

    This post should be titled “How to become obsessive compulsive in 3 weeks.”

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Haha . . . I think this is pretty much common sense. Different people, different way of living, I guess.

  • http://pickthebrian.com Edub

    I think its a practical way to change your environment. You have to start somewhere why not your home.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Yeah, and you spend so much time in your home that it’s critical you feel good there.

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  • http://blog.neverthesamerivertwice.com Maria | Never the Same River Twice

    This approach is very similar to the Fly Lady’s programs (for the love of God DO NOT sign up for her email list unless you’re very lonely and love spam!). Basically, the idea is that if you get your environment into some semblance of order, your inner stuff will begin to work itself out.

    I agree with it to an extent, but yeah, as Steve hints, you could become a bit OCD if you take it too far.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Interesting. Now you got me interested in the Fly Lady but I guess I better stay away . . .
      Balance is important. Each person has a different point of balance — please find yours.

      • Sandra

        Sign up for Flylady but set your calendar to unsubscribe in one month. You will be ready to do so then, if not before.

  • http://www.healingandinsight.com Anna Conlan – Healing and Insight

    Hi Akemi,

    I agree so much with this idea of decluttering and cleaning out the old to make way for the new.

    I’ve never really done it as a program like this, I’ll have to try this out. But it sure feels good to have a clean, ordered house, especially when you work from home…

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Hi Anna, good to see you here.
      I hope this 21 day program gives a solid idea of exactly what to do when someone attempts to clean up and declutter. Just saying “clean up” is not enough for some.
      But as I wrote in my post on my own blog, I doubt if anyone really do this, or even start doing this. It’s easy to just sit back and criticize, it’s harder and more scary to actually grab a dust cloth.

  • http://www.ichoosechange.com/blog Jennifer Ryan @ I Choose Change

    I so agree with decluttering your space. It allows you to declutter your mind and open yourself up to “the flow” of life. You know how when you can’t go to sleep without the kitchen cleaned or you are completely bugged by the laundry in the dryer (well, some of us are like that!)? that’s the idea… you’re mind is cluttered and it makes your life cluttered.

    Thanks for writing this. It’s a great start! I may read the book to get the full picture.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Hi, thanks.
      If you are picking up the book mentioned in the article, please know it’s in Japanese.
      There are a lot of great info that is not necessarily available in English. This is why I do Japanese book review occasionally on my own blog. I think the best so far was: How Ordinary People Became Millionaires.

  • Nadine

    I think I will take on this challenge. But I’ll need something to substitute for opening windows. It’s 28 below here and I doubt that I could get them open even if I wanted to! Any ideas?

    For those who would find this too much a challenge, I too would recommend the fly lady program. The emails aren’t that bad, just delete all those you don’t have time to read.

    Another thought, this is a good symbolic program for this time of the year when we are tidying up for Christmas or introducing good habits for the new year.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Hi Nadine,

      Cool, you go girl. Regarding the windows — you don’t have to keep them open. Even in cold weather, I think there is a point in changing the air occasionally.

      And yes, that was the intention of this post. We have less than 21 days before the New Year, but I think this is a great way to prepare ourselves for the coming year.

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  • http://abundance-blog.marelisa-online.com Marelisa

    I love this outside-in approach. And steps like cleaning out your wallet, decluttering your closet, and opening the windows can seem small, but they make space for the new and allow stagnant energy to circulate.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Hi Marelisa,
      Sounds like you know because you’ve done it!

  • http://bystander.homestead.com Francis Chin

    Akemi, you overlook one more important point: cleaning and uncluttering have to be repeated, at least once a month, or even once a fortnight. Aand it can get very tiring.

    I live in hot, humid Singapore. After 15 minutes handling the vacuum cleaner, I am dripping with sweat, and my clothes are completely wet. The feeling of having cleaned the house is euphoric, but to achieve it, I need to spend almost an hour of depressing, sweaty housework. And I have to do it once every 2 weeks. (My wife does the washing and ironing.)

    • Nadine

      Francis,
      I’d highly recommend giving flylady.net a try. She considers doing your housework in a 2 hour session to be a form of perfectionism which holds you back. Instead of vacuuming in one session, you can do just the middles of the room once a week and detailed vacuuming in the current zone once a week. So you shouldn’t be using the vacuum cleaner more than 10 minutes at a time and can avoid getting sweaty that way. I don’t do my vacuuming precisely like this since I’ve adapted to suit myself, but that is the general idea.
      – Nadine

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Hi,Francis and Nadine,
      Well, I don’t want to dictate exactly how you should vacuum, I trust each person to be smart enough to figure that out. But even in hot weather, I don’t think it’s a good idea to never clean up your place. And you can take a shower afterward.

      • Nadine

        Woops, I didn’t mean to speak in absolutes in my response, please replace the word “shouldn’t” with “need not”. Personally, I vacuum between 5 to 15 minutes at a time.

  • http://www.spaceclear.com/ Ruth

    There’s definitely something to be said for the mental freedom that comes with clearing clutter. Until I read Your Spacious Self by Stephanie Bennett Vogt, I never really mad the connection between clutter clearing and personal development. It was just chore to be done, but this book has shown me that you really can’t have success at the one without doing the other.

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  • http://wealthwisdomandsuccess.com/success Leisa Watkins

    That sounds like a facinating book. I find cleaning to be so therapeutic. If I’m feeling overwhelmed because my mind is cluttered I find that organizing my outside world does wonders. It’s amazing how much a filing break does for my mind set.

    I find that cleaning floors helps me solidify my foundation, that cleaning windows helps me have a better view about life, and that purging helps me get rid of thoughts that no longer serve me.

    • http://yes-to-me.com/ Akemi – Yes to Me

      Leisa,
      You sense the clearing effect on yourself very well! Great job.
      Our energy body expands far bigger than our physical body, so it makes so much sense to clean up the environment.

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  • http://www.PastExpiry.com Johnny Ancich

    Should be made into a book: Martha Stewart’s OCD for the Holidays….

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  • http://www.OptimisticJourney.com Jarrod@ Optimistic Journey

    Great ideas! A lot of these are tips that I overlook. Especially tips as simple as cleaning the mirror in the bathroom and the area around the doorway.

    We become so “immune” to our place when we walk in that we don’t see what others see when coming home. We don’t smell what others smell when we come home.

    Most importantly, by doing this were telling ourselves, (our minds) that we are important and that we deserve a better space around us and subconsciously we end up feeling better about ourselves.

    Great post, keep up the great work!
    Jarrod

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