An Open Letter To Those Who Think Their “Life Sucks”

Okay, let’s admit it.

Life sucks! You often utter these words, you might have said it a number of times in a day that, “My Life really sucks.”

I’m amazed by people who are so dissatisfied with their lives it’s as if they’ve never had anything positive ever happen.

They are not at all contented with the things they own, their relationships, the food they are eating, the clothes they are wearing, the house they are living in, jobs they are doing and there are ‘n’ number of things of which they are so ungrateful for.

And I’m sorry to say, you too fall in the same category. You’re not at all happy with your existing life and eventually you accept it in your heart that your life sucks too.

You know why?

Because you don’t stand a chance, you think that you don’t deserve to be happy.

Because you don’t consider this life as a gift and as a result you’ve made it totally worthless.

Because you are always finding reasons to complain about your job, about your relationships and the things which are continually trying to make you a better person every single day.

In short, you’re screwing yourself and it is getting worse day by day.

The more impatient, ungrateful and complaining person you become!

And this “supports” the fact that your life is seriously sucking you!

This all happens because….

You Lack Gratitude!

I’m pretty much astonished with how ungrateful you are!

Rather than admiring, you’ve always overlooked your present life and you’ve always lusted for new desires and wishes.

You are completely disrespecting each and every thing that is given to you.

“Learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had.”

You are surrounded by the toxic people who reinforce how bad your existing life is going.

This has made you the kind of person who is always looking for the negative things in life.

All these things completely justify that;

“You are not alive!

Yeah, that’s right; you heard me….I’m talking to you….I’m calling you out.

I’m looking at you and telling you that you are not at all alive!

In this world, there are only few people who are really living their lives. The rest of the people, they simply exist!

And you are one of them, yes you are, you can’t deny this!

Because you don’t have any reason to follow your dreams.

Because you forgot the fact that; you have been blessed with this precious life, and you are just throwing it away.

Have you heard this quote…?

Live your life to the fullest, you only live once!

By my question is how many of you are actually doing it?

How are you living your life to the fullest?

When was the last time you had celebrated and expressed gratitude over your small achievement?

When was the last time you have done anything for someone that can’t be repaid?

I think, you’re just crossing the laps of never ending race.

Just think it over again and again until you do not hit the bottom. And stop saying this:

“My Life Sucks”

Sorry for being rude, but that’s the way our parents and teachers scolded us when we were not on the right track.

I just did the same, now I’m going to pull my virtual hand and hold you from your collar and made you to sit and think;

Only thinking….nothing else…..

Think about your life, when was the last time you were thankful for your life?

When was the last time you appreciated your belongings, your loved ones or any stranger who has helped you?

We all are so busy running in fulfilling our desires and neglecting what we own. that we hardly appreciate the life which is given to us, so it’s a kind of wakeup call for you.

Now stop regretting and start appreciating!

Top 10 Gratitude Quotes

  1. When started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around. –Willie Nelson
  2. When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears. – Anthony Robbins
  3. If you count all your assets, you always show profit. –Robert Quillen
  4. If you want to find happiness, find gratitude. –Steve Maraboli
  5. Gratitude turns what we have into enough. –Unknown
  6. A grateful mind is a mind which eventually  attracts to itself great things. –Plato
  7. When our perils are past, shall our gratitude sleep? – George Canning
  8. Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. – William Arthur Ward
  9. No matter how good or bad your life is, wake up each morning and be thankful that you still have one. – Unknown
  10. God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say ‘thank you? – William A.Ward

This one is just for you.

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About the Author:

Vishnu Verma is the founder of CallingDreams. With a long time passion for blogging and Entrepreneurship, Vishnu started his blog to inspire people to follow their passion and should go for their dreams.

A Note From The Author:

Do know what a person thinks few months before dying? What he feels? He knows that he’s going to die but can’t do anything. If you’ve taken your life for granted then this article will compel you to be grateful in your life.  My Last Tie: This Message From The Dying Guy Sums Up Life


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19 Responses to An Open Letter To Those Who Think Their “Life Sucks”

  1. Cyn says:

    Ok but sometimes a manipulative family member can and does make ones life suck no matter what you do!!

  2. Anonymous says:

    Only “you” are responsible for your own feelings. No one can make your life suck. It’s totally your perception. Don’t give anyone that power over “your” Life.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Only “you” are responsible for your own feelings. No one can make your life suck. It’s totally your perception. Don’t give anyone that power over “your” Life.

  4. Anonymous says:

    If you have to do something reply stressful, be like Nike, and just do it, then the pain will suddenly disappear.

  5. If you have to do something reply stressful, be like Nike, and just do it, then the pain will suddenly disappear.

  6. Anonymous says:

    Chronic dizziness and living with a slob, you try being greatful for that

  7. Wake up to the truth says:

    Do not lie! Life does SUCK! You just have to go out and walk your dog and see all the stupid things going on. If you think life is good and you ignore the bad another Nazi Germany will take place. THIS WORLD SUCKS!!! WAKE UP BEFORE IT GETS WORSE!!! DO NOT LIVE IN A WORLD THAT DOES NOT EXIST!

  8. Anonymous says:

    Some people are born with somethi,g they never asked for,its called a DISABILITY,IT SUCKS.

  9. Ron says:

    I am most grateful… I look for the positive aspect of each encounter, endeavor or occurrence. I thank God daily for the roof over my head, the food I have to heat, protection from the elements, and hope. I do what I can with whatever limited time or resources I have. BUT MY LIFE DOES SUCK!
    I won’t go into all the bad things that have befallen me: Some due to my own accord: Most not. I acknowledge where my shortcomings are, and am fully aware of true strengths. But my life stiff SUCKS.
    So God loves everyone, even if they have done wrong. He has a promise for those who accept him and try to follow him via OBEDIANCE. But, He is GOD. If he chose not to love just one person in all the history of mankind, he could do so. After all, He is God. So I feel he chose to do so with me.. So be it. I won’t argue with God.. And I won’t stop singing His Praises…. He is God. God is good. Just because He doesn’t love me doesn’t mean He is not good.
    My life isn’t just hard; It’s dismal…. I am losing hope. Others can have what I own.. Material things really don’t mean anything to me: I can’t taker them with me, nor do I want to.
    I do have those that love me: Sisters and Brothers, my Grandchildren, and possibly one of my 3 children. My big hous needs a lot of work.. But It is part of a promise I may not be able to keep. Still, I will try to keep it, even if it kills me.. and it is doing just that. For if I cannot keep my promise, than 1 of my 2 dreams dies with that. Do I have to lose my dream? I have already lost love that I thought I had, a good life of example, which is to hard to keep now… No… Sometimes LIFE SUCKS… It isn’t whether a person’s life sucks at any one point in time though. It’s whether they can over come all the mounting obstacles that they cannot control… People will lie for money, hurt you because they made a mistake and want someone else o be the fall guy, who use their power to be big in someone else’s e
    yes, or out of wanton ignorance and fear, want to crush out anyone that might oppose them…… No, dung on top of dung on top of a growing dung heap SUCKS… Sometimes you give up, sometimes you work through it, sometimes you check out…. When you have no one o live for, no dream left intact, and hope fades… you check out….. At least life no longer sucks.

  10. Silverbanshee says:

    Oh, DO shut up, you smarmy Pollyanna. You have no idea what anyone is going through, and your attitude is the same as those who tell the chronically depressed to “just cheer up”. Notice how all the people who subscribe to this thinking are always successful, and therefore HAVE blessings to count?

  11. Anonymous says:

    Sorry, but your letter didn’t help, life still sucks anyway, i am bored to death of life, it’s the same old same old, looks like I have seen everything, and I don’t see a reason why people continue on living.
    Life is so freaking boring,it is meaningless and it sucks.

  12. Sharkbait says:

    One thing I HATE is when people say “Life is what you make it.”
    I was told that just last night by a friend. I’d be willing to buy into that if it wasn’t so darned miserable. I can’t remember very many good times. I don’t want to die, I really don’t, but it seems like even the good things I have or have had come with an asterisk attached and that always seems to be the case.
    The person who told that to me had some rough moments here and there, but her life is 100,000 times better than mine. That’s the truth!

  13. HTIABDTY says:

    Tell those with a chronic health condition which modern medicine, Eastern medicine and all sources of wellness cannot touch or make better.

  14. NO says:

    Life is miserable. Humans are miserable. Honestly I believe the world will be better off with one less human. It’s that much less of a toll on nature…I’m only 30…but I don’t want to live another 60 years. The thought of living that long gives me a headache when I already am sick of life.
    Day in day out, I wish for death.

  15. Rick says:

    my body is broken and I’m constant pain, I’ve been like this for almost 8 years now with and the doctors have been unable to do much about it. I can just barely stand and walk. Just sit or lay in pain everyday. I just want it to end.

  16. Some one who knows says:

    Who ever wrote this sucks They just think that people are having a bad day. or week, month, or year. Life sucks for people who have a bad life, who are always positive, happy, but negative things happen to them all the time. Never would hurt anyone but storm clouds surround them all the time. It’s not there fault. They learn to live with it and dont expect things.

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  18. Jake says:

    You’re an idiot. So you’re plan is to add guilt to the table too? You clearly don’t know what the eff you’re talking about. Some people have mental illness and they want to kill themselves every single day or just about. Some with “everything” to live for.

    The irony is they already feel the guilt for not being happy and grateful but they also feel helpless knowing that somebody like you will just never even begin to understand what that feels like as you’ve more than illustrated with your pathetic writing. We’re you actually trying to help? Douche bag.

  19. Jake says:

    Your* were*

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