How badly do you want your dreams to come true? Dive deep into these 5 tips and let me know what you think, I’m here to help you.
Tip #1: Write It Out
How serious are you to making your dreams come true? If you’re really serious, and actually committed, then take 5 minutes now — just 5 minutes! — and write down exactly what you want to come true. It’ll be very hard for your dreams to come true if you’re not 100% clear on exactly what your dreams are. Do you want an amazing career? Happiness? A significant other? You have got to write it down, so that you’ll be clear on what you want. After doing this very simple exercise, a subtle shift will happen. You’ll feel more certainty about what you want. It won’t be just another thought popping up sporadically in your head. It will be written in stone, on a piece of paper that you can look at from time to time, ideally every day.
Tip #2: Imagine It
Visualize what it will feel like when you’re living your dreams. What emotions, sensations, and thoughts will you have when you’re living your dream life? What will it be like? Picture it! Create a vivid image in your mind of what your life will be like. Consider all the details, like how you will feel about yourself, how you’ll treat other people, what you’ll be doing at 10:23am. It might sound silly, but imagining yourself in your ideal life makes it much more likely that it will happen. It will give your subconscious mind a picture of what your life will be like. It will give you a direction to go in. And most importantly, you’ll start to feel the emotions that you want in the future, right now. After all, what you want is to feel good and fulfilled, and you can start having that feeling right now.
Tip #3: Believe It
Do you believe in it yet? Do you believe that you can get there and actually be living your dreams? This is the most important step — believing in yourself and in your dreams. Say it to yourself, “I believe that…” After you say it several times, notice what doubts, fears, and resistance comes up. This is vitally important to be aware of, because if you’re not 100% aware of what your doubts and fears are, you won’t be able to overcome them! Challenge yourself to believe it. Write down all of your doubts and see if they are rational and something that you want to keep holding onto.
Tip #4: It’s Already True
Thank the universe for having already given it to you. You may be thinking, “That doesn’t make sense because I’m not living my ideal life yet.” But by thanking the universe (or God, Existence, Reality, or whatever you choose to call it) for having already given you your dream life one year from now, you will invoke a very strong power to make it real. What am I talking about? In short, it’s called The Law of Attraction, something you’ll want to learn more about as you begin your journey.
Tip #5: Ask Yourself
Ask yourself focused and directed questions, such as “What do I need to do to achieve my dreams?” and “What has held me back from having achieved it already?” By asking yourself the right questions, you will be able to come up with the most important answers that you need to make it come true. Be honest with yourself, and ask yourself, “What inside of me is resisting it?” You might find fear, doubt, limiting beliefs, or other mental phenomena that are keeping you stuck. Spend the time discovering what your resistance is, and write it down in your journal. Some say, “Nothing worth having comes easily,” so you’ll have to do the work to find out what’s blocking you. And I’d be more than happy to help you get there, so get in touch with me now.
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