• http://www.craigharper.com.au Craig Harper

    Hey Tejvan,

    Great Post!

    One addition might be – Finish what you start!

    The number one reason we don’t achieve what we set out to is we don’t finish what we start.
    It’s not a talent, opportunity or timing issue… it’s a ‘perseverance’ issue.
    We are a collective of people who are constantly starting and stopping things.
    Consistency is the key.
    Why don’t most people who join gyms achieve their goals?
    They don’t go.
    They start but they don’t finish.
    Even when the motivation wears off (and it will) do it anyway.
    Even when it ain’t fun (and it won’t be sometimes) do it anyway.
    When others throw in the towel, you stay committed.
    If you want to be like everybody else, do what they do.
    If you want to be exceptional, do exceptional things.
    Persevere.
    Get the job done.

  • http://www.urbanmonk.net Albert | UrbanMonk.Net

    Hey Tejvan, a very nice post. Good round up of very solid principles, thanks for that.

    Cheers,
    Albert | UrbanMonk.Net
    Modern personal development, entwined with ancient spirituality.

  • http://www.wisdomgettingloaded.com/ tracy ho

    Greats to reads your post , money saving & trimming body Ha !

    Thank you
    Tracy Ho
    Wisdom Getting Loaded

  • http://www.varsityblah.com/about Eugene (Editor, Varsity Blah)

    Great post. I’m a huge fan of the 80/20 rule. Basically, I’d suggest starting with just one thing that can make a difference; preferably the one that will make the most difference. It’s easier to commit to making small changes at a time and the effect really does compound. Keep it up!

  • http://www.weightlossdietwatch.com/ Dan

    I liked the idea of save money and improve your health, live fit and enjoy life. Thank you.

    Snacking can be considered as a healthy substitute to any weight loss dieting program. Go for the snack that satisfies your hunger and provides you sufficient energy and nutrients. Go for different types of snacks so that you can get multiple nutrients.

  • http://www.adversityuniversityblog.com Stephen Hopson/Adversity University

    Tejvan:

    One of the most important fundamentals is understanding that if we make a firm decision and take responsibility, we’re better able to follow through and see to its completion. Half wishing or saying things like “Well, I hope to lose weight” isn’t going to cut it.

    This was a timely article because the new year is coming up and many people are probably going to be setting new goals and/or resolutions. It’s a good reminder that in order to be successful with anything, they have to be willing to take responsibility.

    Great post!

  • http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog Tejvan Pettinger

    Thanks for all the comments.

    I’m currently on holiday in the Carribean (spending lots of money, eating too much food e.t.c :) so I don’t have too much time to respond (and internet is so slow in Dominican Republic.)

  • http://www.empoweredattraction.com christine

    I like the connection between exercise and debt…or between exercise and any other challenge. The best thing about doing a workout every day or so is not how you look, or how clear it makes your head. For me, it’s the chance to face down my fears and my negative voices every day. If you try to stay a little outside your comfort zone (meaning off the couch for an hour a day), ignoring those voices that hammer away to prevent you from making a change becomes second-nature. Once you get good at making yourself do the uncomfortable in one context, it’s a lot easier to move it into other contexts. You learn to just get on with it because there’s a big pay-off you can’t get to without it.
    I agree also with Craig Harper’s excellent comment.

  • Ben

    Changing habits is really changing one’s behaviour.

    I recommend the following book:
    “Self-directed behaviour: Self-modification for Personal adjusment” by David L. Watson & Roland G. Tharp

    Don’t be put off by it being a psychology text-book. It’s perfectly readable for the layperson and it gives some very practical and realistic advice and statergies. Approach it with an open and curious mind.

    I finally gave up soft drink/sodas after several years of trying. I discovered this book one month into giving up soft drinks and the tactics I had been using were a very neat fit with the material in the book.

    The key to change is to have patience and use failure as a learning experience. Craig Harper is right about perserverance. Sometimes one has to be a slave to the grind with exercise.

    In my decade and a half of reading widely in the self-development field this is one of the best books that I have read.

    Have a happy holiday season.

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