Editor’s Note: A few weeks ago I was contacted about a personal growth book based on the movie “Groundhog Day”. Although I was a bit skeptical of a book based on a movie, “Groundhog Day” is a great movie and the author was kind enough to send me a free copy.
I’m still working my way through it, but so far I find the message of personal transformation compelling. In this guest post, author Paul Hannam explains the message of Groundhog Day that inspired his book.
I have read hundreds of books and attended dozens of training events where I am told the same message about personal transformation – you have to change the way you see the world, not try to change the world itself.
This has been the mantra from Buddha all the way to self-help books like The Secret and The 7 Habits. It is supported by research from positive psychology and by a wealth of biographies and personal anecdotes. I completely agree with this message. Indeed I have trained several thousand people on this core idea, both as a management consultant and as a lecturer at Oxford University. Moreover, I believe the best illustration and dramatization of this truth is found in the movie Groundhog Day.
This one movie contains everything you need to know about positive thinking, personal growth and happiness. And it’s very funny too. So on the 15th anniversary of its release, and in the spirit of the Groundhog Day ceremony on February 2, I would like to show how you can leave winter behind and discover the joys of spring!
In the movie, the main character, Phil Connors is trapped in a recurring day — a freezing February day in Punxsutawney. The town never changes; the events and the people never change. Only Phil can change.
It is impossible for Phil to have any control over the external world. Every morning he wakes up and it’s the same day again. He is compelled to find how best to survive and prosper, and decide if this is a curse or maybe a blessing.
Through the brilliance of this plot we can observe Phil as he deals with his unique predicament. We can see how he struggles to find meaning and purpose in his life. Each day he experiments with new thoughts and behaviors and he learns what works and what does not work. Any change that occurs must be inside of him because only he can change – all the other characters repeat exactly what they did the day before.
This shines an intense light on Phil’s ability to change himself. As he struggles through all his flawed strategies based on selfishness, manipulation and instant gratification we learn how empty they really are. Over countless days he learns that what pleasures he thought would make him happy have failed to, and he has to accept that his old self has completely run out of steam.
He is forced to place all his attention on changing the way he interprets the world, on his personal reality, as his external reality is fixed. Once he accepts he is truly stuck, possibly forever, he has nowhere else to go and begins to rebuild his personal reality by changing his attitudes, values, thoughts and feelings. He literally recreates himself by focusing all his attention on inner change, on becoming a more mature, loving and giving person.
He transforms his thoughts and this transforms every part of his life. His journey proves that inner change is the key to our personal growth and happiness better than any other example I can think of. Phil literally transforms the worst day of his life into his best day, and the only thing that changes is his thinking and his actions.
The genius of the time loop means that there are no other variables that could be responsible for the change – the only changes in the town occur because he has changed. What greater lesson in personal transformation is there?
Written by Paul Hannam, author of The Magic of Groundhog Day - Transform your Life Day by Day.
Paul taught at Oxford University and over the last 15 years trained thousands of people in the business and non-profit sector, including courses on Leadership, Sales, Change and Personal Development.
He is also co-founder and President of Bright Green Talent an environmental search firm; Chairman and co-owner of Greenest Host , a web hosting solution that is 100% solar-powered; and co-founder and partner of Enso Ventures a venture fund and incubator for green businesses.
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I’ve never seen this film before but I’ve heard some really great things about it and the lessons it gives the audience. It’s like John Mayer’s Waiting on the World to Change song. How can we expect others to change when we can’t even do it ourselves? Maybe they should make more movies of the same nature.
I highly recommend the movie, and in addition to all we can learn from it, it’s extremely entertaining too.
I too like this “dumb” movie. It works in so many dimensions. My biggest take away was that:
(1) We don’t get to do life over. First time thru is our only time thru.
http://reinkefaceslife.com/2006/08/30/prod-thinking-about-how-we-dont-have-repeatability-in-life-sigh
I too recommend it for repeated viewing. Not as a farce, but as unique insight into the human condition.
Groundhog Day has long been a touchstone of mine, and my appreciation of it grew from a conversation with a friend who *really* disliked it. In fact, he disliked it so much that he figured something must be going on. The more he reflected on it — and the more we talked about it — the more he realized that his own life was stuck in a rut and that somehow for him to get out of it, he will have to change. The more we explored the movie, the more we realized its depth.
Groundhog Day is a great movie. I’ve seen it over and over. It’s almost like reliving the movie every time.
Paul Hannam is right on target with Groundhog Day and its application to personal change. The state that we often find ourselves in is that of wanting the world to change (out of our control) so that we don’t have to. Once we realize that we are the only thing we can change we’re on the road to growth.
I love the secondary point made by the movie (and by Hannam) that the kind of change that Phil undergoes is from selfish and self-centered to caring and other-centered. In doing this he becomes fulfilled and happy. The takeaway here is that we can take the shortcut to happiness and fulfillment by focusing our attention, efforts, and work, not on ourselves, but others.
Paul - great point. Phil finds the direct path to happiness,through love and service, after trying every form of other route (and he has the time to try them all!) I find it amazing & disturbing how as individuals and as a culture, we persevere with the old strategies of seeking power, wealth and status when we know, deep in our hearts, that they will not give us what we really want. Just turn on the news and watch the celebrities stuck in their own Groundhog Day.
“Just turn on the news and watch the celebrities stuck in their own Groundhog Day.” -Hannam
I love it. Sort of reminds you of that hackneyed definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different result.
Looking forward to your book.
This reminds me of one of my favorite bits of advice to me, which is: Assuming that nothing else changed about the world or what other people do, what can I do to make my life better?
Yes - The movie certainly dramatizes the significance of following your advice - because everything stays fixed in time except Phil, and this strikes me as a perfect metaphor for the real world too. We have such little control over other people that they might as well be fixed in time. Think of all the time we waste trying to change our partners, friends and colleagues in order to make us feel better. Where does it get us? We have almost as little control as Phil does in the time loop. It’s down to us to perfect each day and the quality of our life. Change ourselves first and then others might change - if our change is authentic.
“We have such little control over other people that they might as well be fixed in time.” -Hannam
There’s the quantum thought.
If they’re fixed in time then the only way I can help them is to change myself so that they see the change in me, and are inspired to live the same way.
I always thought of “Groundhog Day” as just a funny movie up until just now. Everything you say though is true. Looks like I’m going to have to rent this one and watch it again!
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The power of the mind doesn’t get enough attention. And yet it’s so important! I wrote about it here (extract from Work in Progress):
“Everything begins in the mind. Every skyscraper, every painting, and every custom-made Italian suit were once ideas in someone’s head. Without these ideas, nothing would exist. Without new ideas, nothing will ever change.
“The problem is that most people stifle new ideas without ever giving them a chance to flourish. One of the biggest things that held me back in life was my limiting belief about what was possible. I was always talking about how I couldn’t do this or how I couldn’t be that. Is it really surprising to see that what I believed actually came true?”
Eugene touches on something very important here. Limiting self-beliefs are thoughts that we allow to have authority over us. The key, in ridding ourselves of them, is to realize that WE gave them that authority. We all have the power to give authority to any idea or person. Which means we have a choice. I can choose what and who has authority in my life.
We are extremely powerful creatures.
Yep - you give others authority (or power) over yourself, resulting in feeling inadequate and miserable: the emotional vampires, the assholes that thrive on putting others down (both in relationships and the working place) - until you can all shrug it off - and figure out what their weak spots are…
I was moved the first time I saw this movie years ago by the beauty of Phil’s transformation from a truly awful individual, selfish and totally inconsiderate. Personally, tho’, I just hate the idea that it’s just me that can do anything about my predicament. I will stomp my mental feet, scream a psychic whine in my head, and hold my virtual breath ’til I pass out. “I won’t I won’t I won’t!” I don’t want the power, the choice; I wasn’t consulted. I need more sleep, you don’t understand, the world’s against me- blah blah blah. I just can’t seem to break out of this mindset.
But thanks, all y’all, for keeping reaching out and helping.
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