How to Sell Yourself (and Why Your Career Depends On It)

Hey Peter– thanks for the great article. This is a topic very close to my heart, and something I talk about all the time. No matter what you are “selling”, it all boils down to how much you believe in yourself. The greatest salespeople can sell ice to eskimos because of their belief in themselves and charisma!!

I agree — most people look at selling as conniving and deceitful, but the truth is that selling is involved in everything you do. If you can’t sell and idea to people you’ll never get anywhere.

Thanks Todd.

This topic is also very close to my heart as I have been to a few job interviews lately. As I wrote in the article, selling myself does not always come naturally. That said, I know how important it is so I try to suck it up and just go for it .

I have a very strong aversion to being “sold” something. Whether it is telemarketers or pushy retail sales people, the whole experience often just rubs me the wrong way.

That’s why when it comes to “selling” myself as a life coach for personal development, or “selling” someone on the value of attending one of my seminars or keynotes or even purchasing my book, I think of it as “attracting”.

I know that if I let my passion, excitement and commitment shine through – then the right people will be attracted to me and to what I am “selling”. (And by right people, I mean those that will get real value from the deal.)

Patrick,

You make a great point. When you can create a great product or offer, there is no need for manipulation in selling. If what you are offering a great value to the buyer, than selling is really helping everyone.

Patrick,

I understand what you are saying but I still like the word “sell”. The reason for this is that, in my opinion, it is important to step up and let others know exactly who you are. As someone who is often reserved and shy, I feel I have “shared” myself in plenty of interview to no avail. When I have been more assertive in letting the interviewer know why I am the person for the job, I have had far more success.

Thanks for using self-worth instead of self-esteem… the difference is important!

Another tip for increasing self-worth, by the way, is to write a description of yourself the way someone else would see you. In other words, forget about your past and your thoughts, and describe yourself from the attitude you project, your recent actions, etc… It can help you to give up, at least a little bit, judging yourself so much more harshly than you do others.

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I think the most important point here is that you need to love yourself first. It took me a long time (and a lot of writing) to finally realize that. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t sell yourself. Faking it is not an option because everyone can see right through that!

Fantastic post. The first thing in advertising you are taught is to be able to do an ad on YOURSELF.

If you can’t sell you to yourself, why would anyone else buy you?

“Don’t do anything that will give you cause to feel ashamed later”

That implies an objective moral code (dare I say it – a “moral” code). Very politically incorrect these days ! Don’t you realize there is no “right” or “wrong” – there just “is” – and as one famous former President pointed out – it all depends what on the meaning of “is” is.

I believe much of what you said is really an outward manifestation of an interior condition. Yes – I’m talking about (gasp) the spiritual life.

Read Anneli Rufus’ “Party of One: The Loners’ Manifesto”. This truth to this article is obnoxious

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Great post. Will share this with people that I know of that have this problem. Low self esteem is another key factor in the equation and you can actually perceive this in people that sell somebody else and not themselves.

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I don’t like words like “sell” and “product” related to human beeings. May be you lack some critical distance to modern categories like property, ware, money -> labour etc.

I believe within the work environment you are on ‘show’ but you shouldn’t have to ‘sell’ to have a successful career. As an individual everything you do makes up your personal brand and it is your personal brand that makes you a success or not. Very simply put, if you go the extra mile, deliver high quality work, exceed customers expectations, build great relationships, volunteer for extra tasks, etc, etc, 9 times out of 10, you will be ‘seen’ and have a great prosperous career. You don’t have to sell yourself, but you have to be seen by doing some of the things I mention.

Andrew

Consider, you had told a slave: “Today, you have to know how to sell yourself!”

I don’t think it requires an objective moral code, Jim, a subjective one will do just fine.

And what you said, GreatManagement, essentially IS selling… if you go the extra mile, deliver high quality work, build great relationships, etc… those are the key elements of selling.

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I think this one has potential to bring more stress in our already stressful lives… there are some people who are simply introvert and shy and putting themselves out is not what they are… (and people should be themselves, no?)
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Hi Jason,

Maybe my definition of ‘selling’ and yours is different. I see ‘going the extra mile, deliver high quality work, build great relationships, etc’ help your get noticed within the working environment.

I suppose I saw the word ‘selling’ and automatically thought about boasting, shouting from the rooftops, telling everyone how good you are. You don’t have to do that.

Andrew

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“Be Sold on Yourself”. Selling can be seen as a dirty word. People get put off. Maybe using a softer word like ‘chat’. It’s a softer approach and lowers the level of anxiety.

Ultimately it comes down to level of belief and your attitude. If you believe you will succeed.

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Not a bad article, but too simple of advice. I’d like to see more.

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wow, wonderful and inspiring as ever on my journey.
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thank you for your advice. I have a job interview tomorrow a group one speaking infront of others which is the worst scenario for me but i wil continue reading ur article in the morning before i leave to reinforce these ideas thank u for the article

Great advice here.

remember selling superstars have a great mix of ego and empathy so when they (we) get knocked down we just bounce straight back up again and get stuck in.

A great saying to remember is this:-

“it’s not how hard you fall, but how high you bounce”

William….
The Strategic Sales Trainer
http://www.strategicsellingsystem.com/NewRules

i really love this article. I will not remain the same in my ability to sell my ideas. the sky is our stepping stone.
thank u

it’s a must 2 known about this things if u want a scsses

I got the job everyone!! Good luck to all! Just believe in yourself even if u feel less than anyone else sometimes.Thanks

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This is great, and if you have ever been involved in sales or selling then you may well relate to some of these – and hey please grow the list, I am sure there are a lot more out there that I have not even heard of!

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Hi Guys,

I’ve been in the personal development game for a very long time…and one thing I’ve learned that makes a huge difference is: Act as if your success is already certain

Simply the fake it till you make rule!

AJ Kumar

GREAT!!! – I DO LOVE YOUR POSITIVE THINKING – I AM IN A SITUATION WHERE THIS IS PROBABLY A HUNDRED YEARS IN THE FUTURE — I HAVE ALWAYS HAD A PROBLEM IN EXACTLY HOW TO BUILD BELIEF IN MYSELF – I OFTEN TAKE ON JOBS I DIDNT DARE BELIEVE I COULD FINISH-AND I WAS SUCCESSFUL AND I EARNED MORE RESPECT AND ADMIRATION THAN I EVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE-BUT THIS DOES NOT ANSWER THE QUESTION – HOW DO YOU BUILD BELIEF IN YOURSELF FROM THE SOCIAL ANGLE-TO GO OUT AND SAY I CAN INDEED DO THIS NEEDS YOUR(AMERICAN) SOCIAL STRUCTURE WHERE EVERYBODY IS VERY POSITIVE -EVERYONE SURROUNDING ME IS VERY “SELF IMPOSSIBLE” SO…

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I agree — most people look at selling as conniving and deceitful, but the truth is that selling is involved in everything you do. If you can’t sell and idea to people you’ll never get anywhere.

I needed to read this article. I have struggled with looking at myself in a positive way. I know I can write copy for products & services for other people, but when it came to selling myself I didn’t know where to begin.

I have had such a negative attitude about my abilities compared to other writers. This article has opened my eyes to see myself in a different light. Thank you

What a great piece of writing, nice you published it. Muchos gracias .

Simply put, you must be sold on you before you can sell yourself to anyone else. Nice article.

i think that it’s going to be hard to get a job, except if yours is skill based like accountancy, law, I.T., etc. because most companies would like a team player, someone that is good with people. In selling, loner or not, loner by default but not by choice (meaing just plain shy, or has a low self-worth)
if you are planning to take on the job sales, i think that you ought not be loner.

just fly with the eagles man

To all,

I believe that I can sell anything that I believe in and that includes myself particularly when it comes to math, science, and finance. These are my special talents. We all have some things that we do better than almost everyone else. Thus, if you can’t sell yourself, I believe that you are trying to sell something about yourself that you don’t buy. If anyone has a position for someone like me, please submit a comment with some way to contact you.

Well framed, Peter. 

Being Real and Authentic are both powerful ways to have everything else fall into place.  When I’m real, then there’s no need to feel awkward.  There’s nothing to figure out or cover up…  And when I’m feeling more comfortable, I’m naturally more pleasant, and more focused on other people.

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Thanks so much for that article! Filing it away in case I need to bring it out later on.