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7 Simple Ways to Boost Your Mood, Right Now

We all feel a bit down at times. Perhaps you’ve had a stressful day at work, or you’re juggling a lot of different tasks at home. Maybe your plans haven’t gone as smoothly as you’d hoped, or you’re struggling to find your path in a complex world.
When you’re feeling low, it’s easy to let your mood get on top of you: by snapping at your partner or kids, or procrastinating on your work, or even turning to drugs or alcohol. There are plenty of simple ways to boost your mood, though – so next time you feel bad, try one of these:

#1: Walk

Walking is one of my all-time favorite activities. It combines healthy exercise and fresh air, and it’s almost guaranteed to make me feel better about whatever’s getting me down.

Even if you just walk around the block, you’ll be getting your blood pumping and your body moving. You’ll put some space between yourself and whatever’s bothering you. Within just a few minutes, you’ll often find that you feel much calmer.

#2: Laugh

You might have heard the saying that “Laughter is the best medicine.” You’ve probably experienced this at time when you’ve felt upset or annoyed – a good laugh can instantly make you feel okay again.

Whether it’s a silly website or a video on YouTube, your kids’ antics or a humorous novel, think of something that’s pretty much guaranteed to make you laugh – and keep it on hand for the next time you need to boost your mood.

#3: Chat

Talking to a good friend can make you feel much better, especially if you’re a bit lonely or worried about something. You might not need or want advice on a particular situation – but a sympathetic ear can make things seem much better.

Don’t be afraid to reach out to people and let them know that you’re struggling. Maybe you feel that you have to put on a strong front for the world – but your friends and family will want to be supportive.

#4: Write

One of the best ways to work through worries or other negative feelings is to write about them. The process of writing helps you to clarify and structure your thoughts, and it can be more effective than simply talking about what you’re feeling.

If you’ve been feeling a bit low over several days or weeks, you might want to keep a journal to help you analyze your mood. This can help you spot patterns (perhaps you feel more positive on some days than on others) and you can also try brainstorming ways to make life happier.

#5: Shower

A long, relaxing shower (or a bath) can make a huge difference to your mood. It’s often invigorating, especially if you’re struggling to focus on whatever task’s at hand – and it can be a much-needed chance for some peaceful time alone.

You might even like to buy some nice shower gel or bath bubbles to save for when you need a pick-me-up. Giving yourself a small treat can help you feel better about things.

#6: Eat

If your blood sugar drops too low, you’ll find yourself getting tired and cranky, and struggling to focus. When you’re fighting your way through a long to-do list, you might forget to eat, or end up grabbing something sugary in a hurry – which usually leads to an energy and mood crash.

A healthy snack or meal can lift your mood instantly. Keep some snacks on hand at work (perhaps oatcakes or fresh fruit) and make sure you’ve got a few simple, healthy, fast recipes on hand for busy evenings.

#7: Breathe

This is one of the simplest things you can do, in any circumstances: take a few seconds just to breathe. Concentrate on the breath going in and out of your body. You might want to close your eyes. With each exhale, feel the tension leaving you. As you inhale again, think of the life-giving air that sustains you.

This is a great technique if you’re stressed out about a difficult task, or if you’re getting angry. It helps you draw your focus away from the rush of the present moment so that you can see things from a broader perspective. Often, you’ll realize what seems vitally important right now won’t even matter in a month’s time.

 

Do you have any great ways to lift your mood? Share your thoughts and tips in the comments…

 

  • Mischiefmuttntx

    Excellent suggestions i am favoriting this column, Thanks!!

  • http://www.stampinnatural.com/ Pamela

    Needed these tips a couple of hours ago.  Grrrr.  Played with the cat and her laser light, petted the dog.  Fixed some popcorn.  I’m good now.  Thanks for posting!

  • amy

    I’m always a fan of going for a walk or exercising when I’m stressed. I plug into my iPod and for the next 30-45 minutes I shut off my brain. I walk away feeling about 100x better! Thanks for the other suggestions, I’ll have to give them a try as well :)

    • http://yourthirdspace.com/ Personia

      Haha, lol, ‘walk away’ ;) :P

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  • http://conversation-skills-core.com/ Dean| Conversation Skills Core

    # 1 – Yup! #2 – Eddie Izzard ready on Ipod #4 750 words! #7…I always forget to do this one. Great reminder post!

  • http://conversation-skills-core.com/ Dean| Conversation Skills Core

    # 1 – Yup! #2 – Eddie Izzard ready on Ipod #4 750 words! #7…I always forget to do this one. Great reminder post!

  • http://www.makethemgreat.com/ Jason Scott

    Great suggestions Ali. One thing I like to do is put on my headphones and have a damned good boogie!  The family call me nuts, but they love that it makes me happy.

  • Jhg

    I sometimes just pray, it gives me some mental peace!

  • http://www.hang-in-there.com/ Vic Lawrence

    Some people forget that the best to clear your head and relax is just to BREATHE. Thanks for the friendly reminder.

  • SpeedDemon

    Great advice I be sure to use some of these when I need a mood change 

  • http://PracticeThis.com/ Alik Levin

    #6 is a sure fire one for me… speaking of fire it sometimes backfires at me when I am feeling down, meaning i need more to eat tog et back to good moods, and eating more adds more fat to my body which. Not a good thing, but yeah #6 is definitely quick fix.

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    Nice post.  Seeking tips to have a better mindset will help anyone achieve the things they desire.

  • http://twitter.com/revenginedave Advertzones Dave

    Most wonderful tips, especially on a day like this when it seems the world woke up on the wrong side of me.

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  • Billpolm

    One that works for me is to list and think about all I have going, the positive things in my life, like good health, food to eat, a roof over my head, and the people in my life.  It’s a sort of rational: “there is no real reason to be down; look at what you’ve got going.”  This detracts me from any negative or fearful thinking, but I have to persist in such redirected thinking for a bit for it to work for me.

  • Mpl1151

    I just go in my room, sit, relax, closed my eyes and listen to old time favorite musics…but your suggestions are excellent. I’m happy today because I discovered Pickthe brain.

  • Aimannazik

    good suggestions .
     

  • Markjewellmd

    If you’re depressed, you’re missing positive emotion in your life. The good news? Adding it back in could be as easy as making someone else happy. 

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