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7 Must Read Success Lessons from Stephen Covey

Stephen R. Covey is the author of the best-selling book “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.” His book has sold more than 15 million copies around the world since it was first published in 1989.

Covey believes that success occurs when you align your values with the universal and timeless principles that exist in our world. Covey teaches that values govern people’s behavior, but principles ultimately determine the consequences.

Covey has also written several other books including: “First Things First,” “Principle-Centered Leadership,” “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families,” and “The 8th Habit.”

Covey is currently a professor at the Jon M. Huntsman School of Business at Utah State University.

There’s a lot we can learn from Stephen Covey, so without further a due….

7 Must Read Success Lessons from Stephen Covey:

1. Know That Your Character is Critical

“Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character.”

Watch your habits; your habits will determine your character and your character will determine your life. You cannot rise any higher than the fortitude of your character. Your character is the foundation for your life, so if you want to change your life, you must first change your character.

2. Schedule Your Priorities
“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”

Schedule your priorities. If it’s important, it must be scheduled. What you don’t schedule won’t get done. Know your priorities, and center your day on those activities.

Which brings me to my next point…

3. Never Forget the Main Thing
“The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”

Never lose sight of the “big picture,” keep the main thing the main thing. Broken focus is the number one reason people fail. It’s not enough to start off on the right track; you must successfully avoid the unnecessary distractions and attractions of life which aim to sidetrack you.

Keep the main thing, the main thing!

4. Use Your Imagination

“Live out of your imagination, not your history.”

Your imagination pre-plays your future! Use your imagination to create the future that you desire.

You can’t progress very far looking out of the rear view mirror of life; use your imagination to look ahead.

See your future as bright; if you can see it and believe it, you can have it. Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can, or whether you think you can’t – you’re right.”

5. First Things First

“Effective leadership is putting first things first.”

To be a great leader you must put “first things first;” you must be able to distinguish the critical from the insignificant, and you must always place the critical first: First in order, first in priority, and first in rank.

If you place the critical first, and if you give the critical your focus and your attention, the “effectiveness” of your leadership will soar.

6. Change, Choice and Principles

“There are three constants in life… change, choice and principles.”

Change, choice and principles give you the power to achieve your dreams.

You can change your life, if you align your choices with the timeless principles that produce success.

With the weapons of change, choice and principles, impossibilities become possibilities.

7. Remember That Decisions Decide Destinies

“We are not animals. We are not a product of what has happened to us in our past. We have the power of choice.”

Covey said, “We are the creative force of our life, and through our own decisions rather than our conditions, if we carefully learn to do certain things, we can accomplish those goals.”

Your decisions will ultimately decide where you go in this life; you’re not limited by the accomplishments of your parents, and you’re not confined to the achievements of your peers. You can achieve whatever you believe you can achieve, and you can do whatever you believe you can do.

The sky is your limit; the world is your oyster.

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  • http://www.blog.iqmatrix.com Adam Sicinski

    When scheduling priorities I tend to focus on the 80/20 Rule. I prioritize the 20% of tasks that will get me 80% of the results. It doesn’t always work in accordance with these percentages, however when you consider the bigger picture and the larger objective that I seek to achieve, it helps me focus on the most important things.

  • http://fithappyhealthy.com/blog Anita

    Excellent list and good clarification. It would be great if us humans could just understand all these early in life. Unfortunately (or fortunately), most people need a life experience to find one or two of these resonating and really making sense.

    Thanks for a great post :)

    • http://www.pickthebrain.com Eric Tan

      Quite agree with you,there are a lot way to be success,and most important is that us humans should find out a few ways which is really helpful to us.and it also takes a long way,rome was not built in one day.keep on ,and thanks for the author.

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    Yeah.. and one need to comes out from their comfort zone and take courage to try..
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  • http://www.realwebseo.com/ Belly Cole

    Wow….Stephen R. Covey’s book! I interested his books so much. ;)

  • http://effortlessabundance.com Mark Harrison

    Great stuff. It’s a book I keep returning to again and again. The first habit, ‘be proactive,’ is the key to everything. We are responsible for our experience of life and, at an often subconscious level, we are in control.

  • http://economicrebirth.blogspot.com/ Peter DellOlio

    I think that people all over the world are beginning to see that self improvement and energizing our own dreams will have a profound effect on the world economy.

    People need to get back to creating new ways of doing business, and providing for their families.

  • Dandy R. Reiner

    Covey’s book is one that changed my life for the better. I read it 10 years ago & still think it’s the most brilliant thing. It really helped me to manage my time and prioritize my life. It also helped me be a better college student. I would have struggled greatly without it.

  • http://www.voidjumping.com Forrest

    Point #2 (Scheduling your priorities) is so essential but so difficult to do when my to do list is so long and there are more pressing tasks that must be done. Often times its those items that will have the greatest benefit in the long term that get put off for the short term tasks that really shouldn’t matter as much.

  • http://pickthebrain.com gonzalo suarez

    Thanks, It has been a long time since I studied the 7 habits. Dependence- Independence – Interdependence, what a valuable lesson these habits provided.

  • http://www.top-online-colleges.com/ Wayne

    Thanks for this great list! Stephen R. Covey’s books have helped me a lot!

  • Pam Osorio

    Thank-you Stephen. I truly appreciate what your wisdom has done for our lives.You are amazing!

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  • http://mimosaplanet.com James Cooper

    Nice Post.
    Covey’s book still remains in my list of top 5 personal effectiveness resources. A scheduled task is a completed task.

  • http://robert-thompson.blogspot.com Rob

    Once you’ve chosen your values, live them visibly every day at work and at home. Living your values is one of the most powerful tools available to you to help you be the person you want to be, to help you accomplish your goals and dreams, and to help you lead and influence others. This may necessitate changes in the way that you approach things and how you view things that happen in your life. Don’t be afraid of making that change to fulfill meeting your personal values; this is part of our life’s journey.

  • http://enlightr.com Craig Thomas

    Nice post, never never Covery had so many quotes. Interesting.

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  • Sohan

    I think “Don’t prioritize your schedule, but schedule your priorities” has a deeper meaning as Covey tells us in his book. We may have umpteen number of things to do today, and we may schedule them cleverly and finish the task. But those things may nowhere be related to our greater vision and purpose in life. It’s here that scheduling your priorities or organizing and executing around your priorities comes in picture. We got to be people who invest in P/PC balance, the second quadrant of the Time Management Matrix he gives. To go ahead if we just prioritize our schedule, we are being lead by the outer circumstances that surround us. If we schedule our priorities, we are leading from inside – out approach. We are leaders in true sense!
    Sohan.