Why You’re Not Reaching Your Goals (And What to Do About It)

What’s a million dollar idea worth? Not much. Unlike most things, the value of an idea is not inherent to the idea, but is a function of the owner of the idea. A cello in my hands is worth very little, but a cello in Yo-Yo Ma’s hands is worth millions. Why is that? You might remember from 7th grade science class that potential energy is an object’s built up or stored energy while an object’s kinetic energy is the energy it has as a result of its movement. Your idea, goal, wish, hope, or aspiration has potential energy. Your ability to convert an idea’s potential energy into kinetic energy determines its value. Your job is to convert your desire to start a business, lose weight, learn Japanese, make more money, or get a job into income producing, joy bringing, life affirming kinetic energy.

I want you to write this down and stick it to the fridge, on your dashboard, and in your bathroom. The formula for achieving anything is blindingly simple:

THINK   +   START   +   FINISH   =   ACHIEVEMENT

THINK. The first stage is to THINK. What do you want to achieve? What are your goals? What’s that one thing you’ve been dreaming of doing for years? All great things start with an idea. Whether you know it or not, you have ideas, goals, and dreams that are coiled up just waiting to be discovered. It’s been said Americans spend more time planning their summer vacation than they do planning their retirement. My guess is we spend more time going to the bathroom each day than we spend each month focused on our goals/future.

Nothing is achieved without first a thought, a spark, a mental itch. Even if you feel stuck or have no idea what you want from life, your job is to THINK for just a few minutes a day. Warning: coming up with ideas and goals is a lot of fun, but because it’s easy and takes little effort, this is where most people stop. To achieve, you can’t stop here, you must…

START. Ideas and goals are powerful because they create potential energy. In order to unleash this potential energy into movement, you must START. This is a critical step because it requires action in order to turn the ethereal into the tangible. If your goal is to start a business, at some point you need to get out of your head and take action. Once you’ve designed your exercise program, you need to dust off your sneakers and START. If you’ve determined the best way to make more money is by going back to school, you need to START by registering and attending class.

The START stage is exciting because the release of potential energy into action can be euphoric. For the first time in maybe a long time you may feel a sense of direction and accomplishment, but as important as it is to START, it’s not enough. In order to reach your goals, you must…

FINISH. This is where champions are made, goals are reached, and lives are enriched. Having the idea to write a book is inspiring. Sitting down at the computer and cranking out a few pages is encouraging. But only actually holding a completed manuscript in your hands is fulfilling. When you FINISH you’ve fully converted an idea’s potential energy into kinetic energy.

Most people START, but few FINISH. Roy Johnson, editor of Men’s Fitness, is passionate about finishing. He told me “Anyone can be a starter. You want to be a finisher.”  A finisher separates the winners from the wanters.

Not convinced? If you trace back all of your proudest accomplishments, you’ll find they all started with a thought, which lead to action, which lead to achievement. Want to be a dreamer? THINK. Want to be a doer? START. Want to be an achiever? FINISH.

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  • http://www.simplelifepath.com Brent

    I think you have it in a nutshell. Persistence is the key in anything you do but also I think adaptation. Success is keeping your eye on the goal but willing to alter the path you are on to ensure you really make the finish line.

  • Richard Bacher

    Agree with everything but you’re only outlining what the ideal scenario is…what about the hurdles? How about estimating? You start, then you found you underestimated.

    People often never start because they, rationally so, want to try and see all the hurdles beforehand so they don’t start running only to find a cliff in front of them!

    Need articles about estimating! Need articles about working full-time and wanting to build a business… how much should I plan before I do?… how many hours might it take?… how do people measure when it’s a good time to get out of the plan and jump into the doing!

  • http://www.peppervirtualassistant.com/ Daryl George Enriquez

    I think this is a good way of giving a whole new perspective on how to achieve something. A lot of people are just stuck with the “think” part – some until “start”. Only a few make it to finish and then achievement.

    I agree with Richard when he mentioned above that this is what to do ideally when you want to achieve something — but how about if you are faced with some difficult situation? What should you do about it? There is a big possibility that someone might not continue with finishing a particular goal because something “bad” came up along the way.

    I suggest that you should also put the “motivation” part in between THINK + START + FINISH. There should be a driving force that could make them hold on to finishing what they had started.

    Anyhow, you have made a wonderful post in here. Thanks for putting this up.

  • http://www.planetnaveen.com Naveen | Winning Ideas

    Completely agree. Achievement is nothing but finishing what we started. A clear goal, quality efforts and a sincere heart , all it takes to achieve great things in life.

    Thanks for the article
    Naveen

  • http://increasingworkplaceproductivity.net Bojan Djordjevic

    A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. … Lao-tzu’s timeless words still resound.

  • http://www.Mazzastick.com Justin

    One good habit that I developed is completing projects that I started. I’ve never had a problem in this area an I intend to keep to it.

    I do sometimes have trouble starting projects due to time constraints or the monetary cost.

    I found out that if I “just do it” and move ahead, all the resources that I need will manifest themselves to me.

  • http://www.craigharper.com.au/news/my-new-book-the-self-help-sledgehammer/ Self Help Book – Craig Harper

    Finish what you start. Many of us are great at starting, crap at finishing. Doesn’t matter how smart you are, or how much potential or talent you have, if you only ever half-do stuff; the ‘Master of Incompletion‘. Success is less about talent and potential, and more about commitment. Have yourself committed. So to speak.

  • Chetan

    What I like most is THINK + START + FINISH = ACHIEVEMENT

    Chetan

  • Karl

    Great article! If you just Start you are already half way there to achiving your goals. The key is to keep that momentum going.

  • http://www.peppervirtualassistant.com Jay Costan

    I think the ability to finish what you started is what makes the process more worthwhile. If you think about what you have achieved and what you have gone through for you after completing the process, then it makes real sense to the world. It doesn’t really mean that you have to succeed at the end of it. Like what Oprah said – as long as you enjoyed the process, then it’s not failure at all.

  • http://www.goalsontrack.com Harry @ GoalsOnTrack

    Great advice. Finish is always the hardest.

  • Brennan Burch

    Right, but what do you do when you’re cycle is Think+Start+Finish=Indifferent Reception?

  • Bernie_cole

    I set a lot of goals for myself. I used to accomplish less than half of them because I wasn’t approaching them in the right way. The goals I set weren’t always clear and I couldn’t keep track of everything. I found this online organizer a couple of months ago and it has made all the difference. I can now easily follow the plans I make, and the plans themselves are now clear. It’s awesome.