How to Enjoy Life

Written by Peter Clemens - 94 Comments
Categories: motivation

Morning sunrise in the mountains

In The Magic of Starting Small, I made the point that it is your days that define your life. In this article, I want to challenge the common perception that it is only possible to enjoy your leisure time. In particular, this article is targeted at the professional stuck in the 9 to 5 grind who longs for the weekend and, in the process, has given up on trying to find pleasure in the ordinary experiences we have every day.

1. Appreciate Beauty. Each day we come across beauty in a number of shapes and forms. It’s a shame, then, that many people have become so accustomed to this beauty that it largely goes unappreciated. I suggest looking again at the people, plants, gadgets, and buildings (to name but a few examples) around you and taking a moment to appreciate what makes them so special.

2. Connect With Nature. Nature is an amazing healer for the stresses and strains of modern life. Eating lunch in the park, attending to a vegetable garden in your backyard, or watching the sunset are just a few simple ideas for how you can enjoy the outdoors on a daily basis.

3. Laugh. E. E. Cummings once said “the most wasted of all days is one without laughter.” How very true. Never be too busy to laugh, or too serious to smile. Instead, surround yourself with fun people and don’t get caught up in your own sense of importance.

4. Have Simple Pleasures. A good cup of coffee when I first wake. Time spent playing with my 8 month old son. Cooking a nice meal in the evening. These may not seem terribly exciting, but they are some of the simple pleasures I enjoy in life. If you slow down for just a moment and take the time to appreciate these ordinary events, life becomes instantly more enjoyable.

5. Connect With People. In so many ways, it is our relationships with people that give us the most happiness in life. Perhaps, then, the best way to enjoy your work more is not to get a raise or a promotion, but rather to build rewarding relationships with your co-workers.

6. Learn. There is a strong link between learning and happiness. Given this, there is no excuse not to be stimulating your brain and learning something new each day. My favorite way to find time for learning is to make the most of the commute to and from work. Audiobooks and podcasts are great for this purpose.

7. Rethink Your Mornings and Evenings. Are the mornings a mad rush for you to get out the door? Do you switch off the TV at night and go straight to bed? I have personally experienced the profound benefits of establishing a routine in the morning and evening. For example, in the morning you may choose to wake an hour earlier and spend the time working on yourself, whether it be reading, writing or exercising. In the evening, consider spending some time just before bed reviewing your day or in meditation.

8. Celebrate Your Successes. During a normal day we are sure to have some minor successes. Perhaps you have successfully dealt with a difficult customer, made a sale, or received a nice compliment for your work. These aren’t events worth throwing a party for, but why not take a moment to celebrate your success? Share the experience with someone else, reward yourself with a nice lunch, or just give yourself a mental pat on the back.

Peter writes about how to change your life at The Change Blog. He also runs a blog for audio book lovers called Audio Book Downloads.

Image by Robby Edwards

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    Great article, this is starting to become my favorite non-trading blog.

  • http://www.pickthebrain.com John Wesley

    Bubs,

    I couldn’t agree more about the article. I’m glad you’ve been enjoying the site recently.

  • http://www.iwillchangeyourlife.com Peter

    I think it’s a great article too! I’m a bit biased though :) . Glad to hear people are enjoying it.

  • http://www.wethechange.com Todd Goldfarb

    LOVE the point about the morning and evenings…this is a great way to become more effective. Nice work Peter (and John)!

  • http://www.pickthebrain.com John Wesley

    Glad you liked it Todd. I agree on that point as well — finding time for thought and solitude at the beginning and end of the day has made a huge impact in terms of peace of mind. The credit is all Peter’s — I didn’t change a word.

  • http://www.amiracleaday.com Jason

    Nice article, Peter… I really liked it. Getting rid of the internal pressure to rush is a key component of happiness.

  • http://ravivora.com/blog Ravi Vora

    I’d say #9 is “Do what you love.” Whatever it is, small or big, if you love what you do you’re sure to enjoy life.

  • http://www.iwillchangeyourlife.com Peter

    Ravi: you have identified what is perhaps the best way to enjoy life every day: do what you love. I did not include it in this list, though, as I wanted to make simple suggestions that people can immediately start doing. For some people “doing what they love” comes naturally, but for many (like myself) it is something that does not come so easily and therefore is something to be worked towards in the medium/ long term.

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  • http://www.thegeminiweb.com/babyboomer/ Rhea

    These 8 tips are things I do instinctually. Glad to see I’m on the right road. They work.

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  • http://www.LivSimpl.com LivSimpl

    Great ideas. I especially like the “enjoy simple pleasures” – we all have them, I think we just don’t realize it. Recognizing and focusing on them can make a big difference.

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  • http://www.mmmeeja.com Andy

    Mmmmmmmmm, simple pleasures…

    A build up of small joys every day – and at the weekend – are what drive me forward. Sunshine, laughter, reading a newspaper with a cold beer, making my own sausages and, above all, the sheer absurdity of life.

    A story that always makes me smile whenever I tell it goes like this…

    I was in my favourite bar, reading the newspaper and enjoying a beer in the afternoon, when in walked a morris dancer (for non UK readers, see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morris_dance). In costume, with bells jingling.

    He ordered a beer and sat down. Then another entered and did the same.

    One by one about forty of them came into the bar and ordered a beer, accompanied by the sound of bells on their clothes. With so many of these guys in an enclosed space, their bells and laughter were overwhelming.

    Then they left, one by one, each jingling gently.

  • http://www.pickthebrain.com John Wesley

    Haha, nice despcription. Thst sounds like an enjoyable scene. :)

  • http://thepete.com ThePete

    I definitely agree with the sentiment behind this article, but I’m a little concerned that too much adherence to this philosophy will breed stagnation. I look around at the world and see a planet filled with a lack of forward motion. Your philosophy strikes me as a case of “accepting your lot in life and learning to enjoy it.”

    I could be mistaken.

    However, I’d like to repeat that I agree with the sentiment here–I think it’s important to do all of the above–but without a mechanism for encouraging more than this, I’m afraid we as a people will stop progressing. We’re practically at a standstill as it is.

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    The article reminds me of one of the quote I like ” Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindness, and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort.”

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    Nice list. I find tweaking negs to positives works quite well for my enjoyment here.

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    great ideas, my experiences with item 1 is I watched sunset whenever I was at home for around 2 years when I lived in an apartment facing south west and took a picture for it. felt peaceful and blessing every time.

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    Each of these ways is so true. I believe the power of laughter to help you enjoy life is often overlooked, possibly because it is misused in that people make fun of others. Yet you are so right to point out that laughter is a key way to enjoy life.

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    How about dishing out everlasting, brutal vengeance on your enemies? That’s got to be one of the best things in life.

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    I agree, live life to the full, enjoy the music of the world around you and love, dance, party. one life, live it.

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    DAMN! if everyone know how to enjoy life in positive way like this. there aint no fighting and arguing no more! lets LOVE one another…ayt? PEACE

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  • optimist

    be positive in life & look forward believing in yourself and others – for yesterday is only a memory of the past.

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    very nice article!

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    happy every moment bring me great happy ness

  • suresh

    Be positive be happy and important thing is don’t repend

  • Jesse Christopher

    Seems like a few things have been forgotten…
    Namely: Faith, Love and everyday gratitude. Chose to be happy regardless of circumstance and life becomes… guess what… happier.
    Without these the rest is meaningless. But I guess they wouldn’t come to mind if you’ve never experienced them in a real way.

  • krish

    feeling imprisioned by powerful people (rather bosses) rediculed by the rich lads (how long to close eyes on thier flautings) sad at the thought of this planet being recklessly exploited by these walking creature, over populated human world unpritictable days

  • AsiF

    Ever watched the film “Sweet November” !!!! ??

    BTW hanging out with friends is the most best thing, even after just a minor success or ANYTHING …..

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    Jusy tweeted your site. If you love what you do for work, it is not work. Being productive, contributing, getting involved in your community and enjoying a family is key.

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    Peter,

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  • AHMED IZAR

    THIS IS SO FASCINATING AS READ THIS BLOG I COULD FEEL THE EMOTION AND MAYBE ITS A WAY TO GET OUT OF THE CONFUSION INSIDE MY HEAD

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    now a days people are spending days without heart full smiling. your suggestion is so nice

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  • Anisur rasul

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  • http://www.pauldyer.com Dr Paul Dyer

    What a tragic notion that we can only enjoy our leisure time. All of life is to be enjoyed! Thank you for providing some practical tips to get there. Perhaps the most practical thing of all, is to spend our life energies fulfilling our life’s purpose, then the distinction between work and play gets very blurry.

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  • Mārtiņš

    these are really good tips, thanks alot, i hope i will be able to use them.

  • Pete

    Thanks for the great post. Good advice! Work day to day can be extremely difficult. Is the answer to enjoy what you do or do what you enjoy? It’s tough. Thanks for you insight though.

    I stumbled upon this blog like I did yours. Though their insight on work was very meaningful: http://burisonthecouch.wordpress.com/2009/12/31/our-house/

    Thanks for the post! I’d love to see more like it.

  • sania

    A thing of beauty is a joy for ever..
    Its loveliness increases, it will never

    pass into nothingness,but still will keep
    A bower quite for us , and a sleep

    Full of sweet dreams, and health and quite breathing,
    Therefore,on every morrow are we wreathing.

    A flowery band bind us to the earth ,
    Spite of despondence,of the human dearth…..

    A thing of beauty is a joy for ever..
    Its loveliness increases, it will never

  • vishal

    this is a great article. this has to be read by all the professionals of the contemporary era

  • DK

    i like it

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    I love number 8. I always do it and still enjoying this thing. Rewarding yourself for a success is the nicest thing you can do to yourself. A shopping or a tour to your most love places.

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    I really enjoy reading about living your life. It is so important to reclaim what was lost. Sometimes we don’t even know we lost it. We get caught up in the race of life and don’t take time to settle down except to sleep.

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  • Susana

    Can you recommend me a book

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    How Does This Help To Enjoy Life I Need Something Thats Fun Exciting Young And Alive.

  • Henry James

    By appreciating the beauty of nature is by thanking
    the creator. Be thankful in everything whatever you’ve
    been through. Enjoy each day and share it to anothers.
    really enjoy reading your blog…

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    nice tips

  • Mr.obvious

    So many people that write about the working life and having a good life. I was looking for another answer, sure i can find it but not on the internet…. All this things you write is pretty much obvious and leads on the a hint that says……BREAK FREE FROM SOCIETY. So i was looking for the answer of the guy that did that and really learned how to enjoy life….. and then i thought to my self, a man who is enjoying really enjoying his life is not using his time on the internet.
    obvious….in`t it?

    :(

  • never know

    Mr obvious… i think you have a good point. we often use the internet like a drug.

    but i think the enjoyment factor comes to with having presence with what we are doing. making choices about the things one wants to be doing. So, it depends on that persons idea of enjoyment. i think that everyone can take pleasure doing different things. if you are zoning out on the internet to escape reality.. no, the internet is not necessarily good. however, the internet can be a great tool. what i have come to see is that breaking free from society will not ail all your woes… rather, finding your own path within society can be possible and allow you a contented life. just don’t be dictated by society… which is super difficult since as humans we are soooo connected. i am seeking that balance.. to live life contented and able to manage the pain that comes with being alive. it aint easy! :-P good luck to you. there are plenty of communes and sustainable communities out there. i hope they find you!

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  • Sonam Agrawal

    Owesomeeeeeeeeee……….. Really such a nice suggestion.Infact after reading that i actual feel frm my internal soul.It’s easy tips to enjoy life.
    Will definately follow that.
    Hey Thanks……..

  • tulasa

    its better to b alone than being humilated.

  • sunaina

    smile,when you really feel depresed

  • ritu

    i m very sad in my life i m bore all people are selfish & lyer so how to i feel i live beetween the mean people

  • Raymond

    Life is more than just living it. Enjoy it! Nice write up, am gonna save ds page to read everyday.

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    hi there:) I see that we share the same thoughts:) And it makes me happy:) Keep up the good work, sharing your thoughs and making all uf us aware that life is truly beautiful:) renate-

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  • Thomas

    Awesome article – I will also add one more and that is to share good news with others. We all come across with good news everyday, but many choose to ignore them and just read bad news. I have started a new website just to post good news – and you know what, by searching them, I found so many good news that are unreported. For example, job sector, do most people know that the tech sector in USA is now enjoying the LOWEST unemployment rate in history? Not even 3%, and yet, we don’t see this reported?

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    Nice, simple and usefull… Thanks!

  • soraya

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