Relationships

7 Common Reasons Relationships Fail

Failed relationships are one of the biggest causes of stress and unhappiness in life. Working on successful relationships, whether they are with our children, parents, friends or partners, is one of the most important life skills we can learn. If we cannot maintain lasting relationships, we will always struggle to be happy.

This article looks at seven common reasons why once harmonious relationships break down. If we know why relationships are liable to break down we can avoid the pain involved.

Jealousy

It is ironic that we can easily become jealous of our closest friends. Jealousy often occurs when there is a feeling of separation and competition. We need to learn to be happy at the success of others; it only when we can feel a sense of oneness with others achievements that jealousy will remain far away.

Also, we need to trust our partner -  a suspicious mind is very poisonous. It is better to be trusting rather always suspecting infidelity or disloyalty. Others will be rightly discomforted if we mistrust them. If our partner lets us down, it is not our fault. But, if we suspect, because of our own insecurity, we are bound to create serious problems in our own relationships.

Attachment

There is a big difference between real love and emotional attachment. When we have emotional attachment to someone, we need their attention and presence. When we have excessive attachment to others, we can easily become jealous and demanding. Often attachment occurs out of a sense of insecurity; if this is the case we need to develop self belief and inner confidence, we can’t just rely on other people to provide that. Strong relationships need a certain detachment; we need to be able to accept others for what they are, rather than expecting them to give us all their attention.

Domination

Even the closest relationships need to value the individual freedom of others. Problems will inevitably occur when we seek to dominate others. Often this takes the form of expectation. We want our son to become a certain person; we want our wife to live in a certain way.

Often people don’t realize how dominating they are. Parents justify to themselves the idea that they ‘only want the best for their children’ But, actually what they are doing is trying to live through their children. Nobody has the right to tell someone how they must live. If relationships are based on this expectation and domination, there will inevitably be conflict at some stage. The strongest relationships are based on mutual understanding and remain free of expectation.

Selfishness

Selfishness is the root of all relationship problems. When we are selfish we think of ourselves first and foremost. We ignore the needs of others and become ego centric. Ego centric people are never easy to live with; they tend to be a drain on relationships. When we are selfish we want the praise, support and backing of others; but, we are not willing to give anything in return.

True love is selfless, it is given without expectation of receiving anything in return. If we love our self the most, we will always struggle with relationships. Take time to listen to others rather than dominating the conversation; be giving rather than being permanently needy.

No Time

We have to spend time on what we value. If we always  work late, it shows where our priorities lie. If we spend no time with our partner then they will begin to feel resentful / unloved. We can always make time for things we really value; make sure your relationships don’t suffer because you have given your life away to your boss. Also, make sure you create time when your partner is the focus of attention; do things that they enjoy doing, and don’t just drag them along to your office parties.

Too Much Time

It does depends on the personality of the people involved; but some people, especially introverts, need time to themselves. If we are always with other people, the relationship can become claustrophobic. We need time to ourselves; strong relationships should be able to deal with periods of separation. This allows individual expression and individual growth.

Picking Faults

Whoever we spend time with will undoubtedly have faults. Successful relationships require a certain tolerance of others’ weaknesses. If we keep picking up on the faults of over people, expecting them to change, we create permanent tension. For example, your partner or friend may not share your judgement that they are faults. This does not mean we have to ignore when others do wrong things.

A strong relationship should be able to cope with constructive criticism and suggestions. However, we need to make sure we don’t become obsessed with noticing bad things. Rather than remembering all the bad things your partner does, make yourself think of some of the good things that they have been doing. Unfortunately, humans often seem attracted to noticing the faults of others, but, it doesn’t help relationships to do this. If you become too critical it will cause long term problems.

 

Tejvan Pettinger lives in Oxford where he writes on issues of self improvement and self development. He updates a blog Sri Chinmoy Inspiration. Recent blog posts include Changing Yourself by Accepting Yourself.

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  • http://writerdad.com Writer Dad

    All of it can be boiled down to not enough communication. We all have friction, it’s how we sort it out that’s important.

    • THE WIFE BEATER

      you okay bro?

      • Wayom

        The ridiculousness of replying to you 5 months after your comment is lessened only by the fact that you replied to a comment posted 3 years ago.

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          • Maxjabbour

             Three months later…

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  • http://www.yinvsyang.com Pete

    I agree with Writer Dad. Communication is key. Relationships are really about your expectations. Too many people get caught up in what they expect things to be like. Sometimes, in a relationship, you need to understand that what you expect is not what HAS to happen. At least I do :).

    Communicating, not only with others, but with yourself to sort out your expectations is also important in mho.

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  • http://shanelyang.com/blogs/articles/ Shanel Yang

    Communication is the surface manifestation of our underlying attitudes about how people should be treated: how they should treat us and how we should treat them. Here are “30 Statements for Great Relationships” that speak to both improved communication skills and the underlying attitude issues: http://shanelyang.com/2008/04/15/30-statements-for-great-relationships/

  • http://www.createbusinessgrowth.com janelle

    great post- the thing that has been a struggle for me is finding a balance between work and relationship. When I first started working for a new company, I was spending more time working on work than on my relationship and it began to show very quickly. I needed to sit down and re-prioritize my life so that I wouldn’t make a mistake I’d come to regret later. I have to remind myself sometimes that I work to live-not live to work. As you stated earlier, if we cannot maintain lasting relationships, we’ll probably wind up being miserable.

  • shaorn

    great article

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  • http://www.varsityblah.com/about Eugene (Editor, Varsity Blah)

    “When you love someone, you love the whole person, as they are, and not as you’d like them to be.” – Leo Tolstoy

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  • http://www.cindysense.com Overcoming Lifes Obstacles

    Love the post. I think that friendship is the foundation to any relationship. To stay friends you need to spend time together and communicate. Otherwise the relationship will not last as it does not have a strong foundation.

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  • http://www.affirmationpower.com Ken LaDeroute

    Dear Tejvan,

    Thank you for your work in illuminating our consciousness with your wisdom. Keep writing and revealing truth.

    Relationship is the expression and reflection of Divinity in our selves and others. Our unbounded highest Self curving back on itself is simply our relationship with Pure Being, and why we’re here on earth. I find this relationship in meditation. In deep stillness, I have God’s attention, and I can relate to All That Is. As I sink deeply into the Ground of Being, I experience a deep, abiding peace, and I become aware of a field that nurtures and supports all of creation, beyond space and time. It is unbounded, all knowing, omnipresent and everywhere all at once. Its basic essence is love.

    This love is reflected in my 25 year marriage. It’s a love that is caring and supportive without being judgmental and colored by a life of devotion and service. I always say, “a healthy me is a healthy we.” Therefore, I strive to be the best I can be. Not for me, but for my wife, because she deserves the best of me.

    I am aware of the divinity in others. All my relationships deserve my most highest and reverent attention. This love and attention is a recognition and acknowledgment of the presences of God inside us all. This awareness turns into a deep abiding compassion for all creation. It brings peace and freedom from fear, knowing that all is as it should be, and that life is temporal and illusory. In meditation, I am fearless and I immerse myself into All That Is. This, is my ultimate relationship.

    Ken LaDeroute
    http://www.AffirmationPower.com

  • http://www.writeyourmindjournals.com B J Keltz

    The issues in the article apply to more than relationships. They apply to anything we deem a worthy goal. Priorities, communication, and follow-through make for good relationships and good growth.

  • RaAr

    Yaa above points affect relationships, in that some of points like to highlight that for children they don’t know about what right & wrong they are doing, they does as per their knowledge or around what they find, so elders should guide them towards right things else they may move towards wrong path. One more thing that some of the mistake we can ignore but some are very critical so we have to take care about that mistake & warn or prepare partner not to make that mistake. Some times we need to be selffish when it required that if we not become selffish than we lose much more things which may not recover or becoming selffish leads good for all

  • http://www.somedaysyndrome.com Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome

    I have been in relationships dominated by some (or all) of these challenges. I think most people find it easier to slide into one of these rather than kill the ego, step outside our heads and communicate clearly and openly.

  • Nelvz

    OMG so true…

  • http://www.squidoo.com/artofbathing cchiovitti

    Very succinct. So often, these types of posts are nothing but self-serving, sappy, psycho-babble, but you’ve really hit these right on the head. Now, if everyone who wasted money on every new “guru’s” latest book would just read this, the world would be a better place.

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  • yzap

    It’s true!!!!

    when i am in the relationship i felt that i am selfless that’s why i change and honestly not consciously i hurt my partner untill we broke up. i dont realize that being selfless is showing my partner the true love and the time i change my partner felt divergent on me, yes it’s true and i penitent all of this.

    Ego is the other reason and sometimes if your partner hurt you time will come that you also want to deprived your partner, be able to feel the pain of what you felt.

    Great Post!!!!

  • me

    you forgot money.

  • http://secretcontents.com Ret

    All of these reasons could be overcome if no quits. If there is no quitting no matter what, of course relationship will not fail. That is love all about, you need to have a very very long patience.

  • Leeann

    Well I think that I through to many relationships as is. But, what I don’t is why I don’t/can’t stay with one person for a long term relationship. It’s like I find something wrong or I think of something that makes me break up with them or I’m just afraid. I honestly don’t know what to do because I have never had a real long term relationship and the just seem to end before they begin and then when I or they break up there are question. I don’t know what to do and honestly I think I should just give? What should I do?

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  • jojo

    Great post, but please write more clearly next time. Some of your sentences are not structured well and need to be read a few times to understand their meaning.

  • covenantson

    great work! Really a blessing stumbling on this writeup. Keep the food work going.

  • ETTA,, ASI EDIM

    It is nice to read your take on one of the burning issues on our society today.Well,you have said it all and i believe strongly that why most relationship failed is as a result of lack of commitment among the partners.thanks for your contributions to smile on our face.

    • ETTA,, ASI EDIM

      Well spoken by you.I want to say here that a relationship is an investment that demand every thing from you and if you are not ready to comply with its demand,then you are not ready for a relationship.

  • Robert

    There is more and more need for these kind of resource that you have provided. If I have to add anything, I would recommend relationship coaching and marriage education for those needed skills.
    Weldone, buddy,

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    http://www.howtomakeahappymarriage.com/xmasoffer

  • http://banishyourblockstosuccess.com/ Terrie

    I agree that emotional attachment springs from insecurity or low self esteem. The best way to have good relationships is to improve yourself.
     

  • Aquachuchu

    So basically i m emotionally attached to my boyfriend not in love as i m often looking for attention from him and if i don’t get it i get across with him, thats good to know where i am!!! i was broken heart 9 months ago, someone criticised alot, saying that he cares for me but later dumped meeee!!!! i cared %100, gave everything was not expecting from him much tbh as he was dumped as well when we met… the essential anyway now i m this relationship, we dont live in the same city 70 miles away, we knew each others in october and until now we are still seeing each other (14 times we met in total), i want to see him often but he is taken away with his blooody work, he has some difficulties at work since i met him, he might be jobless, homeless if he doesn’t sort him self shortly… i wanna be with him, i like him, i wish to make feel peaceful and take away all the problems that he is facing at the moment… the problem is that we saying to each other how much we mean to each others, how much we miss each others…. i am the light of his life, he is my angel at earth…. the problem is we dont call each others everyday at all.. maybe 1 per week… i avoid calling because he might be busy, not able to answer and i expect him to be cold with me always on the phone… he said he feels like it to call me but he fears that i might not answer his call…. btw my boyfriend has been dumped too from a girl that he was very committed to her but he said that she cheated on him many times…i text him everyday day a few times but i dont get a reply straightaway…..i wanna be with him, share with him everything, sleep together, wakeup together, have breakfast together, work, shopping….but nothing of these are happening… i wanted to spend the nite with him but its not happpening…. i m lost and dont know whether he is genuin or just pretending, but there is no reason for hi to pretend he can tell me F*** off then walk away…. but not he is really nice when we are together…

    I am btw 28, he is 40 but he looks much younger n me too tbh…. 

    Please Any advise!!!!! i want it to workkkk coz i wanna be with himmmm he is so sweetttt….. manythanks

    • Andrew Lopez

      Stay strong and true to your relationship because if you both still have that intimacy and love for each other distance doesn’t matter. What matters is trust, loyalty, and love for one another. Just pray everyday to god to help you have faith.

  • Aquachuchu

    So basically i m emotionally attached to my boyfriend not in love as i m often looking for attention from him and if i don’t get it i get across with him, thats good to know where i am!!! i was broken heart 9 months ago, someone criticised alot, saying that he cares for me but later dumped meeee!!!! i cared %100, gave everything  & was not expecting from him much tbh as he was dumped as well when we met… the essential anyway now i m this relationship, we dont live in the same city 70 miles away, we knew each others in october and until now we are still seeing each other (14 times we met in total), i want to see him often but he is taken away with his blooody work, he has some difficulties at work since i met him, he might be jobless, homeless if he doesn’t sort him self out shortly… i wanna be with him, i like him, i wish to make him feel peaceful and take away all the problems that he is facing at the moment… the problem is that we are saying to each other how much we mean to each others, how much we miss each others…. i am the light of his life, he is my angel on earth…. the problem is we dont call each others everyday at all.. maybe 1 per week… i avoid calling because he might be busy, not able to answer and i expect him to be cold with me always on the phone… he said he feels like it to call me but he fears that i might not answer his call, we meet up once per 10 days…. btw my boyfriend has been dumped too from a girl that he was very committed to her but he said that she cheated on him many times…i text him everyday day a few times but i dont get a reply straightaway…..i wanna be with him, share with him everything, sleep together, wakeup together, have breakfast together, work, shopping….but nothing of these are happening… i wanted to spend the nite with him but its not happpening…. i m lost and dont know whether he is genuine or just pretending, but there is no reason for hi to pretend he can tell me F*** off then walk away…. but not he is really nice when we are together… btw he always tells me he will try harder to make me content…. this sentence worries me alot. he went to NY, HAD A NUMBER THERE BUT DIDNT SHARE IT WITH ME AT ALL, SAYING THAT HE TEXTED ME THE NUMBER BUT HE DIDNT I M SURE…… AND AT THE END OF HIS HOLIDAY HE EMAILED SAYING THAT HE SEES HOME IN MY EYESSSS….POUFFF when he WENT TO NY, HE  DIDNT EVEN BRING ME A POST CARD FROM THERE TO SAY THAT HE WAS THINKING ABOUT MEEEEE……. I am btw 28, he is 40 but he looks much younger n me too tbh…. Please Any advise!!!!! i want it to workkkk coz i wanna be with himmmm he is so sweetttt….. manythank

  • Aquachuchu

    why my comment has been deleted?????????

    • Chefsteaksandwich

      YOU SAID IT, AQUACHUCHU

  • Zoe4bubbles

    Just been dumped how can I tell my mum? X

  • Patricia L Burke

    I have had a failed relationship and none of the 7 were an issue 

  • Kc

    This is a great post. Many people comment that communication is key… but I think that it is important to highlight /positive/ communication. Sometimes, as this post mentions, people believe picking faults in their partner is part of the communication process. Harmony in a relationship is very important. Please don’t try to be confrontational all the time believing you are just trying to be communicative. Talking about all the problems you may have with the other person doesn’t necessarily clear the air in the relationship.

    • blue_note

      So, what does clear the air. I’m currently trying to mend a relationship that stopped because we needed to stop arguing so much. It’s not gotten any better since then. It’s really only been getting worse. I’m starting to realize that my ego is definitely getting in the way of us ever getting to a point where we can be really good friends.

      My problem is basically that I see and tell her a whole bunch of things that are wrong with her and I know this is wrong. Sitting here now, I know that these problems aren’t that big of a deal, but in our arguments, they are half of the problem. How can I fix this?

      • Chefsteaksandwich

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    • Chefsteaksandwich

      YOU SAID IT, KC!

  • Alexk1981

    comunication? please i tryed talking to my ex and still end-ap devorcing, it felt like im taking to a brick wall.  Its the ability to understand each other that what we must learn to do and respond ocordingly. 

  • Ams112986

    All of this makes a lot of sense to me. Iv always ruined and ran from relationships with people and never understood why, because I knew how much I loved this person. But what was missing was the love I had, or should I say the love I DIDNT have for myself. It really is true, in order for you to love another person FULLY you MUST love yourself!!! It never made any sense to me on why you have to love yourself before you can actually love someone else but when you really think about it how would you be able to love someone else when you dont even know what you love about yourself. So what I did and still doing is to stop beating myself up for my mistakes I made in life, not finishing college, staying in unhealthy relationships because I thought that was what I deserved and so on and so forth. I can sit here for hours if I wanted to. But bottom line is, love is deep its a huge plunge to take on only if your ready and by that I mean …loving yourself FIRST then that special someone whos right for you. Or youll just keep looking for ways to run and you wont even understand why your running. So be a little selfish and love yourself to the fullest <3

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  • Tresn

    This is the most useful article i have read.Iwas making the life of my fiancee hell and she was crying like every day….Whatever she was telling i was unable to understand…

    You saved a relation ship today…God bless budy…

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  • CruelFunkyDad

    Life is what you make it.

  • MR.TOM

    Why do some idiotic people  think it nescessary to have a dig at other peoples comments, who cares if a reponse it Weeks, Months or Years after the post. Isn’t the point of these pages for people to search out and read them!? Do we slag people off for reading Shakespeare books(which are Centuries old!!)? NO!

  • Someone with broken heart

    my relationship broke up for none of these reasons, mine broke up becouse of her parents and my parents , so to explain so fuck relationships

  • GooberGoofBalls

    I said it Cheesecake…. I said it!

  • Amy

    I learned that sometimes it is a misunderstanding of our needs that causes relationships to fail. After watching this interview and taking the test, I realized that it was a personality difference and not a lack of caring. It really opened my eyes!

    http://www.livetoinspire.tv/show/is-your-relationship-destined-to-fail/ 

  • http://www.facebook.com/robert.talbot.5686 Robert Talbot

    Maybe relationships are BS that humans came up with just recently and that we are no better than animals and just want to breed and move on. Simple as that. Our genetics are dictating who we are, but yet we try to fight it everyday. When a relationship goes dry, just move on.

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  • cindy john

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  • paul

    Thank you for the important info. I’ve learned from it. I was w my gf for 5 yrs then she left. I was never the same again.

  • den

    I broke up with my Ex fiance a few months back, in what was a whirlwind of an altercation, and was destroyed, I won’t even bother lying about it. Night after night, I racked my brain for a way to get her back. She wasn’t returning calls, emails or texts and our mutual friends said she wanted nothing to do with me. I was in rough shape until i found Lordazeez1990@hotmail.com and he guaranteed me in 3days and surely she called me on the phone and and apologized

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