How to Achieve Your Goals with Healthy Habits

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Terrific ideas and I really appreciate the simple action techniques that you have illustrated.

Thanks,

Shira

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Remembering reading somewhere that it takes 21 repetitions at average to create a habit (not necessarily a skill).

Now I know why those books are called “Learn X in 21 days!”.

Hi Daniel … yes, 21 days is an often-cited number, but the truth is, there’s no scientific basis for that fact. It’s just repeated a lot in the self-improvement world (for decades actually).

In reality, each person is different, and there are a number of factors that determine how long it will take for something to be a habit. One is frequency, another is consistency, and yet another is whether there is any resistance (like pain or public stigma) to the habit. So, if you only work out once a week, that will take much longer than 21 days to become a habit. If you do it every day, at the same time, same place, you could develop this habit in 21 days. A better bet is 30 days, in my experience. Thanks for the thought-provoking comment!

Just have the bad habit in mind and think for five seconds before doing it again. Do i really want that smoke? Once you go past the feeling you’ll other nice ideas about cigarettes and your self-esteem will sky!

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Nicky Caesar…

The issue you have is that about every 6 or 7 days someone gives you a load of crappy foods and destroys your efforts for the week. Combine that with a couple of missed workouts a week and you only tread water….

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I think point #1 is an excellent suggestion and usually overlooked. Nature abhors a vaccum, so it’s very difficult to try to not do something unless you replace it with something else.

Similarly, it’s very difficult to implement a new habit without eliminating something else. Our days are always going to be 24 hours long. If you try to start a new habit like exercising or reading, you’re not going to be able to do it unless you make time for it by stopping something else you’re doing.

I’d also add, be in the moment. When the sudden urge comes up, don’t resist it. Embrace the feeling. Look at it. Hear it. Touch it. Use all of your senses.

You’ll find that the negative feeling won’t be able to your focus on it.

Something I learned from Eckhart Tolle.

Carl Zetterlund

Terrific advice!! You can also replace your negative habits with guided meditations which will make a positive impact. Get a free session: http://www.hypno-freedom.com and enjoy!

I liked this post. I’m looking forward to trying these points. The habit I’m wanting to improve is exercising. I like the 30 days, same time, everyday point. Thanks this is perfect timing.

Thanks for the post. I’m trying to break the habit of browsing internet forums too much. Last year I tried a 30 challenge, but failed. This time I’m getting totally committed and so I’ve blocked the site I was constantly going back to.

Great suggestions Leo.

If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.

Many of us have been on a perpetual cycle of frustration for years. We’ve ‘almost’ done it fifty times. So get off the “whatever you want to change” merry-go-round, and make some decisions and changes for life.

When you don’t ‘feel’ motivated… do it anyway. Creating real change is about commitment, passion and strength of character, not motivation.

Great writing Leo/John.

I am a professor who studies habits and how they change. I am finding lots of sites all over the blogosphere that talk about changing habits. A lot of the recommendations I see are based on sound science. Some, of course, are not. I have two thoughts:

1. The lists of things “to do” are often rather long. I worry that people will find it difficult to keep all of the advice in mind as they work on their behavior. Your list of six steps is one of the smaller lists that I have seen. Kudos for that.

2. Bad habits cause us pain (physical frailty, weight gain, less time out of doors or out of the house) but they also give us some amount of pleasure (sitting in a comfy chair, tasty food, watching a good tv show). Something to think about.

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Hello All,

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Hello All,

I was reading around some of the posts here and I found interesting things that you guys talk about, I just made a blog about quitting smoking resources and ideas that you might want to check out.
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Thanks in advance.

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[...] the same time I write down those goals, I decide how I will reward myself when I hit them. Some of the smaller rewards have included: taking an afternoon off and going to a movie, going out [...]

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I think organization is absolutely key here. The question becomes… how do you organize your goals in an effort to prioritize what is most important to you?

For this, I’d suggest using a vision board. A vision board is a powerful tool that anyone can use to shape an ideal future through the power of intention and visualization. Learning how to vividly imagine your desired results — attracting your perfect soul mate, radiant health, abundant career opportunities, or building personal and community relationships to give back — is the first step on the path to making them happen.

A vision board – which is a collage of images that represent your goals, dreams, and intentions – allows you to break through unconscious, self-limiting beliefs that have been building in your subconscious mind for years, and really focus only on your important goals. In essence is helps separate your goals (your focus) from the background noise.

Go to http://www.TheVisionBoardKit.com to download a free 8-point power tips guide to creating and using a vision board to achieve your goals.

this is awesome i lost 50 lbs. in a month
i worked hard
i work out every day

Eat veggies, stop smoking and drinking alcoholic stuffs.. Stay calm and relax..And just always smile and be happy..:) By the way, check out an inspirational video called “My Wish” by Donna Sirianni on YouTube. It’s all about starting at the very beginning of achieving your dreams in life…and enjoying the journey!! Send this video link to all your friends! They will be inspired by it!
See the video here -> http://www.mywishthemovie.com

Hi

I’ve tried quite a few goal achievement programs myself over the years and eventually settled on The MAGIC Hundred by Dax Moy as it’s just so simple, straightforward and easy to follow. A good mix of success principles in a very focused ‘do this’ kind of format. It’s just what I needed : )

I’ve already achieved about 30 or so goals on my list and I’ve got 63 days left on the program.

You can check it out at http://www.themagichundred.com/click.htm

Mary

Hey Mary

I’m on The magic hundred too! I’ve been getting loads and loads done since I started the program 3 weeks ago and feel more positive than I have in agaes.

I’ve got some pretty huge goals ahead of me but feel like they’re more likely to happen for me that at any other time I’ve started my goals before.

Glad to know there’s another magic hundred user here : ) We can keep tabs on each other.

Speak soon!

Josie

This article was a great reminder. I’m a fan of the 30 day challenge for a great habit! Once you are focusing on doing it daily for that long, it simply becomes a part of you.

Also loved the tip about replacing the negative with the positive. This makes the transition easier.

Love you blog – thanks for great articles.

You may also check out http://www.GoalsOnTrack.com, a very nicely built web app designed for tracking goals and todo lists, and has time tracking. It’s clear, focused, easy to navigate, worth a try.

Can your goals change in time? and why?

I think you should use a free self goal emailing service like http://www.emailgoals.com. It’s a great motivator.

Great work! I believe in a redirection of focus from negatives to bettering. I am firm on not only affirming to yourself certain things, but changing your physiology and putting emotional intensity in the mix. I believe that the 30 day habit thing is great! However, I feel like we can change some of the things we do in 30 minutes. There are many things out there, that even science cannot prove (which simply means it cannot be proven in some lab) but that some of us are already using and have proven their effectiveness. I quit smoking in 10 minutes with an effective, to the point neuro-physiological approach and I help other people to do it as well! There are “doing things at the LOGICAL pace,” or “doing things that defy logic.” Impossible is a word we often misuse. Overall, great work! I like your approach.

i totaly agree with your points!

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I liked this post. I’m looking forward to trying these points. The habit I’m wanting to improve is exercising. I like the 30 days, same time, everyday point. Thanks this is perfect timing.

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You will have times in your life when you will feel like you’re the most unattractive person to walk the Earth. You will need somebody to pull you aside and say – you will not reach higher with your hands in your pockets. You can set many records, if you do guarantee yourself that you will do what you promise yourself, and listen to your dreams, to self improve faster

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I remember Tony Robbins saying to break your bad habits, you need to catch yourself every time you find yourself doing it…then stop, take a step back, and force yourself to take the other route with your new substituted habit. By having success habit, achieving success is just part of your daily life like it’s normal.

Hello!

Very good post! I mostly like the 30-Day Challenge! Sometimes we are not so clear with our goals and we forget the most important things!

Even taking a 30-day challenge could be difficult! The first days you are full of energy and passion for the goal but most people struggle in the middle and can’t finish! So, everyday has to be a new day with smaller goals! Everything’s about programming.

Thank you for sharing

John Mak

Great article about simplicity in a daily routine but it is always very hard to implement ! Thanks

very good article on health and goals. health plays very important role in your carrier. If you have a good health, i.e you have a better chances of achieving your goals

i liked this post ,i hope its going to help many as it has helped me

Great post! A lot of people quit because they don’t see result, and then they revert back to old habits. New habits take time to develop.

Nice article, I found something about making habits

http://blogtraffic4u.blogspot.com/2011/06/making-new-habits.html

Developing a long term habit is a short term goal thing. You have to divide your yearly goal into short activities that you will be doing every day or week. Continuity is the key here, along with persistence and positive thinking. Reporting and tracking your progress is also important. The article is good, though not quite complete, it could be somewhat longer. Anyway thanx for some good piece of writing.

I have to agree with Paul. I know there are several people who would want to commit to their daily habits but considering they barely have time to rest, this is something that’s too difficult for them. Unless they choose to give something up in exchange for exercising, they’ll never be able to accomplish this.

Very useful post. I find that staying positive is the toughest part. Often when we don’t get the results we want right away we become deflated and stop our good habits, thus having to start again from scratch.

I’ve found that the hard work I’ve done DOES pay off eventually. Work that I did a year ago and thought “this is getting me nowhere” is now benefiting me.

It all adds up. Keep at it everyday.

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Thanks my friend. It was an excellent ideas.

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