{"id":71118,"date":"2019-10-06T19:00:54","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T03:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=71118"},"modified":"2019-10-08T19:03:48","modified_gmt":"2019-10-09T03:03:48","slug":"how-to-prevent-your-anxiety-from-rubbing-off-on-your-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/how-to-prevent-your-anxiety-from-rubbing-off-on-your-child\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Prevent Your Anxiety from Rubbing Off On Your Child"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>\n<p>Sometimes, it seems like our kids aren\u2019t learning\nanything from us\u2014but that\u2019s simply not the case. Kids absorb all the\ninformation around them and learn by example. While that can be a good thing,\nit can also be a problem if you don\u2019t want to pass on certain behaviors you\u2019re\nmodeling for them, like anxiety. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re struggling with anxiety, first remember\nthat it\u2019s nothing to be ashamed of. Lots of people have trouble controlling\ntheir anxiety. But it\u2019s also important to realize that your behavior is bound\nto transfer to your child and could cause them to develop anxiety problems of\ntheir own. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that in mind, it\u2019s essential to address\nproblems with your emotional health as soon as you possibly can. According to a\npew research study, <a href=\"https:\/\/online.maryville.edu\/blog\/anxiety-in-children\/\">70{54c12dad2cc2b53ae830e39915b1a3e70288dbcbbeb8bbf8395437c5dc3c512c} of teens struggle with anxiety and depression<\/a>, which can start when children are much younger. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how can you avoid passing on the anxiety that\u2019s\ncausing you nothing but distress? Here\u2019s what you need to know. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>How Does Anxiety Affect\nChildren?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It\nshouldn\u2019t be too surprising that children are sensitive to the emotions their\nparents may be experiencing. They pick up on even subtle cues and shape their\nworld view of what\u2019s \u201cnormal\u201d by watching their parents. Kids can pick up on\nanxiety in the home and may be more prone to developing an anxiety disorder if\none or both of their parents struggle with anxiety. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\nisn\u2019t one main cause of anxiety in children, but both the child\u2019s environment\nand genetics come into play. Parents can\u2019t change their children\u2019s genetics,\nbut <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/health-shots\/2015\/09\/25\/443444964\/parents-can-learn-how-to-prevent-anxiety-in-their-children\">factors like modeling\nanxiety-promoting behaviors<\/a> can make the risk go up. Parents who have an anxiety\ndisorder will need to work hard to reduce the impact of their own anxiety on\ntheir children, which may include measures like behavior modification and\ntherapy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Anxiety in America<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If\nyou suffer from an anxiety disorder, you\u2019re far from alone. Many Americans have\ndealt with anxiety or depression at some point during their lives. Pressure\nfrom school and work are common triggers for racing thoughts, anxiety, stress,\nand overwhelm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even\nyoung adults, who should be enjoying their college years and focusing on\nlearning and growing, often struggle with anxiety. In fact, <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinenursing.duq.edu\/online-dnp-program\/anxiety-in-college-students-causes-statistics-how-universities-can-help\/\">anxiety and depression are the top two reasons that college students seek\nmental health services<\/a>, according to the Center for\nCollegiate Mental Health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Across America, <a href=\"https:\/\/adaa.org\/about-adaa\/press-room\/facts-statistics\">anxiety disorders affect 18.1{54c12dad2cc2b53ae830e39915b1a3e70288dbcbbeb8bbf8395437c5dc3c512c} of the population<\/a>\u201440 million adults\u2014making them the most common mental health disorder in\nthe country. Although the problem is so common, many people never get a\ndiagnosis or seek out treatment for the issue. Instead, they suffer for years\nin silence and often transfer the problem to the next generation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anxiety disorders include: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)<\/li><li>Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)<\/li><li>Phobias<\/li><li>Social Anxiety Disorder <\/li><li>Panic Disorder (PD)<\/li><li>Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Brain chemistry, environment, upbringing, genetics,\nand life experiences all have an impact on the development of anxiety disorders.\nNot all of these factors can be controlled, but most people who have an anxiety\ndisorder can benefit from treatment and find some relief with talk therapy,\nmedications, and other therapies. Many people with anxiety have also struggled\nwith depression one or more times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Putting a Stop to\nAnxiety Transference<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you think that your anxiety is starting to rub\noff on your child, then it\u2019s time to take steps and put a stop to anxiety\ntransference in your home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first step is to understand which behaviors\nmight be putting your child at risk for developing an anxiety disorder. Do you\ntalk about things that scare you in front of them repeatedly, like spiders or\nmerging onto the freeway? Do you react poorly to being startled or when you\u2019re\nstressed out by changing plans or situations you weren\u2019t expecting? Do you avoid\nsituations that scare you and explain to your child why you\u2019re not comfortable\nin those situations?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are all <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psycom.net\/parent-with-anxiety-disorder\">small, subtle ways you may be transferring your own anxiety<\/a> to your child. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other signals you may not even have considered is\nwarning your child over and over to be careful when playing or limiting how\nhigh they can climb or jump. By repeatedly warning them about hazards in their\neveryday life, you may think that you\u2019re teaching them to be safe, but you may\njust be teaching them to be anxious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, it\u2019s important to keep your children\nsafe. But it\u2019s also important for them to take a few risks and to have the\nfreedom to explore the world around them. Play should be playful, not cause\nanxiety. A few cuts and scrapes along the way are to be expected. You should\nabsolutely warn your children about truly dangerous activities, but when it\ncomes to normal \u201ckid stuff\u201d it\u2019s important to keep your own worries to\nyourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Using a journal to note your triggers can be helpful\nin modifying your behavior. You can also practice mindfulness and breathing\nexercises to start minimizing your anxiety for a more peaceful life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be very helpful to work with a mental health\nprofessional both in getting treatment for your own anxiety and for learning\nstrategies you can use to avoid transferring your worries and fears. Sometimes,\ntherapy for your child may be necessary if they\u2019re showing signs of anxiety\nthemselves. There is no shame in reaching out for help and it can make your\nefforts much more successful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Putting Your Own\nFeelings (and Fears) Aside<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anxiety\ndoesn\u2019t serve you, and it\u2019s definitely not something that will serve your kids.\nThe key is learning to put your own feelings and fears aside for the sake of\nyour kids\u2019 mental health. You may be terrified that they\u2019ll injure themselves\nor have the same fears that you do, but by hovering over them, this is actually\nmore likely to happen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kids need to face their fears. If they don\u2019t, they\nmay become much more worried and prone to anxiety in the long run. Protecting\nyour kids with your own anxiety just doesn\u2019t work. For a happy, healthy family,\nyou need to let go (just a little bit) and face your own fears. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, it seems like our kids aren\u2019t learning anything from us\u2014but that\u2019s simply not the case. Kids absorb all the information around them and learn by example. 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