{"id":5588,"date":"2011-03-16T22:03:09","date_gmt":"2011-03-17T06:03:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=5588"},"modified":"2013-09-05T13:59:51","modified_gmt":"2013-09-05T21:59:51","slug":"why-you-need-to-create-your-own-top-10-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/why-you-need-to-create-your-own-top-10-list\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Need to Create Your Own &#8220;Top 10&#8221; List"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.chicagonow.com\/blogs\/first-and-big-ten\/the-big-ten-11.jpg\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you are reading this, you have been given an incredible gift (and no, I&#8217;m not referring to this column!). You&#8217;ve lived another year. An entire year. You&#8217;ve experienced moments filled with laughs and tears, shouts and hugs. It may have been a difficult year financially or personally, but no matter what, it&#8217;s been a year you have survived. Whatever challenges you faced, you persevered.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>The last few days of the year can bring great joy and relaxation &#8212; time with friends and loved ones. But this can also be a time of anxiety when you are scurrying from one party to another and from one mall to another. I love this time because it allows me to think back over what I&#8217;ve accomplished, experienced, and contributed.<\/p>\n<p>This is also the time of year where you see the ubiquitous &#8220;Best of&#8221; lists for nearly everything &#8212; books, movies, things to do, songs, cars, iPad apps, YouTube videos, fashion moments, Tweets, and more. Everyone has a &#8220;Top 10&#8221; list . . . everyone that is, except you. I say skip the other lists and instead take some time to reflect on the only list that really matters.<\/p>\n<p>Choose a couple of the list ideas below and have some fun:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Most proud? <\/strong>What are you most proud of in the last year? It&#8217;s been a rough year for many, maybe even for you, but if you think back I&#8217;m sure you can find at least ten shining moments.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Things learned?<\/strong> What did you learn this year? Did you have any breakthroughs?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mistakes made; lessons learned.<\/strong> While my list would certainly exceed just ten, focus on the big mistakes you made, and more importantly, what lessons you learned from them.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Regrets (if any)?<\/strong> If you could turn back the clock, what would you change?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Friendships made?<\/strong> List new friends and what you appreciate most about their friendship. Be sure to <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/moneywatch.bnet.com\/career-advice\/blog\/other-8-hours\/the-most-wanted-gift-and-its-free\/1873\">share your list with them<\/a><\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Proud didn&#8217;t do?<\/strong> It&#8217;s not just what we do that matters, it&#8217;s often what we don&#8217;t do. What didn&#8217;t you do last year that you are proud of?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toughest decisions?<\/strong> Were there decisions you agonized over? What did you learn from them? Why were they so difficult?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Make your top 10 lists and share them with friends. And if you haven&#8217;t already, make sure you <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/moneywatch.bnet.com\/career-advice\/blog\/other-8-hours\/quick-do-this-today-to-live-your-best-2011\/1895\/\">write yourself the one letter than can change your life<\/a><\/strong> and make 2011 your best year yet&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>Update: I just read <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/sethgodin.typepad.com\/seths_blog\/2010\/12\/yearinreview.html\">Seth Godin&#8217;s Top 10 of 2010<\/a><\/strong>. Check it out &#8212; it&#8217;s inspiring .<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Join a community of passionate people at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.richerlife.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Richer Life Insights<\/a><\/strong> who want to achieve more in life and at work. You can participate in conversations I have with experts, celebrities, authors, and thought leaders that are laser-focused on practical ways to drive more money, motivation, and meaning into your life. Take the first step toward creating a better life by joining <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.richerlife.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Richer Life Insights<\/a><\/strong> for free now!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;ve experienced moments filled with laughs and tears, shouts and hugs. It may have been a difficult year financially or personally, but no matter what, it&#8217;s been a year you have survived. Whatever challenges you faced, you persevered. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/why-you-need-to-create-your-own-top-10-list\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12163,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[6],"tags":[1257,1258,318,66,4629],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Why You Need to Create Your Own &quot;Top 10&quot; List - Pick the Brain | Motivation and Self Improvement<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"This is also the time of year where you see the ubiquitous &quot;Best of&quot; lists for nearly everything -- books, movies, things to do, songs, cars, iPad apps, YouTube videos, fashion moments, Tweets, and more. 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