{"id":51532,"date":"2017-09-13T20:10:22","date_gmt":"2017-09-14T04:10:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=51532"},"modified":"2017-09-18T20:34:01","modified_gmt":"2017-09-19T04:34:01","slug":"5-ways-to-create-your-own-work-and-life-balance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/5-ways-to-create-your-own-work-and-life-balance\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Create Your Own Work and Life Balance"},"content":{"rendered":"
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The pace of life today can sometimes make it feel like you\u2019re walking a tightrope. You\u2019re trying to balance the need to be engaged in your business and get projects done with the need to be present at home, have a fulfilling personal life and avoid burnout. This is really nothing new for small business owners devoted to helping their businesses grow and thrive.<\/p>\n

There are many ways to find that balance (and I hope you\u2019ll share your own ideas in the comments), but here are the five things I\u2019ve found that really help me remain grounded, balanced and comfortable on the high wire.<\/p>\n

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    Recognize the Problem<\/strong><\/h1>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    It\u2019s very common for small business owners to spend their work week ignoring the clock. In fact, I would often get a phone call from my wife at 2 a.m. wondering if she should just bring me a sleeping bag from home. That was my cue that it was time to call it a day.<\/p>\n

    I wasn\u2019t ignoring home, but I was anxiously engaged and very motivated, so the hours just slipped by. Unfortunately, while invigorating, it doesn\u2019t take long for the endless hours on the job to take their toll. Even though I loved what I was doing, the lack of sleep and never being home not only caused a bit of family strife\u2014I also found myself struggling to concentrate and more likely to forget things. I was a little more irritable, too. Things that were really no big deal became really annoying.<\/p>\n

    I recognized that there would always be things that needed attention. I could work 24\/7 and still have things that needed to be done, so I decided to set a time each night when I would leave my business for the day. To be fair, saying I was going to do it was easier than doing it, but my mood improved and I was more productive during the hours I was there. That shouldn\u2019t have been a surprise, because most research on the subject suggests those who achieve a good work\/life balance are more productive than those who don\u2019t. (One example is a study conducted by the Corporate Executive Board<\/a>, which represents 80 percent of Fortune 500 companies, and reports that employees who feel they have a good work\/life balance are 21 percent more productive than those who don\u2019t.) Although much of the research is based on employees, I found the same to be true as a business owner.<\/p>\n

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      Set Boundaries<\/strong><\/h1>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Count the times this week that you disengage from a conversation with someone to look at your smartphone because it\u2019s beeped, chirped or buzzed. You might be surprised at how distracted you really are. I found myself, sometimes mid-sentence, stopping to check an incoming text message or email. I\u2019ve also noticed my wife (or one of my friends) abruptly stop talking because I was not paying attention to what they were saying because I was distracted by something on my smartphone.<\/p>\n

      The good news is that when I started ignoring my Pavlovian reaction to my phone buzzing, I became more engaged in conversations, meetings and my interactions with others. What\u2019s more, the phantom phone buzz in my pocket (yes, it\u2019s a common phenomenon<\/a>) went away. And, like any recovering addict, I am now sometimes frustrated when I\u2019m ignored by someone answering his or her smartphone\u2019s siren song in the middle of a conversation with me.<\/p>\n

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        Set Aside Time for Sleep<\/strong><\/h1>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        One of the hallmark talents of successful small business owners is their ability to creatively problem-solve. Downtime, or sleep, positively impacts your brain\u2019s ability to function. Sleep deficiency alters the way your brain works<\/a> and makes it more difficult to make decisions, solve problems, control your emotions and cope with change\u2014all critical abilities for small business owners. What\u2019s more, sleep deficiency has also been linked to depression, suicide and risk-taking behavior.<\/p>\n

        Although there is no cut and dried answer to exactly how much sleep you might need, I\u2019d suggest three or four hours probably isn\u2019t enough. Even though everyone is different, seven to nine hours of sleep is probably the goal you should shoot for. If you don\u2019t get enough sleep, your brain can shut down in what\u2019s called \u201cmicro-sleep.\u201d In other words, little bursts of sleep that can happen when you\u2019re normally awake. In fact, some studies have shown that sleep deficiency (drowsy driving, for example) can impact your ability behind the wheel of a car as much, or more, than driving under the influence of alcohol.<\/p>\n

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          That Vacation You\u2019ve Been Putting Off Is Important to Your Mental Health<\/strong><\/h1>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Active leisure pursuits and activities like taking a vacation help buffer or eliminate job stress<\/a>. After a successful vacation, you will be able to return to your business reinvigorated and ready to make decisions and tackle challenges. These benefits also extend to family relationships and can contribute to family bonding, communication and solidarity. Vacations promote what\u2019s called a \u201ccrescive bond\u201d or shared experience to help promote these ties, according to Xinran Lehto and a group of researchers from Purdue.<\/p>\n

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            Disconnect Before Bed<\/strong><\/h1>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            According to the National Sleep Foundation<\/a>, \u201cLiving in our 24\/7 society, there is a loss of the evening reduction in light that has traditionally cued our brains to \u2018wind down\u2019 for sleep.\u201d<\/p>\n

            In other words, they suggest there\u2019s a strong correlation to the light emitted by our electronic devices and the role it could be playing in our ability to easily fall asleep. \u201cPhotoreceptors in the retina sense light and dark, signaling our brain about the status of the outside world and aligning our circadian rhythms (centered in a small region of the hypothalamus called the suprachiasmatic nucleaus) to the external day-night cycle. This signaling of light and dark helps us be alert in the morning and fall asleep at the appropriate time at night.<\/p>\n

            We\u2019ve already talked about the importance of getting enough sleep. Opening up your backlit computer screen, your smartphone, or tablet as you climb into bed might be part of what makes it difficult to fall asleep at night.<\/p>\n

            Work\/Life Balance or Work\/Life Integration<\/strong><\/h1>\n

            The nature of how we work has changed a lot since I began my career over 35 years ago. What works for you might not be the same as what works for someone else, so finding the balance for you may be different from what I need to find balance in my life. Nevertheless, these five suggestions will help you discover the strategy that will work for you.<\/p>\n

            I\u2019m not sure balance is even the right word for it anymore. I\u2019m of the opinion that we need to integrate our professional lives with our personal lives in such a way that we have adequate time away from work, and are able to get the amount of sleep our mind and body needs to keep our brain functioning properly.<\/p>\n

            How do you balance your work life with your life away from work? Please share your tactics in the comment section.<\/p>\n

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            Ty\u202fKiisel\u202fis a contributing author focusing on small business financing at <\/em>OnDeck<\/em><\/a>, a technology company solving small\u00a0business\u2019s\u00a0biggest challenge: access to capital. With over 25 years of experience in the trenches of small business, Ty shares personal experiences and valuable tips to help small business owners become more financially responsible.\u00a0OnDeck\u00a0can also be found on <\/em>Facebook<\/em><\/a> and <\/em>Twitter<\/em><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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