{"id":5119,"date":"2011-01-02T22:41:58","date_gmt":"2011-01-03T06:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=5119"},"modified":"2013-09-30T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2013-09-30T20:36:33","slug":"how-to-make-your-good-intentions-stick","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/how-to-make-your-good-intentions-stick\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make Your Good Intentions Stick"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_ptJ0oU-4zmI\/TR0Bp8wHEcI\/AAAAAAAACrs\/l0vVUrn3cqc\/s1600\/newyearsresolution-300110.jpg\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Losing weight. Exercising regularly. Drinking less alcohol and caffeine. Developing better time management habits. Keeping up with chores. Whatever it is, I bet you&#8217;ve got plenty of good intentions right now.<\/p>\n<p>But however great your intentions, you might not succeed. Feeling motivated to change isn&#8217;t usually enough to get you the whole way there \u2013 as you&#8217;ll probably know, if you&#8217;ve ever tried dieting or quitting smoking.<\/p>\n<p>How can you make sure that those good intentions stick?<!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>Make a Plan<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy to get gung-ho about a new plan; in that first flush of motivation, you feel so determined that you can&#8217;t imagine failing. The problem is, motivation doesn&#8217;t last. You&#8217;ll pretty quickly hit a point when you feel apathetic: maybe you&#8217;re tired and don&#8217;t feel like working out, or you don&#8217;t have any healthy food in the house.<\/p>\n<p><strong>By planning ahead, you give yourself a much better chance of success.<\/strong> Plans mean getting realistic about your dreams. Instead of vague ideas like &#8220;I should lose weight&#8221;, you&#8217;ll end up with specific actions that get you from where you are to where you want to be.<\/p>\n<p>A plan doesn&#8217;t need to be complicated, or rigidly inflexible. You might, for instance:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Plan ahead so that you have the ingredients on hand to create healthy meals<\/li>\n<li>Put your exercise sessions into your diary, so you don&#8217;t keep thinking &#8220;I&#8217;ll exercise tomorrow&#8230;&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Break down complex goals, like changing career paths, into smaller steps<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Help Yourself<\/h2>\n<p>You might think that the best way to succeed is to have really strong will-power \u2013 but that&#8217;s not generally true. Relying on self-discipline alone is likely to leave you frustrated and exhausted: if you spend all afternoon resisting those double chocolate cookies in the cupboard, you might not have the reserves of will-power left to head to the gym.<\/p>\n<p>So, make life easy on yourself. <strong>Find ways to turn the healthy option (or whatever supports your goal) into the easiest action. <\/strong>That might mean keeping junk food out of the house \u2013 so that you&#8217;d have to go to the store if you wanted cookies. It might mean putting your exercise kit on as soon as you get up \u2013 so that you&#8217;re ready for your workout straight away.<\/p>\n<p>Little changes and tweaks to your environment can make a massive difference when it comes to changing your habits \u2013 you can read some great advice on this, backed up with scientific evidence, in Chip and Dan Heath&#8217;s book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Switch-Change-Things-When-Hard\/dp\/0385528752\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293632630&amp;sr=8-1\">Switch: How to Change Things When Change is Hard<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Aim <em>Too <\/em>High<\/h2>\n<p>Have you ever had some huge, big goal \u2013 something dramatic and life-changing? We&#8217;re often tempted to aim high when we&#8217;re imagining our futures. And that&#8217;s fine \u2013 it&#8217;s fun to daydream about being a millionaire or a supermodel or a sports star.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, though, we often need to take our dreams down a notch. <strong>I&#8217;m not saying that you should settle for second-best \u2013 but you should look at what&#8217;s <em>realistic<\/em><\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>If you aim ridiculously high (say, you&#8217;re deep in debt\u00a0 and you want to be a millionaire within two years) then\u00a0 part of you is going to know that you&#8217;ll never manage it \u2013 so you may end up making no progress at all.<\/p>\n<p>When setting your goals, aim for something which feels like a challenge, but which you&#8217;re pretty sure you can reach.<\/p>\n<h2>Get Accountable<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s awfully easy to give up on a goal if you&#8217;ve not told anyone about it. That diet you couldn&#8217;t stick to &#8230; that exercise plan which fell by the wayside &#8230; if no-one knows you&#8217;re even trying, you can just quietly drop it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Accountability is an incredibly powerful force. <\/strong>Like it or not, you <em>do<\/em> care what other people think about you. If you tell friends or family that &#8220;I&#8217;m going to lose 40 pounds&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;m going to exercise three times a week&#8221;, you&#8217;re probably going to stick with it.<\/p>\n<p>Not got anyone you can confide in? You could talk about your goal on Twitter, or start a blog to keep you on track. It can be really encouraging to know that a bunch of anonymous strangers are watching your progress and cheering you on.<\/p>\n<p><em>What are your goals or resolutions at the moment? How will you make sure that all your good intentions stick?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Don&#8217;t Forget to SIGN UP for the <a href=\"..\/no-spam-guarantee\/\">PTB newsletter!<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Related Posts:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"..\/7-steps-to-positive-self-talk\/\">7 Steps To Positive Self Talk<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>But however great your intentions, you might not succeed. Feeling motivated to change isn&#8217;t usually enough to get you the whole way there \u2013 as you&#8217;ll probably know, if you&#8217;ve ever tried dieting or quitting smoking.<\/p>\n<p>How can you make sure that those good intentions stick? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/how-to-make-your-good-intentions-stick\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12163,"featured_media":13042,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[6],"tags":[1073,1074,489,66,488,4629],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to Make Your Good Intentions Stick - Pick the Brain | Motivation and Self Improvement<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Make a Plan It&#039;s easy to get gung-ho about a new plan; in that first flush of motivation, you feel so determined that you can&#039;t imagine failing. 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