{"id":27003,"date":"2014-08-19T00:02:41","date_gmt":"2014-08-19T08:02:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=27003"},"modified":"2014-08-21T21:42:28","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T05:42:28","slug":"small-steps-add-big-goals-achieve-dreams-little-often","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/small-steps-add-big-goals-achieve-dreams-little-often\/","title":{"rendered":"How Small Steps Add Up to Big Goals: Achieve Your Dreams with &#8220;Little and Often&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><\/p>\n<p>Do you find yourself setting the same goals year after year?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019ve been trying to lose 50lbs for the best part of a decade now, or you\u2019ve spent years struggling with debt. You might have a big dream (perhaps writing a novel, getting a new qualification, or starting your own business) &#8230; but it never feels like the time is right.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s tempting to wait for a huge stretch of uninterrupted time so that you can work on your big goals. But be honest \u2013 how often in the last few years have you <i>ever<\/i> had that sort of time available?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>For the vast majority of us, there\u2019s simply no easy way to clear our schedules. Maybe you work full-time, or you have young children, or you\u2019re caring for elderly relatives \u2013 whatever your exact circumstances, your life is busy, and things aren\u2019t going to miraculously change overnight.<\/p>\n<p>The good news is that <b>you don\u2019t need to wait for the perfect moment to start on your goals.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In fact, you\u2019ll achieve far more with a \u201clittle and often\u201d approach than by waiting in vain for an opportunity to take massive action.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s run some numbers.<\/p>\n<p><b>Example #1: Write a Novel in a Year<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Say your goal is to write a novel, and you can find a spare 20 minutes, once a day (perhaps during your lunch break).<\/p>\n<p>If you stay focused for 20 minutes, you can probably write 200 words \u2013 that\u2019s about half a typed page.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t sound like much. In fact, when you think about the length of a whole novel (70,000+ words), it might not seem worth doing at all.<\/p>\n<p>But just look at how those 200 words add up:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>After a week, you\u2019ll have 1,400 words \u2013 a (shortish) chapter.<\/li>\n<li>After a month, you\u2019ll have 6,000 words.<\/li>\n<li>After a year, you\u2019ll have 73,000 words \u2013 a whole novel.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That\u2019s a wonderful achievement \u2013 and with just a tiny investment of time on a daily basis.<\/p>\n<p><b>Example #2: Learn to Cook in a Year<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019re a terrible cook \u2013 you even burn beans on toast. You\u2019ve been meaning to learn to cook for years, but the idea is just too daunting.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d like to take a class, but you can\u2019t find the time to commit to it.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say that you commit to cooking a meal just twice a week, on Monday and Wednesday nights, and you choose recipes that will take at most an hour to prepare. <b>You\u2019re investing just a couple of hours each week \u2013 but after a year, you\u2019ll have spent over a hundred hours cooking.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you think that, after a hundred hours\u2019 practice, you\u2019ll be a decent cook?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Almost any goal can be tackled in this way, whether it\u2019s decluttering your house or launching a new business.<\/p>\n<p>Even smallish goals can become much easier to achieve when you break them into tiny but regular steps.<\/p>\n<p><b>One of my challenges as a busy parent is to find the time to make notes about what my daughter Kitty is doing at different stages of her life.<\/b> I\u2019d love to have a baby book for us to look back on in the future. (I\u2019ve also got a second child on the way, and want to record special memories for him too.)<\/p>\n<p>For over a year, I\u2019ve been meaning to \u201cget around to\u201d creating a hand-crafted book full of photos and milestones for Kitty. And I still hope to get time one day soon! But in the meantime, I\u2019ve also started a one-sentence-a-day journal for her, and a separate one for my unborn son.<\/p>\n<p>It takes just a couple of minutes each day to jot down a quick memory, but in eighteen years, it\u2019ll be an amazing record to look back on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So little and often clearly works &#8230; yet it can be a huge challenge to stick with, or even to start. Why?<\/p>\n<h2>We Like the Idea of Quick Wins and Fast Progress<\/h2>\n<p>I don\u2019t think I\u2019m the only person who likes the adrenaline rush of pulling off a big challenge fast, or the satisfaction of getting a major project finished.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s very tempting to want to achieve things <i>quickly<\/i>. After all, a novel in a year probably doesn\u2019t sound nearly as exciting as a novel in a month (check out <a href=\"http:\/\/nanowrimo.org\/\">National Novel Writing Month<\/a> if that\u2019s your kind of thing).<\/p>\n<p>And it can be discouraging, especially in the early stages of working on a goal, to feel that you have a very long way still to go \u2013 or even to see friends or colleagues speeding ahead.<\/p>\n<p><b>In my own experience, though \u2013 and perhaps this sounds familiar to you \u2013 it\u2019s very easy to fall into the trap of going all-out on a goal for a few days or a few weeks, only to give up entirely because it\u2019s just unsustainable. <\/b>(I\u2019ve certainly been on a fair few diets that didn\u2019t make it more than a couple of days!)<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there will be times in your life when it <i>is<\/i> possible to work hard and fast on a goal \u2013 and sometimes that might be necessary when a problem (e.g. debt) has become a crisis.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, though, it\u2019s much better to focus on taking small, daily or weekly, steps toward your chosen goal. You really will make faster progress that way.<\/p>\n<h2>How to Keep Taking Those Little Steps<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s really important to have a \u201cscaffold\u201d of good habits to support you in your little steps. You might think that if you\u2019re only going to do something for a few minutes each day, you won\u2019t need much help to stay motivated \u2013 but it\u2019s all too easy for procrastination and excuses to creep in.<\/p>\n<p><b>One great way to stay on track is to build up a \u201cchain\u201d of successes.<\/b> Some writers, for instance, mark a big X on their calendar every day that they write \u2013 and then they\u2019re motivated to keep that chain of Xs going.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going for several goals, you might want to create a check-sheet for them, with a list of what you\u2019re trying to achieve each day. (My current ones include \u201cExercise for 30 mins\u201d and \u201cWork on my novel for 30 mins\u201d.)<\/p>\n<p><b>You don\u2019t necessarily have to do everything on your list daily.<\/b> Right now, I have different aims for different goals: with my novel and exercising, for instance, my aim is to reach my target on five days each week, giving me a bit of leeway.<\/p>\n<p>(This is especially important if you\u2019re a bit of an \u201call or nothing\u201d type \u2013 if you know you\u2019ll be tempted to give up altogether if you miss a single day.)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Is there a particular goal in your life that you\u2019d love to achieve, but just haven\u2019t had time for?<\/p>\n<p>How could a small effort, on a daily or near-daily basis, get you there?<\/p>\n<p>Leave a comment below to tell us what you\u2019ll be doing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><b>Bio:<\/b> Ali Luke\u2019s free seven-week course On Track is aimed at all writers (or would-be writers) who want to restart a stalled project. If your blog is never updated, your novel is languishing in a desk drawer, or your short story barely made it past the first paragraph, join the course and get moving again with plenty of encouragement and practical tips. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.writershuddle.com\/join-on-track\">You can find out all about the course (and the bonus ebook) here.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s tempting to wait for a huge stretch of uninterrupted time so that you can work on your big goals. 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