{"id":26859,"date":"2014-07-29T07:53:08","date_gmt":"2014-07-29T15:53:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=26859"},"modified":"2014-07-31T20:25:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-01T04:25:54","slug":"8-treacherous-thoughts-stop-finding-passion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/8-treacherous-thoughts-stop-finding-passion\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Treacherous Thoughts That Stop You From Finding Your Passion"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Is finding your passion proving impossible?<\/p>\n

Have you been trying, trying, and trying, without results?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the good news: What\u2019s stopping you isn\u2019t what you think.<\/p>\n

The obstacles is not out there. It\u2019s inside of you. It’s the thoughts you choose to believe.<\/p>\n

So what are those thoughts?<\/p>\n

Here are 8 treacherous thoughts you may recognize:<\/p>\n

1. \u201cI Don\u2019t Know Where to Start\u201d<\/h2>\n

Just because you don\u2019t know where to start doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t start.<\/p>\n

You may want to read that sentence again.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m pointing to is the fact that if you feel inspired, or drawn, to do something, you can always take the next step. The only thing holding you back is a thought that you believe in.<\/p>\n

For example, for years I thought about starting a blog. I could\u2019ve started, but I had excuses and reasons not to. In other words, thoughts that I chose to believe in, that held me back.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t think I was good enough, so I didn\u2019t start. But when I started, I still had those same thoughts. The difference was that I didn\u2019t give them as much attention. I was more focused on starting.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cI Have Too Many Interests\u201d<\/h2>\n

Most people are multi-passionate. We all have buckets and buckets of ideas, interests, and passions.<\/p>\n

The problem is thinking that you have to choose the right one. Or even thinking that you can choose the right one.<\/p>\n

Your job isn\u2019t to predict the future, or make sure things go well. Your job is to test the idea you\u2019re most drawn to, and see what happens.<\/p>\n

Instead of being a seer with a crystal ball, look at yourself as an experimenter with questions.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cI\u2019m Not Good Enough\u201d<\/h2>\n

Not being good enough<\/a> is a thought that you entertain.<\/p>\n

Having the thought doesn\u2019t make it so. If you have the thought of not being good enough, it doesn\u2019t mean you aren\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

The same holds true when you think that you don\u2019t have anything special to offer the world. What matters is what you feel drawn to do. What your heart calls you to do.<\/p>\n

If you feel drawn to write, write.<\/p>\n

If you want to paint, then paint.<\/p>\n

You may not be the best in the world, but then again, that\u2019s another sign to start. How are you going to learn unless you start?<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhat Will People Think?\u201d<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s a hidden assumption here.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re worried about what others think, you also believe that how you feel, and how your life goes, is determined by making other people happy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve noticed something as I\u2019ve traveled this path, and it\u2019s simply this: The more I follow my heart, and am true to myself, the more people respect what I do. Everyone may not like it, but it reminds them of something within themselves.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s not my responsibility to make people happy. Our happiness is not determined by our circumstances, but by our thoughts.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you have to control your thinking. It just means you can take it less seriously.<\/p>\n

And this doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m not concerned about what people think, because sometimes I get caught up in my thoughts just like anyone else.<\/p>\n

But I often snap out of it. I know it\u2019s not real. It just feels real, because that\u2019s how thoughts and feelings work.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cWhat If I Pick the Wrong Passion?\u201d<\/h2>\n

So you pick the wrong one, so what?<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know if picking the wrong one is exactly what needs to happen in order for you to get to where you need to be.<\/p>\n

Are you starting to notice how many assumptions you have? I have them, too. I\u2019m still noticing more and more of them.<\/p>\n

We want to try and control the whole process, when in fact we aren\u2019t in control. Life flows like a river. It\u2019s not up to us to make the river go. It\u2019s up to us to experience it. To ride it.<\/p>\n

Your experience is determined by your thinking. You don\u2019t have to control your thoughts, but simply notice how you create your experience of the world.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cWhat If It\u2019s All for Nothing?\u201d<\/h2>\n

What if you waste time following your passion?<\/p>\n

Not possible.<\/p>\n

Ultimately, you want to be happy, right? And when you\u2019re doing what you love, and following your heart<\/a>, you feel joyful.<\/p>\n

Peaceful.<\/p>\n

Calm.<\/p>\n

How can that ever be a waste of time?<\/p>\n

The only time when you\u2019re wasting time is listening to a thought telling you that you\u2019re wasting time.<\/p>\n

Why? Because by believing the thought, you\u2019re held back from exploring the world.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cFinding My Passion Should Be Easy\u201d<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s easy to believe that we\u2019re entitled to a problem-free life, but it doesn\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n

Life is made up of two sides. Hot and cold. Black and white. Up and down. We could get into a philosophical discussion about this, but the fact is that you\u2019re constantly growing and changing.<\/p>\n

That means that you will sometimes struggle. Life will be challenging. Sometimes even painful.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not the problem.<\/p>\n

The problem is thinking that it should be any other way. Finding your passion may not be easy<\/a>, but it also doesn\u2019t have to be hard.<\/p>\n

What will make it hard is trying to figure it out, or trying to control the process. What will make it easy is getting out of your own way, and letting your inner wisdom guide you.<\/p>\n

And taking things one step at a time.<\/p>\n

You see, you don\u2019t have to know what your passion is in order to follow your heart, your interests, and your wisdom.<\/p>\n

8. \u201cI Don\u2019t Have Time\u201d<\/h2>\n

<\/p>\n

To find and follow your passion doesn\u2019t require quitting your job, leaving your family, or doing anything radical.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s another idea you have had up until now of how things should be. Even if you have 5 minutes per day, you can explore your passions.<\/p>\n

You can\u00a0do what you love<\/a>.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing magical involved.<\/p>\n

Time is not an issue, unless you make it one.<\/p>\n

The Secret to Living Your Passion<\/h2>\n

I\u2019ve found that everyone already knows where to go, what to do, and what their passion is.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that we\u2019re confused. It\u2019s that we make ourselves confused by trying to figure it all out. By trying to do that which we cannot do.<\/p>\n

The trying to figure it out gets in the way of figuring it out. It\u2019s not that life makes it hard. It\u2019s that we make it hard.<\/p>\n

As you go about your day today, notice the kind of assumptions and thoughts that stop you from doing what you love, and following your passion.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry about controlling anything. Just notice what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

And enjoy it.<\/p>\n

Do what you can with what you have.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s enough.<\/p>\n

About the Author:<\/strong> Henri is the founder of Wake Up Cloud<\/a>, where he helps people turn their passion into a thriving lifestyle business. When you feel ready to do what you love, grab his free special report + audiobook<\/a> (plus other goodies). He is also the author of Do What You Love<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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