{"id":23778,"date":"2014-01-19T21:18:27","date_gmt":"2014-01-20T05:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=23778"},"modified":"2014-01-21T18:30:33","modified_gmt":"2014-01-22T02:30:33","slug":"9-things-extremely-useless-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/9-things-extremely-useless-life\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Things That are Extremely Useless For Your Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><\/p>\n<p>We all want to lead better lives. We all want to be happy too!<\/p>\n<p>Yet, this is life. We&#8217;ve so many problems and responsibilities that it can be hard to be happy, much less achieve all our goals in life.<\/p>\n<p>And guess what? On some level, it&#8217;s your own fault. You&#8217;re holding on to useless things in life. It&#8217;s time to let go.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Life isn&#8217;t meant to be useless<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>It is simple. We pretty much know the answers to how we can improve our lives. But we&#8217;re holding onto too many useless things.<\/p>\n<p>And often than not, we subscribe to the idea that &#8220;life&#8217;s like that&#8221; and then accept it.<\/p>\n<p>Nah.<\/p>\n<p>We ought to step it up! It&#8217;s time to let go of the useless things in life!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>9 things that are extremely useless for your life<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Toxic friends<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dump them. Surround yourself with positive people only. This is key to living a life where your own environment can lift you up and inspire you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Revenge<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you feel hurt or angered by someone so much so that you want justice? Or, you simply keep thinking of revenge?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s useless. Let it go. Resentment is like holding on to hot coals, waiting to throw it at someone.<\/p>\n<p>Only you get hurt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Worry<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whatever you&#8217;re thinking about, whatever that&#8217;s ahead, whatever you got planned. Whatever!<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry. I know, it&#8217;s in our nature to worry, but think about it, does it have any use?<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t. It will never change the situation or even change your feelings. Drop worry. Now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Violence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s for losers. Use your words. Walk away.<\/p>\n<p>I personally find that the idea of violence became appealing, mostly to guys because of the media. It shouldn&#8217;t be this way. Violence only causes more violence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Guilt<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to let go of the past. It&#8217;s natural to feel bad for a bit, but eventually you need to let it go.<\/p>\n<p>You can absolutely become a better person without guilt. Think about that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6) Clutter<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Clean up! Tidy your surroundings, especially your workspace. You may think it&#8217;s just some crap lying around, but if you put in the effort to clear the area, your mind will be more clear too.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the material things you hold on to are literally useless anyway. The key thing is to realize that immediately and not wait until it&#8217;s way in the future.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7) High expectations<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lower them now. High expectations build up for disappointment only. It&#8217;s useless to keep wondering how things will turn out with a pie-in-the-sky mind. Instead, be realistic and then keep learning from your tasks.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8) Waiting<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Good things don&#8217;t come to those who wait.<\/p>\n<p>Good things happen for people who make it happen for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Stop waiting for anything man. And I do mean anything. Don&#8217;t even wait for people who are perpetually late. Get them to come to you instead.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9) Judging people<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Being judged? Forget about it. They don&#8217;t know any better, and that&#8217;s their loss.<\/p>\n<p>Feel like judging someone? Stop it. It&#8217;s useless. You&#8217;ll never get it right.<\/p>\n<p>Focus your time and energy on your life instead.<\/p>\n<p><b>Just for Pick the Brain readers<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you reach to the end of this article, that\u2019s awesome!<\/p>\n<p>I just wanted to tell you about my new free book!\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/alden-tan.com\/happy-people\/\" target=\"_blank\">12 Things Happy People Don&#8217;t Give a F**k About!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a simple, free book that let&#8217;s you know what you need to let of in life to be super happy!<\/p>\n<p>This free book is only available through\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/alden-tan.com\/happy-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">this link to Alden-Tan<\/a>. Check it out!<\/p>\n<p><i>Alden Tan keeps it real at his blog and writes about\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"http:\/\/alden-tan.com\/happy-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><i>motivation in unconventional ways<\/i><\/a><i>. He tells it like it is, to heart of the matter. Check out\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"http:\/\/alden-tan.com\/happy-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><i>his free report<\/i><\/a><i>,12 Things Happy People Don&#8217;t Give a F**k About!<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life isn&#8217;t meant to be useless<\/p>\n<p>It is simple. 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