{"id":2190,"date":"2010-04-15T19:23:27","date_gmt":"2010-04-16T03:23:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=2190"},"modified":"2013-10-08T08:23:13","modified_gmt":"2013-10-08T16:23:13","slug":"7-ways-to-maintain-a-positive-attitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/7-ways-to-maintain-a-positive-attitude\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Ways To Maintain A Positive Attitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s life when one is thronged with worries and tensions all around, it is very difficult to maintain a positive attitude. And often the more you try and be positive, the more it seems the negative energy around you gains strength. So here are 7 ways to change our modus operandi, be positive and work towards a healthier lifestyle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do Not Wait for Happiness.<\/strong><br \/>\nDo not wait for good things to happen to you. You need to work towards happiness. You need to create a happy environment around you today to remain happy tomorrow. This is called an attitude. If you adopt a positive attitude, life becomes a rewarding game instead of a challenge to &#8216;get through.&#8217;<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Clarify and Prioritize<\/strong><br \/>\nLearn to know what you want. If you know what you expect from yourself, your future becomes clear and your goals become attainable<br \/>\n\u2022 <em>Clarify your purpose<\/em> : A purpose is something you fulfill each moment when you are in balance with your life. (A purpose is a simple, positive statement of why you are here). A purpose isn\u2019t a goal statement, which one can achieve.<br \/>\n\u2022 <em>Discover your purpose<\/em>: by identifying &amp; prioritizing your most important roles in life (at home, at work, community etc) List the positive qualities that you aspire to possess: Honesty, Philanthropic, Accommodating, Tolerant etc.<br \/>\n\u2022 <em>Visualize your future<\/em>, with a clear picture in your mind of what you want to accomplish in your lifetime (you can become what you think you are and what you see). One of the most powerful techniques for achieving life goals is visualization (creating a mental image of something happening in future). Believing in and seeing your dreams can motivate you to become what you want to be.<br \/>\n\u2022 <em>Set goals for yourself<\/em> (To help your dreams for the future become a reality, you need to set short &amp; long term goals) to stay on course.<br \/>\nTo provide steady fuel for your energy, create a list of long term goals to be accomplished in life time &amp; break them into several interim short term goals to help you chart your progress.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Resilient<\/strong><br \/>\nResilient people are those who face setbacks but ultimately, with perseverance, recover from them. Try and be strong and face life\u2019s difficulties as challenges; respond accordingly with action, rather than with fear, self-pity, inferiority or blame. While life can be very challenging, an important step in becoming more resilient is to develop the habit of positive self talk\u00a0and to remind yourself that you are strong and can grow stronger and wiser as you handle life\u2019s challenges.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Self Pep Talk<\/strong><br \/>\nOne\u2019s inner dialogue is one\u2019s biggest strength and critic. Listen to your inner self and talk to it. Motivate yourself rather than getting motivated by others. It is the inner voice that makes us critical of ourselves. Rule your inner voice!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laugh Away<\/strong><br \/>\nHumor is the best medicine. Make laughter a part of your day. Laughter is known to be a mood elevator. When feeling low, read funny stories or go through a joke book. Allow yourself to open up. See the funny side of things and you will realize, life is a complex, yet funny game.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seize the day<\/strong><br \/>\nCarpe Diem, as the proverb goes. Always enjoy the moment. Do not worry about your past or future. Live for the day. What has happened is irreversible and what will happen is unknown, so try and enjoy what you have. Like someone has rightly said:<br \/>\n<em>&#8220;The past is history, the future is mystery.<br \/>\nToday is a Gift, That is why we call it the Present&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Be an Optimist<\/strong><br \/>\nThis is the golden rule to maintaining a positive attitude. Always believe in yourself. Being an optimist does not only mean to see the brighter side of life. To be an optimist means to view the surroundings wherein you maximize your strengths and achievements and minimize your weaknesses and apprehensions.<\/p>\n<p>It is difficult to change yourself in a day But at least give it a try. A positive attitude in life will help you go places. Just curb that fear in you and move towards the right path!!<br \/>\nRemember, I CAN and I WILL.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t Forget to Follow PickTheBrain on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/pickthebrain\">Twitter<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Related Posts:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/7-steps-to-positive-self-talk\/\">7 Steps To Positive Self Talk<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/words-that-heal-and-empower\/\">Words That Heal and Empower<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In today\u2019s life when one is thronged with worries and tensions all around, it is very difficult to maintain a positive attitude. It is even more difficult as one tries to be positive but the surroundings give out negative energies. 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