{"id":14060,"date":"2013-05-21T21:35:12","date_gmt":"2013-05-22T05:35:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=14060"},"modified":"2013-05-21T21:35:12","modified_gmt":"2013-05-22T05:35:12","slug":"5-steps-to-detoxify-your-inner-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/5-steps-to-detoxify-your-inner-self\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps to Detoxify Your Inner Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever felt like you were bloated with all the negative thoughts that you have created for yourself? Have you ever been under deep pressure and felt so greasy of trouble and wanted some good shower of relaxation? Have you ever made a decision and ended up with unexpected consequences that you instantly craved to dip yourself in a river to cleanse all the troubles attached to the situation you were in?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It is true that we need to detoxify our bodies with all the junks around in what we eat and what we have in the environment.\u00a0 But there is more truth to our need to cleanse inner self with negativity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It\u2019s time to get ourselves in to a mini-retreat with 5 steps to healthier inner self.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>#1. Compose yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><a title=\"Synergistic Psychotherapy\" href=\"http:\/\/www.synergeticpsychotherapy.com\/2011\/10\/02\/methods-for-gaining-self-composure-my-top-chill-out-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\">Synergistic Psychotherapy recommends<\/a>\u00a0a breathing exercise to compose oneself coming from any stressful situation. \u201cTake five deep breaths, holding each one to a count of five before releasing it. Clear your thoughts completely and repeat to yourself \u201cI am relaxed\u201d whenever a stressful thought tries to make its way in to your head.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I have learned that even one deep breath helps change attitudes.\u00a0 It\u2019s like gaining some courage when you breathe deeply and spewing out fear when you breathe out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>#2. Make a personal inventory.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">If you are making a spring cleaning for your house, you must be familiar with the current state of your abode somehow and still, you need to organize yourself to be able to get things done.\u00a0 As with yourself, make a stock tick and see how your inner self account is doing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">You can ask yourself these questions and list them down in a notebook:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"text-indent: -18pt;\">What are the things that bother me often?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"text-indent: -18pt;\">What are the things that I do well and bring the best in me and in those that are important to me?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\">Applying this myself, I am always on the lookout for emotions or thoughts that occupy my mind a lot of times.\u00a0 They can be nuances, issues or disappointments that are borne out of my own expectation and not of anyone else.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\"><strong>#3. \u00a0Explore self-acceptance<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">There are many facets in our life where we somehow know we perform our worse. Yet, as this is not a pleasant thing to face, we deny it to ourselves.\u00a0 As such, these weak parts of ourselves are often neglected and are not nurtured.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">Another expert from Psychology Today, <a title=\"Leon Seltzer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/evolution-the-self\/200809\/the-path-unconditional-self-acceptance\" target=\"_blank\">Leon Seltzer suggests<\/a>\u00a0his clients to explore on parts of themselves that they have not yet accepted.\u00a0 He says \u201cit\u2019s only when we stop\u00a0judging\u00a0ourselves that we can secure a more positive sense of who we are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I used to be a lot distanced over my emotions.\u00a0 Perhaps a result of being brought up in an environment where there is less expression of feelings, I unconsciously denied those inner rumblings that shaped some of my subconscious thoughts that included self-criticisms. Only until I have been aware of those inner criticisms that I have learned to accept myself for who I am.\u00a0 And in acceptance, the next step came knocking at my door!<\/p>\n<p><strong>#4. Cross-out extra baggage and unnecessary things<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">As we make our personal inventory and explore self-acceptance, there is a lot of clutter that we carry deep inside of us.\u00a0 These are things that are useless, old and unnecessary.\u00a0 You can start crossing them out of the list if they are trifles.\u00a0 What could they be?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"text-indent: -18pt;\">Reminiscing old relationships that turned sour<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-indent: -18pt;\">Regrets and resentments- the what-ifs, what-shouldas and what-couldas.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-indent: -18pt;\">Personal tastes or inclination that are unnecessary<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">When I find myself in these situations, I throw them out of the bin once and for all and forget them telling myself gently, \u201cCut it off, you have better things to do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\"><strong>#5. Self-denial<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\"><strong><\/strong>The last step to inner self detox would be setting out oneself back into the real world and practice a pinch of mortification- that is, self-control in small and even trivial matters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">How about choosing to practice this in small but practical exercises such as reducing time spent on Facebook or fitness-related discipline such as going to gym as scheduled?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">By doing less trivial matters, I save time finishing my work or chores and thereby give me more time spent on family or personal development such as reading a book!<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\"><strong>Moving On<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">Going through this, I have developed a healthier inner self and enabled me to move higher in the path to self-improvement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">Are you up to the challenge of detoxifying your inner self?\u00a0 Are you tired of desiring to change but not able to do so? Do you need a partner to spur up your self-improvement?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">Dispose yourself into a personal improvement project by detoxifying yourself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle\" style=\"margin-left: 0cm;\">***<\/p>\n<p>Rob Leonardo is a researcher, mentor and writer who created <a title=\"ConfidenceCues\" href=\"http:\/\/confidencecues.com\/pickthebrain\/\" target=\"_blank\">ConfidenceCues<\/a> for everyone who wants to improve and keep their self-confidence alive.\u00a0 In his blog, he challenges his readers to create their own personal projects of Self-Confidence starting with a program called the <a title=\"ConfidenceCues\" href=\"http:\/\/confidencecues.com\/pickthebrain\/\" target=\"_blank\">Manifesto of Confident People Series<\/a>.\u00a0 Check it out and make a leap of faith!<span style=\"font-size: 11.0pt; line-height: 115{54c12dad2cc2b53ae830e39915b1a3e70288dbcbbeb8bbf8395437c5dc3c512c}; font-family: 'Calibri','sans-serif';\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like you were bloated with all the negative thoughts that you have created for yourself? 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