{"id":11706,"date":"2012-10-29T21:42:21","date_gmt":"2012-10-30T05:42:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/?p=11706"},"modified":"2013-10-02T12:04:45","modified_gmt":"2013-10-02T20:04:45","slug":"5-steps-to-a-truly-inspirational-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pickthebrain.com\/blog\/5-steps-to-a-truly-inspirational-life\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps To A Truly Inspirational Life"},"content":{"rendered":"
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If someone asked you to describe your life, as it is right now, what\u2019s the first thing you\u2019d say? \u201cIt\u2019s OK, it\u2019s average, not bad, good, terrible?\u201d A few years ago I asked myself this same question; I was shocked by the answer that came back. I realized that life was\u00a0 OK, but I never wanted anything to be just be OK! The reality was, I was bored, I\u2019d gotten comfortable and I\u2019d lost my passion for what I did.<\/p>\n

This was my wake up call; it suddenly dawned on me that nothing was going to change, until I changed! One week later I listened to my heart. I handed in my resignation at my job, overriding the feeling of fear. From that moment I can honestly say I felt ALIVE again! Life no longer felt predictable or stale, it felt fresh and exciting.<\/p>\n

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1. Get Real<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s true what they say; honesty is the best policy especially when it involves changing your life. Think about the way that you approach your life, do you feel inspired and fulfilled by your job, relationships and lifestyle?\u00a0 When you meet friends you haven\u2019t seen in a while, do you look forward to sharing all that\u2019s happening or do you begin your conversation with a deep sigh? Are you inspired by your life? When you meet someone who\u2019s truly inspired by life they automatically light up a room with their presence and vibrancy.<\/p>\n

2. Take Action<\/strong><\/p>\n

When I left my job the first thing I did was to think about what would really make me feel alive. I really wanted to be challenged, so I starting my own business and pushed myself to go back to university. This went against the advice of many people who suggested it was too much, too late. However, 3 years later whilst working 50 hours a week, I achieved my BA\u00a0 degree. Here\u2019s the thing, I had more security before I left my job and I was making good money and was set to take over where I worked. What I now know is money, security and status does not lead to fulfillment. Lasting fulfillment only happens when you\u2019re truly inspired by the life your living. What are the challenges that would re-engage you and make you feel alive, connected and inspired again?<\/p>\n

3. Raising the Stakes<\/strong><\/p>\n

Raising the stakes means raising our commitment to excellence. That doesn\u2019t mean working harder or longer, but it definitely involves being open to change. If you\u2019re relationship isn\u2019t how you\u2019d like it to be, think about the way you\u2019ve been communicating, how much effort and variety have you invested lately? If your health isn\u2019t great, take a look at your diet and lifestyle; be purposeful about what you do and eat. If you’re struggling with negative thinking, be conscious about what you read, watch and listen to. Be selective about those who influence you. Raising the stakes is about asking the question \u201cIf what I am currently doing isn\u2019t achieving the results that I want, what is it that I want and am I willing to raise the stakes in order to achieve it?\u201d<\/p>\n

4. Creativity<\/strong><\/p>\n

A common question I often hear is \u201cI\u2019m not sure what I should do differently to achieve the changes I want in life?\u201d With the advance of the Internet, online bookstores and reading devices, YouTube, and blogs (such as this one), it is much easier to find the answers you need. It truly comes down to being creative about finding information. When you want something enough, you\u2019ll find a way! Be creative whom you spend your time, work with a coach or a mentor and keep your eyes open.<\/p>\n

5. Adventure<\/strong><\/p>\n

No one said life was going to be easy, but in order to embrace change you need to shift your perspective. When I think about starting on a new journey, it can feel scary, even terrifying, so I change the meaning I associate to this event from the fear of the unknown to the excitement of a new adventure! I found that half the battle of changing your life is letting go and trusting that you are resourceful enough to handle whatever comes your way. If you\u2019re willing to take the necessary risks, the results will show up. You\u2019ll get the job, the relationship, the body and the life style you want. However, I do not under any circumstance believe in quick fixes. If your effort is minimal, you\u2019ll be rewarded accordingly.<\/p>\n

On a final note, life is short. Nothing is guaranteed. The clock is ticking! Don\u2019t waste time trying to map out the next five years, start with a basic, comprehensive plan and take action. If something feels right in your heart, use wisdom, but LISTEN to your heart. Remember your mind is programmed to protect you; but your heart is designed to lead you!<\/p>\n

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Luke is a life and career coach, author, speaker and founder\/CEO off www.lukehavard.com<\/a>. Luke\u2019s method of coaching is high performance, teaching clients to live and perform with lasting, authentic confidence and excellence. Luke\u2019s client list consists of people from all walks of life: politicians, educators, entrepreneurs, busy executives and major corporate organizations. He is currently working on a book entitled: Punching Above Your Weight, A violent assault on mediocrity<\/strong>. To find out more about Luke\u2019s coaching programms, books and live events visit\u00a0\u00a0 www.lukehavard.com <\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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