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Many people go through life acting like trained circus animals.\u00a0 They repeat the same antics they observed their neighbors, parents and family performing.\u00a0 What they often don’t realize is that they are wrecking their lives.<\/p>\n

Do you know someone that performs these tricks?<\/p>\n

Understanding that these tricks change good lives into a zoo is the first step to freedom.\u00a0 So, let’s take a look at the most common traps people fall into.<\/p>\n

10 Very Common Stupid Tricks That Wreck A Good Life<\/h2>\n

I’d bet we’ve all witnessed at least some of these stupid tricks.\u00a0 Unfortunately, they plague many people and are incredibly common.\u00a0 Read over the list and let me know which one you think is the worst or most prevalent.<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0 Performing the starring role in a never-ending drama<\/h3>\n

It seems that some people want the days of their lives to mirror a soap opera.\u00a0 They constantly behave badly and then wonder why their lives are so freaking crazy.\u00a0 It is almost as if they are addicted to chaos!\u00a0 These folks usually fail to see that they are their own worst enemy!\u00a0 Do you know someone that is the big star in their own perpetual drama?<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0 Jumping through hoops without accomplishing anything<\/h3>\n

Who do you know that lives life like a hamster spinning in a wheel?\u00a0 These people run and run, but never get anywhere.\u00a0 In addition, they probably think they have little to no control over their lives.\u00a0 They are stuck in the Twilight Zone where every day is just like the next.\u00a0 They continually jump through hoops for everyone else, but never realize their own dreams.\u00a0 I assure you this is only an illusion, but how do we convince them?<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0 Parroting the negativity heard in the media and from others<\/h3>\n

The voices of negativity are constantly lobbing grenades of gloom into our laps.\u00a0 Many people become echo chambers that repeat and amplify this barrage until they are deaf to anything else.\u00a0 Then their minds freeze up in fear, doubt and panic.\u00a0 These people let themselves be toyed with like a puppet!\u00a0 We all need to turn off the talking heads and feed our minds positive, encouraging vitamins of hope to regain a good life!<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0 Disappearing when they hear the words volunteer or charity<\/h3>\n

Why are people so afraid of giving away their time and money?\u00a0 I know there are a lot of scams, but are we really going to let that squelch every attempt at good?\u00a0 So what if once in a blue moon we give a nickel to someone that wastes it!\u00a0 Life goes on!\u00a0 Get over it!\u00a0 The most significant thing we can do with our limited days on this earth is make someone else feel safe, comfortable and cared for.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0 Trying to walk a high-wire without a net in their personal finances<\/h3>\n

The recession we just experienced was a gift.\u00a0 It was a warning shot across the bow giving people the opportunity to turn from their destructive financial path.\u00a0 Spending beyond their means, piling up mountains of debt and failing to save a penny for a rainy day will be the demise of many.\u00a0 Our economy reflects our collective financial condition.\u00a0 Hopefully, the warning we got will motivate people to get their house in order so we can prosper as a country!<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0 Rolling over and quitting because they made a few mistakes<\/h3>\n

Making a bad mistake can be painful.\u00a0 I’ll admit it can feel like someone scarred you with a white-hot branding iron on your backside.\u00a0 The memory of such an event leaves many thinking that the best thing they can do is to curl up into the fetal position and quit.\u00a0 Of course, this means they’ll miss out on even the slightest chance that life might throw them a bone just when they need it most!<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0 Swinging from one relationship to the next to avoid commitment<\/h3>\n

It isn’t always easy to let yourself be loved.\u00a0 A true partner will challenge you to grow and better yourself.\u00a0 They will force a person to relinquish some of the selfishness we all cling to for dear life.\u00a0 Jumping to another relationship won’t solve the problem.\u00a0 One day you have to deal with the person staring back at you in the mirror.\u00a0 This is the only way I know to ultimately find the kind of love we all long for.<\/p>\n

8.\u00a0 Playing opossum on the couch to evade all forms of exercise<\/h3>\n

There is nothing that will steal the joy out of a person’s life quicker than health problems.\u00a0 However, you don’t have to look far to find a person taking a very short-sighted approach when it comes to exercise and eating right.\u00a0 Neither of these is all that hard, expensive or time-consuming.\u00a0 They just take a little discipline and ingenuity.\u00a0 I don’t understand why people don’t get up and get active!\u00a0 It is the single best thing we can do for ourselves!<\/p>\n

9.\u00a0 Throwing daggers of blame while blindfolded at anyone in range<\/h3>\n

Some people will throw blame at just about anybody but themselves.\u00a0 It is always the other person’s fault that their relationships suck, their career is at a dead-end and the collection agent knows their whole family by first name.\u00a0 Accepting responsibility for our lives and making a conscious decision to do everything we can to make this one life we have worth living is the only solution to our dilemma.\u00a0 When will people learn?<\/p>\n

10.\u00a0 Flipping out when it is suggested they should learn something new<\/h3>\n

I never cease to be amazed at how strongly people resist and fear change.\u00a0 They will do everything within their power to avoid, divert and even sabotage anything that is going to make them have to learn something new or change in anyway.\u00a0 Change is a necessary and healthy part of life.\u00a0 Our routines are not pets!\u00a0 People need to learn to grow!\u00a0 It doesn’t hurt as much as they think!<\/p>\n

Retraining to Quit These Stupid Tricks<\/h2>\n

We are not circus animals!\u00a0 We have a choice in our behavior.\u00a0 All we have to do is decide to retrain ourselves.\u00a0 How do we get people to quit these self-destructive tricks?<\/p>\n

Well, you’ll find a lot of great advice by continuing to read <\/em>Pick The Brain.\u00a0 In addition, you can find a lot of great information on good habits<\/a> and smart living<\/a> on my blog.\u00a0 Hope to hear from you soon!<\/em><\/p>\n

Jeff Nickles is a guest blogger for PickTheBrain. He writes about living life to the fullest at MySuperChargedLife.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don’t Forget To Follow PickTheBrain on Twitter<\/a>!<\/p>\n

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A Smarter Approach To Time Management<\/a><\/p>\n

Tips For Breaking Bad Habits and Developing Good Habits<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Many people go through life acting like trained circus animals. They repeat the same antics they observed their neighbors, parents and family performing. What they often don’t realize is that they are wrecking their lives.<\/p>\n

Do you know someone that performs these tricks?<\/p>\n

Understanding that these tricks change good lives into a zoo is the first step to freedom. So, let’s take a look at the most common traps people fall into. Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12163,"featured_media":12803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[6],"tags":[114,115,116,118,4631,117,119,66,4629],"yoast_head":"\n10 Very Common Stupid Tricks That Wreck A Good Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Many people go through life acting like trained circus animals. They repeat the same antics they observed their neighbors, parents and family performing. What they often don't realize is that they are wrecking their lives. Do you know someone that performs these tricks? 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