Photo credit: Vaida Petereikiene
You know what the real enemy to happiness is? It’s not sadness, or failure or fear… its complacency. It’s becoming so comfortable with just being comfortable that we stop trying to make things better. We stop even trying to make things different. We go on and on, satisfied with being good enough, and we don’t realize that nothing is really all that good until we wake up one day and find ourselves miserable. Sometime before we reach that point, there are chances, windows that can be thrown open to let in some fresh air and sunlight. Changing your life doesn’t always mean turning your entire world upside down, sometimes it’s just about getting a new perspective on yourself, or the world around you.
Change your body
We spend our entire lives in the same skin. Isn’t that amazing? The one thing you truly carry with you from birth to death is your body. And our bodies can be the ultimate frenemy. They are there for us, they enable us to live and yet all the while they can be a source of resentment and struggle. But they are also something we can alter.
Our bodies will change on their own over the years, but there are plenty of developments along the way we can control. If a change of perspective is in order, why not start with your own reflection? Weight issues are battle for many of us; whether it’s losing or gaining pounds we spend far too much time agonizing over some notion of physical perfection. Or hell, screw perfection, even just something we can be proud of. Any of us can make healthier food choices and exercise a little bit more if we really want to change our bodies in that regard. And sometimes, weight loss, or gain, can be exactly the thing we need to turn our lives in a new direction. But that’s obvious. What about some of the less conspicuous options?
Look in the mirror, anything you see you can change. If you need to reinvigorate your life, maybe a cosmetic change is the way to go. I’m not talking plastic surgery, I suppose it’s an option, but again it’s obvious, and risky. I mean more like, tattoos, piercings, hair color types of changes. We tend to think of these things as rites of passage for the young. But a change in hair color can be an exciting new venture for anyone. I don’t just mean covering the grays either; I’m talking about going blonde for the first time in your life. And if age equals wisdom, is there any better time in life than mid-life to get that tattoo you’ve always thought about? You probably know yourself a lot better now than you did in your 20’s, and have a better idea of what kind of image would have sustainable significance. A belly button piercing seems like something for an 18 year old but certainly not a mother of 2, but… why not? Who cares if no one will see it but you? Whether it’s a tattoo or a navel ring, you will know and the knowledge that you did something so crazy will make you smile and it may make you wonder what other things you can do that you’ve never considered?
Change your view
My mom used to suggest when I had trouble sleeping that maybe I just needed a change of scenery, and somehow moving to the couch would always help. I doubt it was the scenery, but sometimes when we spend too long looking at the same things; they lose their meaning. That’s why sometimes the best thing you can do to change your perspective is to literally change what is right in front of you.
The way you change your surroundings can be quiet or dramatic. It can be as simple as re-arranging your furniture or as huge as buying a summer home in Cancun. Feng Shui isn’t for everybody, but a book will only cost about $10-$15 and if putting my headboard against a wall is supposed to help me sleep better, it’s worth a Saturday afternoon to give it a shot. It may work, it may not, but it’s fun to imagine that my day to day life could be affected by the placement of my bed. Ok ancient Asian arts aside, re-painting a living room, buying a new carpet, hanging new decorations or getting a new slip cover for an old couch can all drastically affect how you see your living environment. Sometimes just those changes will re-awaken us to the things we love about just being at home.
If fixing up the house isn’t going to cut it, you may have to travel around the world to find your answer. Or maybe just across town. Because the answer isn’t anywhere else, it’s in you; you just may need to go somewhere else to figure it out. The fact is nothing changes your perspective like a trip. It could be a day trip or a two-week excursion to your dream destination. Getting up, and out of your rut can be as easy as getting on a Greyhound. If you are looking for a real life-changing experience though, there’s nothing quite like experiencing a new culture for the first time. If you feel like maybe you need to be reminded of exactly how fortunate you are, try visiting a poorer country to see how the rest of the world lives away from Starbucks and Best Buy. When you see the places where children beg to braid hair to have money for food, believe me, your perspective gets a little electro-shock therapy. Suddenly your dead-end job and mediocre family car don’t seem so disappointing.
Change your resume
Speaking of jobs, the way we make our living is a major part of our identity, so if you really want to shake things up, a career change may be the answer. Granted, it’s not feasible for everyone to switch occupations. The job market isn’t exactly brimming with opportunities right now, and sometimes we can’t afford the financial sacrifices, so we have to make the best of what we have. But that’s ok. You don’t need to change jobs to change your resume. There are plenty of things we can add aside from a new title, or place of employment.
Improving yourself is always an option, but how you choose to do that is entirely up to you. I see the continuing education brochures for my local community colleges and high schools all the time. I browse through them, think “Hmm, that looks like fun” then they get lost with the junk mail and forgotten. But what if, just once, it wasn’t? Why not try that jewelry making seminar or that cooking class? The options are so endless everyone can learn a new skill that may change how we define ourselves. Some are just fun, like ball room dancing or synchronized swimming, but others like a course in real estate or tax law can be put to practical use. If a visiting a physical classroom is out of the question, online education is available 24/7 pretty much everywhere. Whether it’s getting a GED or learning Italian, it’s only as far away as your home computer.
When all else fails, a new perspective on the world isn’t just in undeveloped nations, it’s in every community in every country in the world. You have a local soup kitchen or shelter somewhere near your hometown, even if you don’t know about it. Charities all seem to come out of the woodwork at the holidays, but philanthropy is going on all year, all around you. All you have to do is look for it. Nothing will make you appreciate your own life like seeing what others live without. It will make you re-evaluate your priorities, and it’s something that can be done as a family. It may seem cruel to expose children to the more unfortunate side of the world, but the truth is it can also breed, grateful, sensitive and generous kids, who will grow into empathetic, giving adults. If you really want to love your existence again, imagine having a different one that is filled with the kinds of hardship that hundreds of thousands of people face every single day.
The power to change your life lies in you. But making the leap into something entirely new can be terrifying. So don’t force yourself to dive head first into the void. Try working up to it, you may find that a few small changes are all you need to re-invigorate your happiness. Or you may decide that you need whole-life makeover. And sometimes, you may discover that everything you need for happiness, you’ve had all along.
Janet is a writer for New Look Houston a Texas laser tattoo removal clinic. She is a blogger and freelance writer who loves to travel and re-decorate, although she’s not very good at the latter.
GET THE BOOK BY
ERIN FALCONER!
Отзывы
компания создания разработчик интернет магазин
САмое эффективное для продаж – Pinterest. Сотни Продаж на Etsy, amazon, ebay, shopify за 2 месяца при ср.цене чека 300 usd https://youtu.be/GNOZtXGGM-I
Допустим, вы хозяин нового интернет-ресурса, который имеет приятный стиль, удобную навигацию и нужную для участников информацию. Но до сих пор нет участников на блоге. Что делать? Если у вас есть собственный бизнес мы поможем вам создать промо сайт. Установлено, ни одно настоящее либо виртуальное предприятие не может продвигаться независимо. Любой любой компании необходимо помощь в приобретении известности, а во Мировой компьюторной сети без нее категорически не обойтись из-за бурной конкуренции.Мы занимаемся разработкой порталов. Наши сотрудники готовы запустить хороший интернет магазин в течение трёх дней. Сверх предоставления полных online-проектов, мы оказываем предложения тех. содействия: своевременное продление хостинга и доменного имени, добавление контента на сайт, размещения новинок. Наши услуги позволят вам стать фаворитом на просторах сети интернета.
seo продвижение сайтов в сша
Отложенный постинг в инстаграм и в остальные соц сети facebook Прокси и другие мощные инструменты
Hot sexy porn projects, daily updates
http://tyrkiskporn.alypics.com/?olivia
free amateur bi sex video porn porn model gets mad ebony strip dance porn adult porn erotica penis ring porn
drug abuse america http://lorazepam.webix.me urinalysis drug tests
ничего такого
_________________
bristol kielce kasyno
viagra dose size brand viagra without prescription buy viagra in shanghai
Новый год уже близко.
В интернет магазине Товаромания.РФ снижены цены.
Бесплатная доставка.
Самый выгодные предложения на Подарочные наборы, разное только сейчас.
САмое эффективное для продаж – Pinterest. Смотрите Видео пример продаж: Сотни Продаж на Etsy, amazon, ebay, shopify за 2 месяца при ср.цене чека 300 usd https://youtu.be/GNOZtXGGM-I
Что произошло
Бубба Смит
секс с женщиной без регистрации бесплатно, размещенные на нашем ресурсе, настолько прекрасны, что выбор будет сделать совсем не просто, но выбрав самую развратную красотку-путану, она воплотит в реальность самые смелые сексуальные фантазии.
очень интересно но чичего не понятно
_________________
futbol iddaa kuponlari
How to lose weight? FURTHER
Форель от производителя:
выращенная в чистых водах Вернетуломского водохранилища, водоем высшей категории. На высококачественных финских кормах!
Узнать подробнее:
форель купить свежую
honey cold remedy http://povporn.com/tenuate.html herbal remedies promotion
Ikfdsdjsdjsi jfidhjdaoskdoshfisjdo jifjowdoajdiwhfiwjdc iwjfihgiehfoswjfiegiefhwij ififvjifhihfiwsjkcoshjvigedh jfijsfocsfcisfjiehdfiwsjo jfowsjfdowsufiwsfihdsicsi https://mail.ru/?yriwutrueyeiwiryeuriweieutgdjhcjskfjdugvudjfishd
Webcam of Moscow online The noisy and fussy life of the Grand city of the world’s largest power watch using “webcam of Moscow online”.
Effet Secondaire Du Cialis 20 Treapy cialis 5 mg sedpouro Prescription Free Viagra
САмое эффективное для продаж – Pinterest. Dbltj – Сотни Продаж на Etsy, amazon, ebay, shopify за 2 месяца при ср.цене чека 300 usd https://youtu.be/GNOZtXGGM-I
Отложенный постинг в инстаграм и в остальные соц сети Youtube Прокси и другие мощные инструменты
Cleaning the surface of the bath city of Minsk
лиственница доска обрезная сухая купить в москве, производство паркета в москве,
паркетная доска из массива лиственницы купить москва, кровать бук москва,
доска необрезная сосна купить в москве, лиственница сухая купить в москве, стоимость обрезной доски за куб,
грузчик угля москва, доска дуба сухая купить в москве, сухая доска дуба москва, брусок обрезной купить в москве,
паркетная доска дуб москва, доска обрезная цена за куб в москве, цена за куб доски обрезной в москве,
кровать из массива бука купить в москве, доска лиственницы сухая купить в москве, двери для бани из липы купить в москве,
обрезная доска дуб москва, стоимость фанеры 12 мм за м2, стоимость фанеры 10 мм за м2, доска дубовая обрезная сухая купить в москве,
фанера 8 мм купить в москве, доска осина обрезная купить в москве, доска обрезная осина в москве,
необрезная доска лиственница купить в москве,
http://drevtorg.ning.com/main/search/search?q=%D0%BF%D0%B8%D0%BB%D0%BE%D0%BC%D0%B0%D1%82%D0%B5%D1%80%D0%B8%D0%B0%D0%BB%D1%8B+%D0%BC%D0%BE%D1%81%D0%BA%D0%B2%D0%B0&page=2
569691 434765Thanks for this amazing post! It has long been extremely helpful. I wish that youll carry on posting your wisdom with us. 997453
What do you think about this info? https://stanokpo.ru/chastotnik-dlja-dvigatelja-peremennogo-toka/
I think it is great!!!
Изготовление уличного освещения.
Компания постоянно развивается и совершенствует нашу продукцию, поэтому возможно изменение размеров, конструкции и комплектации представленных моделей при сохранении или улучшении функциональных и технических характеристик.
Разработка МАФов для комплексного благоустройства города (скамейки уличные парковые, урны, вазоны.
Производство фонарей – это важная часть проекта. Выбор фонарей для улицы
Особенности уличного освещения парка имеет свои определенные характеристики.
Довольно интересно
_________________
zenitbet заблокировали
В эту машину мы сделали дополнительную навигационно-мультимедийную систему: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2KTgXCu5W8 Она может разделять экран на две части. Любые приложения для нее вы можете скачать, загрузить их на рабочий стол и пользоваться ими так, как будто они всегда здесь были.
При включении задней передачи всегда будет в приоритете оригинальная система парковки. Весь оригинальный функционал сохраняется, все родное не изменяется. В любой момент можете перейти в штатную систему, что-то там изменить или настроить и опять провалиться в мир современного мультимедиа, потому что там гораздо интереснее… Весь оригинальный функционал сохраняется. Так же установили видеорегистратор на его родное место
Hot galleries, daily updated collections
http://neontshirtmen.fetlifeblog.com/?denise
ebony porn star sabrina metroid porn video black lesbian porn dvd mexican chicks porn real funny porn
Sexy teen photo galleries
http://bdsmquestions.bloglag.com/?kelsie
sockjob porn free porn wife swap story adutl porn clips free teen porn group sex lesbian mother daughter porn
If anyone need some cash, you may visit payday loans online 24/7 service. In this year somebody of men lost darling work. That is why separate of them are without cash. When you want to search a new employment, but in your urban place lockdown, the better to use payday loans.
At webmoneyloans.com there are a certain percentage of different and interesting variants. You may use credit sum, even you are interested in durable payday loans. One of the options short term payday loans is to get coins to Visa or MasterCard credit card. Men who have never utilized quick cash mustn’t be nervous. You may obtain to cash and use it, even you have a bad credit history.
A lot of men in the USA are using different types of loans. If you are living in Colorado or New York, you may read FAQ, where you could find all responses for various your questions. On the link probable to find the calculator. It could support you to consider the percent rate.
If you are sentiment to use cash, you must fill in a short form. It is very easily done, cause all details are on a website. Any men using payday loans, more about them you can read here. The firm webmoneyloans isn’t a fiscal organization, bank, or credit house. On the website, you can receive payday loans online 24/7 in TX . If your income didn’t come on time, you could receive payday loans with no credit check in Alaska. Often, guys are nervous before using credit cash. But when you will utilize cash online at first, you need to write to your personal data. In all, after this operation, folk don’t worry about different details.
Necessary to add, that in the next year will be an economic crisis. If you don’t know how to work in Delaware, because you lost a job, don’t be nervous! You should use payday loans online in Indiana. Even you need $1000, the organization will send it to your private profile. Different administrators in North Dakota have already lost lovely jobs.
WebMoneyLoans firm help them and they got payday loans with no credit check in North Dakota. So, if you have economical problems, you could find a fast digital decision. Also, guys of creative professions will have lost their jobs. If you are one of them and you are living in Ohio, you may find the best decision.
For example, the best payday loans in city you can get to your debit card. If you would like quick search in Washington payday loans in web 24/7, you could go here. Also, in a organization are working call center, which could call everyone. They answering different questions very fast!
Я лет 10 прогоняю на Хрумере Белые, Серые и почти любые темы. Пример работы и тел. здесь https://youtu.be/jsxku7eus6E Звоните. Антибан гарантирован. Гугл “любит” хрумер. Ahrefs- у все нравится. Минимум 2000 качественных обратных ссылок. Было и 20 000 + Рост домена + объявления на форумах
секс чат самое
не работает
_________________
прогноз плюс футбол
First of all, it is necessary to find out cold the problems that the filter purpose have to great amount with. To do this, you call for to submit the unstintingly to an inspection that will mark which substances excel the allowable limit. Then, if it turns loose that in your examination, repayment for case, exclusively iron exceeds the mean, it will be enough to institute a de-ironer, but it is tenable to be beyond the chlorine, hardness salts, biotic and other impurities, in this in the event that you can not do without a complex stationary cleaning system (roll quintessence or quash osmosis).
More http://bestwaterfilterx.mybjjblog.com/how-to-choose-a-hot-water-filter-11495428
кубани фото и описание
term life insurance
歐客佬精品咖啡
https://blog.oklaocoffee.tw/
стать счастливым
комплексный ремонт в севастополе
комплексный капитальный ремонт это
вакансии рабочий по комплексному обслуживанию и ремонту здания
комплексный ремонт квартир в самаре
должностная рабочий по комплексному обслуживанию и ремонту зданий
еткс рабочий по комплексному ремонту и обслуживанию зданий и сооружений
Hot galleries, daily updated collections
http://soulplaneporn.redhottubeporn.allproblog.com/?jasmine
access porn find porn girls you know death of porn star savannah boy blossoms porn most expensive porn movies
Интересная новость
_________________
первенство россии по футболу 2019 фонбет
курсы по аварийному вскрытию сейфов
Запускай свой высокодоходный бизнес в своем городе.
научим вскрытию дверй
Не жди
XYZ 壯陽藥春藥專賣店 大量購買有優惠
https://man-r20.com/
Hello! I could have sworn I’ve been to this blog before but after browsing through some of the post I realized it’s new to me. Anyways, I’m definitely happy I found it and I’ll be book-marking and checking back frequently!
Hello! I could have sworn I’ve been to this blog before but after browsing through some of the post I realized it’s new to me. Anyways, I’m definitely happy I found it and I’ll be book-marking and checking back frequently!
You made some nice points there. I looked on the internet for the subject matter and found most individuals will agree with your site.
Вскрытие замков
Пропали ключи
Нужно вскрыть замок открыть машину
Срочная услуга при потере ключей замка
Открывание замков
захлопнулась дверь
Нужно вскрыть дверь вскрытие-замков-крым.рф
Быстрая помощь при закрывании замка
Производство кассет для бахчевых культур
Многолетние кассеты для рассады
Доставим в ваш город.
cratosslot giriş https://cratosslots.net/
cratosslot https://cratosslots.vip/
There are many incredibly realistic wmdoll that aren’t just about sex. These realistic dolls will help you to be very happy with your sex as well as as a companion. People of all disciplines are interested in wm doll, but it’s important to do some researc
EIS Components is the stocking Distributor of XC7Z035-3FFG900E, we specialize in Xilinx all series electronic components. XC7Z035-3FFG900E can be shipped within 24 hours after order. If you have any demands for XC7Z035-3FFG900E, Please kindly submit an RFQ here or send us an email. We will reply you as soon as possible.
doll4ever I’m gone to say to my little brother, that he should also pay a visit this blog on regular basis to take updated from most recent reports.|
The best e-cigarette liquid site in Korea. Korea’s lowest-priced 전자담배 액상 사이트 e-cigarette liquid.
스모크밤285 스모크밤
에볼루션코리아
162WYoqxI{$:
에볼루션카지노
875URGbXb>+<
에볼루션바카라
352ioivhW]_\
에볼루션룰렛
026juZDNJ{$\
에볼루션블랙잭803CfdHtN/[%
에볼루션카지노
702qwVLDK`>”
Yaratıcı içeriğiniz beni büyüledi teşekkür ederim