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		<title>By: younggrasshopperhahaidkimhigh</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 11:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>im 17 and i cant believe theres so many who feel just like me.ive always felt like more of a loner but i never really wanted to be. but now im kinda realizing maybe thats just who i am and i have to accept myself then the rest will follow.im almost 18 so im young and i have a decent headstart among some of my peers. im not sure career/occupancy wise with my life, but i do really love music. but im thinking, what if a job in music doesnt pay as much as i want.i really want a family and kids, so i definately need money. im also very sexual, and having a wife who is loyal, sexual like me, and someone who i can joke around/play around with is very important to me.im guessing ill become this instrument-playing family man or something but i dont know what to do to, as you can say, &quot;roll in the dough.&quot;ive been getting high to get rid of that empty container feeling but it just makes me ask myself &quot;what do i want? who am i and am i sure i want to be that person?&quot; i dont see it as that bad because i dont smoke not that often, weed isnt really that bad in the first place, as long as your responsible and dont let it become something you rely on to get through the day.i just want to skip to the part of life im heading towards in life.i overthink things, obviously. im not even out of highschool, why am i so worried?i know i need to get education, but for what job?i need to find something i can deal with doing but still take home a nice paycheck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>im 17 and i cant believe theres so many who feel just like me.ive always felt like more of a loner but i never really wanted to be. but now im kinda realizing maybe thats just who i am and i have to accept myself then the rest will follow.im almost 18 so im young and i have a decent headstart among some of my peers. im not sure career/occupancy wise with my life, but i do really love music. but im thinking, what if a job in music doesnt pay as much as i want.i really want a family and kids, so i definately need money. im also very sexual, and having a wife who is loyal, sexual like me, and someone who i can joke around/play around with is very important to me.im guessing ill become this instrument-playing family man or something but i dont know what to do to, as you can say, &#8220;roll in the dough.&#8221;ive been getting high to get rid of that empty container feeling but it just makes me ask myself &#8220;what do i want? who am i and am i sure i want to be that person?&#8221; i dont see it as that bad because i dont smoke not that often, weed isnt really that bad in the first place, as long as your responsible and dont let it become something you rely on to get through the day.i just want to skip to the part of life im heading towards in life.i overthink things, obviously. im not even out of highschool, why am i so worried?i know i need to get education, but for what job?i need to find something i can deal with doing but still take home a nice paycheck.</p>
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		<title>By: lovelyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>lovelyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi guys i read so many comments in this article i truly relate what you guys talking about.I&#039;m 24 years old really don&#039;t know what  i decided to do its to hard to decide there is so many choices.I already tried many things i&#039;l worked abroad,i joined networking,real state,I feel something wrong i&#039;m not happy i mismanaged my life i want to accomplish a lot of things but  where i should need to start?Now i&#039;m doing something interesting and good i feel better i started to learn God&#039;s words.At my age i encountered a lot of difficult experiences in life but i learned a lot from them,I discovered that life must go on no matter what never give up be a dreamer and we should need to have faith in God and be patient do our action w/ his guidance keep him in our heart...Be what we are i do believe that our destiny is written in own our hand...we are the one who is responsible what the future will be for us.Every one of us dreaming to have a better future right?So START NOW...Now is very important don&#039;t waste our time for nothing don&#039;t be afraid take a risk and ready to be failed success is the product of failure...Imagine a lot of good things want you to happen and try the power of our memory using our imagination what we think and what we say it will be the result... thank you guys looking forward to both of you in this article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi guys i read so many comments in this article i truly relate what you guys talking about.I&#8217;m 24 years old really don&#8217;t know what  i decided to do its to hard to decide there is so many choices.I already tried many things i&#8217;l worked abroad,i joined networking,real state,I feel something wrong i&#8217;m not happy i mismanaged my life i want to accomplish a lot of things but  where i should need to start?Now i&#8217;m doing something interesting and good i feel better i started to learn God&#8217;s words.At my age i encountered a lot of difficult experiences in life but i learned a lot from them,I discovered that life must go on no matter what never give up be a dreamer and we should need to have faith in God and be patient do our action w/ his guidance keep him in our heart&#8230;Be what we are i do believe that our destiny is written in own our hand&#8230;we are the one who is responsible what the future will be for us.Every one of us dreaming to have a better future right?So START NOW&#8230;Now is very important don&#8217;t waste our time for nothing don&#8217;t be afraid take a risk and ready to be failed success is the product of failure&#8230;Imagine a lot of good things want you to happen and try the power of our memory using our imagination what we think and what we say it will be the result&#8230; thank you guys looking forward to both of you in this article.</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth Lorell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth Lorell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 21:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a 23 year old master&#039;s student studying European Law. I also have a degree in Law. But I don&#039;t feel any passion for it anymore. I think my initial passion stemmed from &quot;making something of myself&quot;. It was just the idea of making my parents happy and proving to myself that I had the ability. But I realise that it&#039;s not fulfilling me, I feel like there is something missing.  I don&#039;t know what I am trying to prove to myself anymore - the competition and stress relating to keeping up with my peers is just too much. 

I had a gap year where I really thought about this and suggested completely different career routes altogether, which didn&#039;t really go down well with my father. All I know now is that I&#039;m far from home and missing my family and fiance so much that I feel so upset all the time and detached from everything around me. I really want to switch to something like primary teaching, something that I feel would fulfil me and a job that I would be able to get at  home. But I just feel so guilty about this after my parents have financed me so far through college, especially up until Master&#039;s level. Has anyone else made such a change after many years of training to be something else? What would your advice be? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a 23 year old master&#8217;s student studying European Law. I also have a degree in Law. But I don&#8217;t feel any passion for it anymore. I think my initial passion stemmed from &#8220;making something of myself&#8221;. It was just the idea of making my parents happy and proving to myself that I had the ability. But I realise that it&#8217;s not fulfilling me, I feel like there is something missing.  I don&#8217;t know what I am trying to prove to myself anymore &#8211; the competition and stress relating to keeping up with my peers is just too much. </p>
<p>I had a gap year where I really thought about this and suggested completely different career routes altogether, which didn&#8217;t really go down well with my father. All I know now is that I&#8217;m far from home and missing my family and fiance so much that I feel so upset all the time and detached from everything around me. I really want to switch to something like primary teaching, something that I feel would fulfil me and a job that I would be able to get at  home. But I just feel so guilty about this after my parents have financed me so far through college, especially up until Master&#8217;s level. Has anyone else made such a change after many years of training to be something else? What would your advice be? </p>
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		<title>By: Climer Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Climer Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting :D God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</p>
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		<title>By: Climer Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Climer Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting :D God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</p>
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		<title>By: Climer Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Climer Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting :D God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,  I also thank you for posting <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  God Bless., Bdw, im 22 now and i have a difficulty on finding what i really want to do in life. Reading your article and the comments somehow helped me to feel at ease. ^_^ cj</p>
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		<title>By: nothing but the truth</title>
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		<dc:creator>nothing but the truth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 07:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Ujjawalalld</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ujjawalalld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i am ujjawal dubey india i am a failler of 2 years an i am just now in  8 th standard i hat to know that which line should i use for my future an i am good in sports in school level my height is 5 inc an i am sports captain of my school 
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		<title>By: Sthorm Butungbakal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sthorm Butungbakal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 02:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahah, great blog. I googled &quot;I can&#039;t focus on studying. AM I TRYING TO FAIL&quot; and I found this page. I&#039;m a mature student and once found myself in Pete&#039;s shoes. I initially majored in Kinesiology, then Political Science, then Economics (and didn&#039;t complete a degree in any program, which is why I&#039;m now a mature student ;) I finally decided on sticking to one major and completing it whether I like it or not...I then thought, &quot;what profession makes a lot of money?&quot; Doctor- nah, I&#039;m not science savvy, Lawyer-nah, I&#039;m not sharp enough, Accountant-hey, that could work! I then set specific goals. 1. Get A&#039;s in school. 2. Get into a Big 4 accounting firm. 2. Surround myself with smart students to network myself later for job opportunities. I&#039;m currently on step 1 and am managing to get straight A&#039;s going into 2nd year. In the words of Matthew Kelly,  &quot;A goal without an action plan is a daydream&quot;. Get specific about your goal and action it. That&#039;s where you&#039;ll begin to shine. Little improvements, day by day toward that goal gets you closer.... And after this rant-&gt;BACK TO STUDYING :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahah, great blog. I googled &#8220;I can&#8217;t focus on studying. AM I TRYING TO FAIL&#8221; and I found this page. I&#8217;m a mature student and once found myself in Pete&#8217;s shoes. I initially majored in Kinesiology, then Political Science, then Economics (and didn&#8217;t complete a degree in any program, which is why I&#8217;m now a mature student <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  I finally decided on sticking to one major and completing it whether I like it or not&#8230;I then thought, &#8220;what profession makes a lot of money?&#8221; Doctor- nah, I&#8217;m not science savvy, Lawyer-nah, I&#8217;m not sharp enough, Accountant-hey, that could work! I then set specific goals. 1. Get A&#8217;s in school. 2. Get into a Big 4 accounting firm. 2. Surround myself with smart students to network myself later for job opportunities. I&#8217;m currently on step 1 and am managing to get straight A&#8217;s going into 2nd year. In the words of Matthew Kelly,  &#8220;A goal without an action plan is a daydream&#8221;. Get specific about your goal and action it. That&#8217;s where you&#8217;ll begin to shine. Little improvements, day by day toward that goal gets you closer&#8230;. And after this rant-&gt;BACK TO STUDYING <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Frank</title>
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		<dc:creator>Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just a note to thank Dr.gboco for your recovery spell that you did for me and my family over the past few weeks. The spell has definitely listened and has given myself and my family, what we call a miracle. My Wife was able to retain her position at the company where she is employed after an extremely close call with the possibility of unemployment after eleven years.
This morning I was called and offered a Teaching position at a Christian School. I had taught many years ago at the public school level. We then moved to California and due to state regulations at the time I was not able to return to the classroom where my heart really was at.
As I sit and type this up I am just ecstatic ...Praise the gods of Dr.Gboco and May God Bless You gbocotemple@yahoo.com Thank you very much.

frank, De and the three Girls
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a note to thank Dr.gboco for your recovery spell that you did for me and my family over the past few weeks. The spell has definitely listened and has given myself and my family, what we call a miracle. My Wife was able to retain her position at the company where she is employed after an extremely close call with the possibility of unemployment after eleven years.<br />
This morning I was called and offered a Teaching position at a Christian School. I had taught many years ago at the public school level. We then moved to California and due to state regulations at the time I was not able to return to the classroom where my heart really was at.<br />
As I sit and type this up I am just ecstatic &#8230;Praise the gods of Dr.Gboco and May God Bless You <a href="mailto:gbocotemple@yahoo.com">gbocotemple@yahoo.com</a> Thank you very much.</p>
<p>frank, De and the three Girls</p>
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