Comments on: Words that HEAL and EMPOWER

By: links for 2009-12-06 | Estate of Flux

links for 2009-12-06 | Estate of Flux — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 07:01:52 +0000

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By: Cristina

Cristina — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 14:47:57 +0000

This was very deep and insightful! I will try this out in the next weeks!

Thank you!

By: JorgeN

JorgeN — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 23:07:04 +0000

Wonderful article !
Consider complementing the words and phrases you use with this great software I was recently introduced to by none other than Tony Robbins: http://www.tradexmindnow.com
Its objective is to program your mind with the words/phrases of your choice – this is also known as subliminal messaging – try it out.
JorgeN

By: Dr. Clark Falconer

Dr. Clark Falconer — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:38:12 +0000

Eduard: Your comment is on the pulse of the book’s theme and of course only briefly alluded to in the blog. In the book there are specific sections outlining the relationship of The Three Words to the essence of LOVE specifically. For instance there are sections on feelings as LOVE essence, sensations as LOVE essence, sex as LOVE essence, behavior as LOVE essence and on and on. Each section demonstrates your point of how one can be most healthy by using the Three Words in each area precisely. Thanks again and let me know your further thoughts. Blessings. Clark.

By: Dr. Clark Falconer

Dr. Clark Falconer — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:31:54 +0000

Ian: This is a very useful and meaningful reply to my blog. I am going to write another blog shortly addressing some of your specific ideas and questions. I can say, however, that I believe I have answered each of your points in great detail in the book. If you have the opportunity to read it I would love to hear your comments then. As one example, in the book I show the relationship of Won’t to what wise men have spoken of through history: the idea of non-doing. This is why I add it to Will rather than make WILL all encompassing. I also talk in detail about why I think three words is the correct formulation based on revered ideas like the Trinity. Blessings to you and thanks again. Clark.

By: Ideas With A Kick

Ideas With A Kick — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 16:54:39 +0000

I like your article cause it got me thinking about the power of words. One distinction I make very often is between precise and imprecise words.

We think stuff like: I’m an idiot, or You look terrible. Then we say these things to other. The problem is these sentences are all imprecise: they exaggerate, they dramatize and they generate strong emotions.

If we learn to use more precise and realistic words, we can get a lot more leverage.

Eduard

By: Ian | Quantum Learning

Ian | Quantum Learning — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 12:39:32 +0000

Thanks for this thoughtful article.

Indeed the words we use reveal to us (and others if we speak them) a lot about our inner selves. I learned some years ago the importance of noticing the words I use and found them a powerful route to greater self-awareness.

I think boiling it down to three words is a good start and your choice of words triggers a few things for me: my mind.

- I’ve found ‘I AM’ to be rather static and prefer to express myself in a more dynamic way. ‘I feel love’, ‘I have energy’, ‘I shine light’. That way I don’t get too much identified with what might follow ‘I am ..’

- I didn’t quite understand the point about ‘Will not’. I believe (but can offer no proof) that our subconscious mind has a hard time with negative words like ‘Not’ and tends to get attracted to the ‘will’ part. It’s easy to translate the ‘Will not’ into ‘Will’. For example ‘I will keep my judgements to myself’

I’d welcome your thought on these.

By: Dr. Clark Falconer

Dr. Clark Falconer — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 20:04:32 +0000

Sorry Elisabeth: of course your comment came from not only the blog but from reading the book. This makes it all the more valuable. I meant to end my first comment by just saying let me know if you have any further thoughts. Thanks again. Clark.

By: Dr. Clark Falconer

Dr. Clark Falconer — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:56:31 +0000

Courtney: I very much appreciate your comments and of course agree wholeheartedly with them. If you go on to read the book and practice the exercises inside I would value your assessment of their benefit in your life. Nice to be in touch with you and grateful for your time and interest. Clark.

By: Dr. Clark Falconer

Dr. Clark Falconer — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:50:28 +0000

Thanks Gabe! If your impression of the blog is that it is powerful I think it means you are already open to, or doing, important internal work. The book will at the very least be a significant supplement to your progress. If you get a moment when you finish it do let me know your further thoughts. Great to be in touch with you. Clark.