Comments on: Why You Shouldn’t Care What Others Think About You

By: mememe

mememe — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:19:00 +0000

“I read somewhere recently that the world would be terrible if nobody
cared what other people thought of them. But why so? We all know what’s
right and wrong.”

Not true. Some people don’t think the same things are ‘right’ and ‘wrong’. This is where society comes in. Collective society serves to show what’s ‘right’ and prevent the ‘wrong’, since the ‘wrong’ is not good as a whole. It also helps to keep people from being self-centered, an idea that kills societies.

By: Reisinger0313

Reisinger0313 — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:13:00 +0000

I’ve been emotionally abused (bullied) to near defeat. My step sisters were brutal! But, I saw the reason why on my last breathe. Jealousy, Yes they were jealous that my father, so they thought, loved me more than them! Their hating hearts are so brutal! I have to let go of them in order to make it. Enough is Enough! It hurts to let go but it hurts more to continue in their bully battle. Please LORD forgive me, but I need to stand alone! I will not hate, but I will not let any more pain in either. My soul is FREE! Great to talk to all who have listened! Be Strong!

By: Cadillac_hits

Cadillac_hits — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 06:47:00 +0000

This is so true!! I always believed that when you start livin your life for others, you’re not livin YOUR Life at all!! You lose all control!! Love yourself before anyone will love you!! If they don’t like you for who you are, then fuck them!!

By: LadyP

LadyP — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 19:02:00 +0000

Totally relate to this. I never used to be quiet but a couple of very bad experiences took its toll on me … took me a while to start feeling better again but ever since I have been told i’m quiet, shy, etc.. annoying because I don’t think I am ..it’s just a result of what’s happened to me .. I feel ok talking to people now but certain ones still think I’m really quiet so when I am talking to someone people go quiet and listen like its a miracle (using your words), similarly if I’m seen standing and walking/talking with someone, certain people may see and open their eyes in amazement like they can’t believe I’m actually talking to someone.. I find it really patronising. Most girls in my class at uni are really bitchy.. whenever they walk past me they burst out laughing.. That I really don’t get because I don’t dress stupidly or anything … not exacty hideous looking or anything like that.. and most other people compliment me on my high heels, dress, hair. Other girls stare at me.. look me up an down when I walk in, make comments and snigger at me. It really gets on my nerves at times because its so persistent. Random people in the street sometime stare and start laughing when I walk past I don’t understand that either. People in my class have been gettin to me the most tho lately.. I was walkin out the classroom once, and 1 girl said to this other 1… “She’s SO unsociable”….. arrgggghhh!!! There’s alot behind what certain other people see than me just being quiet… and I’m definately not unsociable… I like talking to NICE PEOPLE!

By: Jeefa_s

Jeefa_s — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:23:00 +0000

I didn’t read the comments because I don’t care what everyone else thinks, is that a step in the right direction?

By: Wizardyfool

Wizardyfool — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 02:30:00 +0000

good article,though freedom is an illusion, it is just a word, a word that has pre conceptions and meanings within it. Because of this freedom itself has an aim or a goal ” i am free”! in this context the mear existence of the word means you can not be free. You are trapped within the boundaries of your own mind. To me freedom might be doing something that a want to do. How do you know it is what you want to do and not just what is put there by an out side influence such as tv, friends, etc. freedom is a goal which once gained results in delusional behaviour such as contentment and peace. who knows though! just spit balling!

By: Sanspriya84

Sanspriya84 — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 16:50:00 +0000

I read this article several times.. ReallyExcellent article… This is really an eye opener. Great

By: Darmon C. Smalls

Darmon C. Smalls — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 19:31:00 +0000

That’s why I don’t give two shits about what other people think. As long as I’m not perceived as a bad or disgusting person.

By: Silver Crow

Silver Crow — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 01:02:00 +0000

Oh yeahh, you just wrote about what i have been thinking for some time now, I was telling something like this to my friends and they thought i had a loose screw and was angry at society or something , thanks for putting into clear words!!

Cheers!! mate

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