Comments on: The Secrets Of How To Boost Your Charisma http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/ Sun, 21 Mar 2010 05:10:56 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Nilla http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-79781 Nilla Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:51:20 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-79781 To point #3, it's so easy to lose interest in people who talk a lot. I'm a very shy person and tend to listen attentively to people, however I find that most people are so self-absorbed and aren't interested in a two way conversation that I lose interest and don't even want to respond. The hardest struggle for me is being in groups of 3 or more. It's hard for me to get one word in and I usually just sit there and listen to the conversation. I find that a lot of charismatic people laugh out loud and I'm a quiet laugher (generally just smile). I don't see how changing my laugh wouldn't come across as being fake if I follow your point #4. Oh and to Bob, it's so easy for old people to like friendly people, it's getting the younger people to like me that's the challenging part. To point #3, it’s so easy to lose interest in people who talk a lot. I’m a very shy person and tend to listen attentively to people, however I find that most people are so self-absorbed and aren’t interested in a two way conversation that I lose interest and don’t even want to respond. The hardest struggle for me is being in groups of 3 or more. It’s hard for me to get one word in and I usually just sit there and listen to the conversation. I find that a lot of charismatic people laugh out loud and I’m a quiet laugher (generally just smile). I don’t see how changing my laugh wouldn’t come across as being fake if I follow your point #4. Oh and to Bob, it’s so easy for old people to like friendly people, it’s getting the younger people to like me that’s the challenging part.

]]> By: Joseph Scandura http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-75060 Joseph Scandura Fri, 28 Aug 2009 21:39:55 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-75060 Having a strong personality and self-confidence helps. If you don't have strong convictions, you come across as weak and indecisive, which detracts from charisma. Having a strong personality and self-confidence helps. If you don’t have strong convictions, you come across as weak and indecisive, which detracts from charisma.

]]> By: farouk http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74908 farouk Tue, 25 Aug 2009 09:33:18 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74908 nice post, especially point number 2, i guess self doubts are one of the strongest reasons people aren't charismatic nice post, especially point number 2, i guess self doubts are one of the strongest reasons people aren’t charismatic

]]> By: Josten http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74866 Josten Mon, 24 Aug 2009 05:45:21 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74866 Being honestly interested in people is a definite plus. They can tell when you are being fake and unreal with them. Also pretending to have goals will imo lower ones self esteem. Great post Being honestly interested in people is a definite plus. They can tell when you are being fake and unreal with them. Also pretending to have goals will imo lower ones self esteem.
Great post

]]> By: Bob http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74852 Bob Sun, 23 Aug 2009 16:59:43 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74852 I think that for me, it's easy to be charismatic with most people. I approach people based on some kind of stereotype I make of them when I meet them, and I approach them in the way that I think they want to be approached. TO an older man, I'll be very deferential, while to an older woman, I'll be helpful and respectful. I think that this really makes people like you a whole lot more, stand out, and be memorable for the right reasons. I think that for me, it’s easy to be charismatic with most people. I approach people based on some kind of stereotype I make of them when I meet them, and I approach them in the way that I think they want to be approached. TO an older man, I’ll be very deferential, while to an older woman, I’ll be helpful and respectful. I think that this really makes people like you a whole lot more, stand out, and be memorable for the right reasons.

]]> By: mike http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74826 mike Sun, 23 Aug 2009 03:25:52 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74826 The most important part of your post is to set goals. Not to impress people or give yourself something to talk about - but to truly go after your dreams and life desires. When you set goals and track your progress you are essentially writing your own story - and you are directing that story... The most important part of your post is to set goals. Not to impress people or give yourself something to talk about – but to truly go after your dreams and life desires. When you set goals and track your progress you are essentially writing your own story – and you are directing that story…

]]> By: jonathan figaro http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74823 jonathan figaro Sat, 22 Aug 2009 22:22:59 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74823 Self liking can be created through repetition of phrases. Choosing to speak to your self more positivity transforms you into a more positive person right before your eyes. Acting with genuine kindness, with a great big smile will increase your communication skills over night. A smile displays 100 phrases in one action. It shows self-confidence, personality, and charisma. Here is tip for loving your self. Repeat the affirmation (I like my self), within your mind or out loud with positive emotion. Do this exercise every morning and night so your subconscious can absorb your last and first thoughts of the day. Remember you have to feel the emotion of actually liking yourself. Don't repeat the phrase with dull, unemotional speech. Perform this method for 10 - 20 days, as you will begin to like yourself so much, masturbation maybe a problem for you...lol But seriously, this will help you to enjoy become more comfortable in your own skin. "Be yourself, Everyone else is taken" - Oscar Wilde Self liking can be created through repetition of phrases. Choosing to speak to your self more positivity transforms you into a more positive person right before your eyes. Acting with genuine kindness, with a great big smile will increase your communication skills over night. A smile displays 100 phrases in one action. It shows self-confidence, personality, and charisma.

Here is tip for loving your self.

Repeat the affirmation (I like my self), within your mind or out loud with positive emotion. Do this exercise every morning and night so your subconscious can absorb your last and first thoughts of the day. Remember you have to feel the emotion of actually liking yourself. Don’t repeat the phrase with dull, unemotional speech. Perform this method for 10 – 20 days, as you will begin to like yourself so much, masturbation maybe a problem for you…lol
But seriously, this will help you to enjoy become more comfortable in your own skin.

“Be yourself, Everyone else is taken”
– Oscar Wilde

]]> By: Prabhjot Bedi http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74800 Prabhjot Bedi Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:41:30 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74800 I liked the post and used it as a thought to write one too, http://www.myeclatcoach.com/2009/08/be-flame-not-moth-casanova.html cheers! I liked the post and used it as a thought to write one too,

http://www.myeclatcoach.com/2009/08/be-flame-not-moth-casanova.html

cheers!

]]> By: Anita C. McCants http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74799 Anita C. McCants Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:41:01 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74799 I prefer people to just be themselves. When you try to be like someone else you might come across as phony or insecure. If they have issues that's hurting their relationship with family, friends, co-workers, etc., then work on overcoming those issues. I prefer people to just be themselves.
When you try to be like someone else
you might come across as phony or insecure.
If they have issues that’s hurting their
relationship with family, friends, co-workers,
etc., then work on overcoming those issues.

]]> By: Ramesh Raghuvanshi http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-secrets-of-how-to-boost-your-charisma/comment-page-1/#comment-74796 Ramesh Raghuvanshi Fri, 21 Aug 2009 15:33:31 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1031#comment-74796 All you wrote how to boost your charisma is nonsense. Honesty ,intigraty,and whole heartly love to life.These three quaily reqire for good living. Chrisma is myth or say illusion.manipulation of the reality and make people fool.I hate this kind of people. All you wrote how to boost your charisma is nonsense. Honesty ,intigraty,and whole heartly love to life.These three quaily reqire for good living.
Chrisma is myth or say illusion.manipulation of the reality and make people fool.I hate this kind of people.

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