How to Stay Motivated Without Wax & Wane

 
July 25th, 2008 by Jonathan Mead

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“Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

We all know that true motivation stems from being passionate about what you’re doing. But there will still be times when your motivation will wax and wane. If there is one way to “hack” your success, remaining consistently motivated would have the biggest impact. A highly motivated person is likely to take action consistently. Without action, there are no results. Duh.

Some days we will inevitably feel more inspired than others. Especially when we’re not getting the results we want, or things are taking longer than we expected.

Here are some reasons our motivation tends to fluctuate:

  • We’ve started to do what we love for a living (our passion has become work). We associate all the negative connotations we previously had with dispassionate work.
  • We feel since we’re doing what we love as work, it’s become a must, rather than a want.
  • The pressure of needing to produce has stifled our creativity. We start to avoid doing what we love.
  • We’ve lost sight of the reasons we started our goals in the first place. We’ve become our own taskmasters and have lost touch with our original inspiration.

If we don’t exercise, our muscles will atrophy. In the same way, if we don’t regularly replenish the source of our inspiration, it too will begin to fade. The cure for this common ailment is to regularly regroup and remember why we started in the first place. We need a place we can refer back to, to cultivate our inspiration.

I’d like to propose to you a new way of seeing inspiration. Instead of just passively waiting to be inspired, we need to actively cultivate it. Cultivating inspiration is like making regular deposits in a savings account (or a mutual fund, or 401k). The more deposits you make, the more your money will grow and gain interest.

In the same way we use a savings account to ensure our financial success, we can use an inspiration bank to remain highly motivated and ensure our personal success. I’d like to suggest to you the idea of creating an “inspiration bank” (please bear with me, I know the idea may seem a bit hokey; but trust me, it works). The place you regularly cultivate inspiration can be whatever works best for you. Try to think of a place where you can regularly make deposits toward your dreams.

We all think in different ways. Some of us are kinesthetic, some of us are visual or auditory learners. However you think, choose the best idea for you.

Here are some suggestions:

  • Create a folder on your desktop where you can place inspirational photos, articles, quotes and empowering thoughts.
  • Start a journal to write inspiring ideas that resonate with you.
  • Make a vision board. Post quotes, pictures and goals that make you feel alive.
  • Create a Goal Movie. This is one of my favorite techniques because it blends nearly all senses (except taste and touch). You can see your goals, hear them and read them as well. This technique is highly effective because it activates the most centers of your brain.

When I think of a bank the first thought that comes to mind for me is security. I know it’s a safe, trusted place where I can keep my money. If I have a good savings plan, I can make regular deposits and watch it grow over time. The principle is the same with an inspiration bank, only better.

While we can control how much money we make, there’s often more of a long-term investment to making money. Inspiration, however, is free for the taking at any given time. Inspiration doesn’t have to be something we sit around and wait for. We can develop a highly inspired life by actively seeking inspiration right now.

I use this technique to help me improve in the areas of my life that are most important to me. Right now, one of my biggest goals is to become a better writer and conveyor of ideas. I like to read authors like F. Scott Fitzgerald and E.B. White to find inspiration. Reading them helps me remember the reason I started writing in the first place; to pursue a creative act that entertains and offers value to others.

I’ve made a folder on my computer that has photos and words that inspire me. Anytime I’m feeling stuck or uninspired, I can look back to it to remember why I started; why I do this day after day. It helps me remember there’s a reason for this that’s bigger than myself. Not only that, but that others have come before me and struggled as well. I’m not in this alone.

Knowing that I’m a part of something bigger than myself, helps to not become too attached with my successes or failures. I know that the work is what’s most important, not whether I produce something amazing, or just okay.

Most importantly, actively pursuing inspiration reminds that the power is in my hands. There are a lot of things you can’t control in life, but how inspired you are isn’t one of them. Inspiration = motivation = action = results.

If nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm, doesn’t it make sense to actively seek to be an enthusiastic person? That’s not something we have to sit around and wait for.

Jonathan is the author of the blog Illuminated Mind. He writes about finding Authenticity, Clarity and Balance in all aspects of living. His articles include Living Freestyle; Life Without a Template and The Cult of Productivity. You can subscribe to his blog here.

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11 Comments

  1. Pete on 25.07.2008 at 08:50 (Reply)

    Great post. I just wrote about something so similar. I find that people judge their journey towards their goals on progression. The problem with this is some days you fall back, and other days you move forward, so judging day by day is a not accurate way to determine your progress.

    Instead, judge by movement. As long as you keep trying or doing something, pass or fail, you are still working toward your goal. That thought alone is very inspiring.

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  2. janelle on 25.07.2008 at 09:13 (Reply)

    This is a great article..I find that motivation is something I have really struggled with over the past few years…you’re definitely right about doing things that you love and then having it transition into becoming a must, rather than a want. I, personally, find that I have to find various ways to reinvent old things or things that I’ve been doing for a while so that they are more enjoyable…Thanks for the tips :)

  3. The Success Professor on 25.07.2008 at 10:08 (Reply)

    Very good!

    One of the things that I have done is commit to 15 minutes a day of inspirational professional development related to my business. I listen to training CD’s or Podcasts or read books or magazines. Often I’ll do this while I am doing something else at the same time. Normally I go for more than 15 minutes, but the minimal 15 minute commitment forces me to take some action each day. I’ve noticed that when I follow this commitment I stay inspired and my business grows.

  4. Jonathan Mead on 25.07.2008 at 12:00 (Reply)

    @ Pete: That’s a great way to look at things, judging motion and action vs. results. Brilliant.

    @ Janelle: I think that’s one of the biggest obstacles we face, is remember why we started. Owning our goals and not letting them own us.

    @ Success: Vision maintenance is so important. I find myself putting it off or rationalizing it away at times, but it’s absolutely critical for staying on track.

  5. Shanel Yang on 25.07.2008 at 13:14 (Reply)

    Hi Jonathan! I personally don’t mind a little wax and wane. When I wane, that is precisely the times that I revisit my goals and motivations and, consequently, find renewed — and, often, redirected/readjusted — motivation, which is exactly what I needed. It’s like my instincts telling me that I’ve strayed too far off the path of where I want/need to go. Time to recalibrate my internal navigation device, so to speak. : )

    But, I totally agree that for the long haul, a motivation bank of sorts is extremely helpful. I look at my photo albums. In them are photos of my very poor upbringings. You can’t ignore the shabby living quarters and all the same hand-me-down outfits from first my cousin to me, then from me down to all of my 3 younger sisters. My parents were always in the same clothes. Then, prosperity came into our lives, as evidenced by photos of better homes, clothes, and even several cars when we were really well-off financially. But, our expressions in those photos were often even more dour than in the earliest photos. What does this tell me? It motivates me to achieve a level of financial comfort but never at the cost of undermining the sources of my true happiness, especially my health and my beloved relationships.

  6. Ishani Mitra on 25.07.2008 at 16:21 (Reply)

    Inspiration really is the building block on the long road to success. Without it we would have a static and dull life devoid of any enthusiasm and excitement.

  7. Eugene (Editor, Varsity Blah) on 26.07.2008 at 02:43 (Reply)

    “You can’t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club.” – Jack London

  8. Glen Allsopp on 27.07.2008 at 15:33 (Reply)

    If we don’t exercise, our muscles will atrophy. In the same way, if we don’t regularly replenish the source of our inspiration, it too will begin to fade.

    I love this quote, motivation is useful in all areas of our lives, sadly it is so easy for others to put us off or for us to become lazy and then things end up not getting done.

    Great post

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