Comments on: Personal Growth in 2009 & Beyond http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:38:52 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: » Blog Archive » Family Pride Workshop http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-72052 » Blog Archive » Family Pride Workshop Wed, 18 Mar 2009 14:45:36 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-72052 [...] who work toward a shared vision. When businesses have partners they work toward a shared VISION.  I repeat a shared VISION. The day one of the partners stop working toward the shared vision is [...] [...] who work toward a shared vision. When businesses have partners they work toward a shared VISION.  I repeat a shared VISION. The day one of the partners stop working toward the shared vision is [...]

]]> By: The New 2009: Dealing with Commitments | WHAKATE http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70709 The New 2009: Dealing with Commitments | WHAKATE Wed, 14 Jan 2009 08:45:13 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70709 [...] Personal Growth Iin 2009 & Beyond [...] [...] Personal Growth Iin 2009 & Beyond [...]

]]> By: Relax http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70523 Relax Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:36:03 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70523 Thanks a lot My goal is to get to know more people around your friend Relax ~ Thanks a lot

My goal is to get to know more people around

your friend Relax ~

]]> By: Mark-Foo dot Com | Life Empowerment http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70514 Mark-Foo dot Com | Life Empowerment Sun, 04 Jan 2009 10:38:12 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70514 You can't attain true freedom and happiness if you don't learn to forgive for resentment is a strong negative emotion which conjures up much negative energy that could effectively lead to self-destruction. Nevertheless, to forgive is indeed easier said than done. Nobody has successfully teach one to forgive. But there's no reason we shouldn't be actively seeking to learn how to forgive for it helps us to become a better and happier person. Cheers~ Mark You can’t attain true freedom and happiness if you don’t learn to forgive for resentment is a strong negative emotion which conjures up much negative energy that could effectively lead to self-destruction.

Nevertheless, to forgive is indeed easier said than done. Nobody has successfully teach one to forgive. But there’s no reason we shouldn’t be actively seeking to learn how to forgive for it helps us to become a better and happier person.

Cheers~

Mark

]]> By: Simona Rich http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70505 Simona Rich Sat, 03 Jan 2009 19:21:44 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70505 Anger and fear are the two hardest things to overcome. Yet when you start living consciously, they fall off you. It is great to live without these two emotions bothering you. Many people find it hard to forgive. They would rather keep all the anger inside them. It is unwise to do this as diseases will manifest as a result of anger not released. You can force yourself to tolerate those who hurt you. Yet this is not true forgiveness. To really forgive means to let go of all the negative feelings you hold towards the person or circumstance. When you really forgive, you feel free. You have peace of mind. You feel happiness inside you. You can learn to forgive by understanding the oneness of all of us. Why would you be angry at someone who is connected to you? Different people are on different consciousness levels. It is silly to be angry at someone who is still developing. You were on his/her consciousness level too. It does not matter if you remember this or not. We are all becoming but at different speeds. Do not hold any negative feelings towards others. Know that they will eventually improve themselves and become better human beings. It is just a matter of time. Anger and fear are the two hardest things to overcome. Yet when you start living consciously, they fall off you. It is great to live without these two emotions bothering you.

Many people find it hard to forgive. They would rather keep all the anger inside them. It is unwise to do this as diseases will manifest as a result of anger not released.

You can force yourself to tolerate those who hurt you. Yet this is not true forgiveness. To really forgive means to let go of all the negative feelings you hold towards the person or circumstance.

When you really forgive, you feel free. You have peace of mind. You feel happiness inside you.

You can learn to forgive by understanding the oneness of all of us. Why would you be angry at someone who is connected to you?

Different people are on different consciousness levels. It is silly to be angry at someone who is still developing. You were on his/her consciousness level too. It does not matter if you remember this or not. We are all becoming but at different speeds.

Do not hold any negative feelings towards others. Know that they will eventually improve themselves and become better human beings. It is just a matter of time.

]]> By: Linda Hampton RN, MSN http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70499 Linda Hampton RN, MSN Sat, 03 Jan 2009 15:03:32 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70499 Forgiveness Even that word says a mouthful. For me it has been just when I thought I had forgiven someone I get the pangs of resentment. Your right about the ego. It has a way of raising up it's head sometimes when you least expect it. Is true forgiveness an art or a science. It's probably a little bit of both. As for me forgiveness seems to be a long road but I know if I keep going I will find a way to allow my forgiveness to stick. And maybe I just hit on something here and that is the word allow. Thank you sor sharing Forgiveness
Even that word says a mouthful. For me it has been just when I thought I had forgiven someone I get the pangs of resentment.

Your right about the ego. It has a way of raising up it’s head sometimes when you least expect it. Is true forgiveness an art or a science. It’s probably a little bit of both.

As for me forgiveness seems to be a long road but I know if I keep going I will find a way to allow my forgiveness to stick. And maybe I just hit on something here and that is the word allow.

Thank you sor sharing

]]> By: Elm http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70489 Elm Fri, 02 Jan 2009 16:13:27 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70489 Thank you Kevin. What a wonderful and truly insightful piece. For me you summed it up beautifully when you wrote: "Life is too short to waste time on negativity; we should put our energy to use in trying to realize and live our dreams." Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Thank you Kevin. What a wonderful and truly insightful piece. For me you summed it up beautifully when you wrote: “Life is too short to waste time on negativity; we should put our energy to use in trying to realize and live our dreams.” Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

]]> By: Kevin Touhey http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70478 Kevin Touhey Thu, 01 Jan 2009 19:39:16 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70478 Thanks for the great feedback everyone, I appreciate your comments. Happy New Year! Thanks for the great feedback everyone, I appreciate your comments. Happy New Year!

]]> By: Mumbai http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70470 Mumbai Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:37:23 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70470 Nice article with interesting insights. I guess fine tuning our values first is the most important thing. Nice article with interesting insights. I guess fine tuning our values first is the most important thing.

]]> By: Vincent http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-70459 Vincent Wed, 31 Dec 2008 17:32:51 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/personal-growth-in-2009-beyond/#comment-70459 Using fear to propel instead to paralyze us is definitely a great advice. Whenever we set new goals and take on something that is unfamiliar to us, we tend to have fear in our mind, but we should always use fear to our advantage and help to push us to achieve more. Cheers Vincent Personal Development Blogger Using fear to propel instead to paralyze us is definitely a great advice. Whenever we set new goals and take on something that is unfamiliar to us, we tend to have fear in our mind, but we should always use fear to our advantage and help to push us to achieve more.

Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger

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