Comments on: People Do Change

By: Transforming Destructive Relationships – It’s Improv | SpiritSentient Art + Success Coaching

Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:14:14 +0000

[...] view which says ‘people don’t change’, and there’s another view that says anyone can change, at any moment. So how do we sort out all these conflicting [...]

By: Thoughtpaper

Thoughtpaper — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 07:40:00 +0000

“The
thing is - it is very odd how we change our opinion on past
decisions/events over a period of time… what seemed correct a few years
back, changes to ‘obviously’ wrong as time passes by…..” Does that mean that our behavior changes according to the time? Do read about it more in this link:
http://bit.ly/nfvPlQ

By: People Don’t Change.. I think « Smokebear

People Don’t Change.. I think « Smokebear — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 13:25:21 +0000

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By: ewe

ewe — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 21:08:28 +0000

“people don’t change” is correct, people don’t change, they redirect. ex: a recovering alcoholic is still a alcoholic, they are just redirected.

By: Ask

Ask — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 01:30:15 +0000

Meditation is one of the easiest techniques you can learn to refuel your body, mind and spirit. While many of us have heard of the benefits of meditation, few of us actually want to spend the time it takes to learn how to meditate. We often cling to stress, fear and anxiety because we think we need these things in order to function in this fast-paced world.

By: Panos

Panos — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 21:42:21 +0000

People can change. But it needs a huge slap on the face in order to turn your face and look the other way. Once someone has everything and feels satisfied, is almost impossible to change because he/she thinks that there is no need to change. Even if misfortunes hits you, it is easier to look outside for the blame than inside. Habits and patterns keep coming and coming, it needs great will to first look inside and see the truth and second great power to change the habits. I am 35 years old. All my life, in relationship level, I was very selfish and I used to cheat on my girlfriends. Even when eventually we split I accused them inside me for that. 2 years ago my ex-girlfriend left me. I got so devastated, depressed and miserable. However it was the first time in my life that instead of outside I looked inside for the trouble. I didn’t accuse her for anything and I even told to everyone that was accusing her, that they shouldn’t. I looked deep inside me, and what I saw scared me the most. I saw a person full with fears, insecurities, full with ego. I couldn’t believe that all these years that person was me. Since then I have changed many things in my life. The most important is that I had become aware of my thoughts and of how those affect my emotions. I realized that giving, gives far more pleasure than receiving. I realized that most of my fears were generated from the constant thought of I want. The moment I realized that actually I don’t want anything but to give my self to others fully and engage my self on every situation, change came naturally. And believe me it only needs a moment to realize that. It is so beautiful to see life as a game, and that you are just a single symbiotic player in it. It is so funny looking at your thoughts and how some patterns are keep coming again and again, but eventually they disappear. Finally, I realized that change doesn’t come with struggle!!! Struggle gives existence to fear, which is the generator of all evil. Acceptance is the key. But to come to an end, in order to initiate all this procedure, one must be strong enough to look inside himself. And in our modern society with all these easy fixes around that is something very difficult to achieve.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 01:13:40 +0000

my husband has always told me that people don’t change, that they just look for ways to make you look dumber. And it’s true in some reasonable and statistical way, but PEOPLE DO CHANGE, but only if they have the will to change and the power to believe in themselves that they can change! You can’t expect yourself to change if you sit there denying yourself, or by procrastinating. Someone who cheats on his or her significant other, and doesn’t see the sense in how wrong it is because they lack the basic logic to see it that way, is someone who wont change. Someone can’t change if they can’t see themselves doing anything wrong. It takes a lot to change a person, but it doesn’t neccesarily mean that they change, because once you lie, you can either do it again because it’s better to go the easy way, or you can grow up and learn the hard way and take the first step to admitting your fault and telling the truth.
I lied to my husband more than 5 times, and it took me the 6th time to realize that i was going no where, and if i wanted to be with him and show him that I really did love him, I had to change. Even if he didn’t believe me because I lost his trust as a wife and friend, I did everything i could to change because I loved him and knew that I needed to change. It takes courage and self will to change yourself.
People change, only if they have the will to though. It can take a lifetime to discover that themselves because of how corrupt our society is, or it can take one simple down fall to get them to open their eyes. But change is only there when change is being permitted and allowed and given the chance…

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