Comments on: 7 Tips On How to Handle Rejection In Life

By: gemal

gemal — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 17:23:44 +0000

I enjoyed the post. Thanks its well appreciated. I felt so bummed out and dperess. Now I feel so motivated and inspired to move foward and conquwer my life.

One of my person favorite qoute for rejection is ” for every person who rejects me a hundred more is willing to accept me” You guys are right. There are no such things as failures just opportunity to grow.

Its funny b.c Im actually a social worker and psychiatric depression advisor. It always difficult to believe our own advices for ourseleves. I can give good advices to be postive but its always difficult to take them as our own.

By: Nikos

Nikos — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:41:36 +0000

Positive self-talk is about inner-game. Handle rejection must be an habit in some area in your life. If you are not able to deal with rejection with women for example, you will not be able to have a meaningful romantic relationship.
When you stick to your habit, rejection is not a big deal anymore, because you know that it will pay one day or another.

By: I TAKE OFF THE MASK

I TAKE OFF THE MASK — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 12:18:53 +0000

Rejection is hard for us because many times, it is not really the other person rejecting us. It is us who reject ourselves first. Rejection can help us discover just how secure we are, just how much we can love ourselves despite what others say. Good day!

By: negative thought

negative thought — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:51:53 +0000

Nice article. But all bullsh*t! Who can actually do positive self talk when they are in an emotional state? Not even the best psychologist can do that.

By: mike

mike — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 15:43:51 +0000

Always reframe and view rejection as a learning, a honing experience. It is said that Colonel Sanders was turned down (rejected) over 1000 times before he got his first franchisee for Kentucky Fried Chicken. All the while he was traveling around, sometimes sleeping in his car all on the strength of a recipie he belived in.

Rejection doesn’t mean the rejector is right in rejecting you. Look at all those 999 who didn’t take the opportunity that made the Colonel and #1000 rich men. So it’s right don’t take it personally – it may be bad judgement on the rejector’s part.

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Fri, 23 Jan 2009 08:23:10 +0000

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By: 4 Ideas on Dealing With Rejection | Bizzy Women

4 Ideas on Dealing With Rejection | Bizzy Women — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 15:19:49 +0000

[...] Pickthebrain has a list of ways to deal with rejection. The site says that there are a lot of people in the world and rejection is inevitable. ” There are six billion people on this earth. We are all beautiful, unique and different. There are times we are in demand and times we may get rejected. Knowing that rejection is an emotion that many people go through is a reality check! So get over your victim mentality and move on!” [...]

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Keep Up With Me » Rejection: It Happens to Everyone — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 13:05:52 +0000

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By: Evelyn Lim

Evelyn Lim — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 05:45:38 +0000

@RaAr, totally agreed about finding ways to be positive.

@Tom, I won’t dream about missing out on mentioning about self confidence and esteem. If we can change how we feel about ourselves, we can also change how we view rejection and things happening to us in our lives.

By: Tom Volkar / Delightful Work

Tom Volkar / Delightful Work — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 14:10:46 +0000

I’m pleased to see that self-confidence made your list. It is one of the most powerful yet overlooked things we can do to turning any situation around.