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		<title>By: Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</title>
		<link>http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/how-to-choose-the-right-goals-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-61133</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 12:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ImagineNation,

Thanks so much for the kind and inspirational words.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ImagineNation,</p>
<p>Thanks so much for the kind and inspirational words.</p>
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		<title>By: ImagineNation</title>
		<link>http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/how-to-choose-the-right-goals-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-61118</link>
		<dc:creator>ImagineNation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 07:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this lovely piece of post.There is nothing one cannot do and if we have the right attitude combined with the right kind of motivation in the right direction, then everything is possible.Never lose hope at any stage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this lovely piece of post.There is nothing one cannot do and if we have the right attitude combined with the right kind of motivation in the right direction, then everything is possible.Never lose hope at any stage.</p>
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		<title>By: Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</title>
		<link>http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/how-to-choose-the-right-goals-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-61079</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 12:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eugene,

Thanks for the quote - it&#039;s lovely.

CindySense,

Amen sister!  We all know how impossible it is to get someone else to do what we want them to do (ever try to get someone else to quit smoking or lose weight?)...but it is equally difficult to get ourselves to do something that our heart isn&#039;t really in.  

Our goals have to be just that - ours. That&#039;s the only way we can even hope  to attain them or to enjoy the process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eugene,</p>
<p>Thanks for the quote &#8211; it&#8217;s lovely.</p>
<p>CindySense,</p>
<p>Amen sister!  We all know how impossible it is to get someone else to do what we want them to do (ever try to get someone else to quit smoking or lose weight?)&#8230;but it is equally difficult to get ourselves to do something that our heart isn&#8217;t really in.  </p>
<p>Our goals have to be just that &#8211; ours. That&#8217;s the only way we can even hope  to attain them or to enjoy the process.</p>
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		<title>By: Eugene (Editor, Varsity Blah)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eugene (Editor, Varsity Blah)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 05:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“To find your mission in life is to discover the intersection between your heart’s deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger.” – Frederick Buechner</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“To find your mission in life is to discover the intersection between your heart’s deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger.” – Frederick Buechner</p>
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		<title>By: CindySense</title>
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		<dc:creator>CindySense</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 19:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the post - Just want to add that when you begin setting your goals - your goal needs to be something you personally desire.  If you&#039;re trying to achieve something that someone else wants, your fighting an uphill battle that will more than likely be lost.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the post &#8211; Just want to add that when you begin setting your goals &#8211; your goal needs to be something you personally desire.  If you&#8217;re trying to achieve something that someone else wants, your fighting an uphill battle that will more than likely be lost.</p>
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		<title>By: Edgar Pina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Edgar Pina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 15:58:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sory about that bug... i wanted to replay to Lori... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sory about that bug&#8230; i wanted to replay to Lori&#8230; <img src='http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Edgar Pina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Edgar Pina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 15:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Marelisa, &quot;Real&quot; and Strong Goals are the single most important thing for achieving sucess in the &quot;life game&quot;.
Inertia always wins if you dont have a realy strong why. 

A great hug from Portugal!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Marelisa, &#8220;Real&#8221; and Strong Goals are the single most important thing for achieving sucess in the &#8220;life game&#8221;.<br />
Inertia always wins if you dont have a realy strong why. </p>
<p>A great hug from Portugal!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori &#124; BetweenUsGirls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 12:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marelisa,

Thanks for the response.  True, we all make some sacrifices to get where we want to go.  It&#039;s just important to balance sacrifice with enjoyment.  Everything in moderation, as my Dad always said!

Michael,

You make a good point...just because we don&#039;t have a natural ability for something doesn&#039;t mean that we can&#039;t acquire the skill if we want it badly enough.  We just have to make sure we&#039;re not battling against our own nature and making ourselves miserable trying to be somebody or something we&#039;re not.  As you said though, sometimes we can push our own limits a bit and find that we enjoy something we once feared.  Thanks for bringing that up!

Edgar,

Real goals are the key to success aren&#039;t they?

Shilpan,

Thanks for the response.  I read that article and it is right on the money!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marelisa,</p>
<p>Thanks for the response.  True, we all make some sacrifices to get where we want to go.  It&#8217;s just important to balance sacrifice with enjoyment.  Everything in moderation, as my Dad always said!</p>
<p>Michael,</p>
<p>You make a good point&#8230;just because we don&#8217;t have a natural ability for something doesn&#8217;t mean that we can&#8217;t acquire the skill if we want it badly enough.  We just have to make sure we&#8217;re not battling against our own nature and making ourselves miserable trying to be somebody or something we&#8217;re not.  As you said though, sometimes we can push our own limits a bit and find that we enjoy something we once feared.  Thanks for bringing that up!</p>
<p>Edgar,</p>
<p>Real goals are the key to success aren&#8217;t they?</p>
<p>Shilpan,</p>
<p>Thanks for the response.  I read that article and it is right on the money!</p>
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		<title>By: Shilpan &#124;  successsoul.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shilpan &#124;  successsoul.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 12:08:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lori -

Excellent post. All your points are well taken. I consider goal is a process of finding who you are and what makes you happy and then use that what makes you happy as a tool to reach life of abundance. As I&#039;ve outlined in my article,
http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/5-ways-to-bury-a-great-idea/#more-503
one must develop intense desire, have strong faith and strong conviction to believe that best and fulfilling life is to arrive.

Shilpan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lori -</p>
<p>Excellent post. All your points are well taken. I consider goal is a process of finding who you are and what makes you happy and then use that what makes you happy as a tool to reach life of abundance. As I&#8217;ve outlined in my article,<br />
<a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/5-ways-to-bury-a-great-idea/#more-503" rel="nofollow">http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/5-ways-to-bury-a-great-idea/#more-503</a><br />
one must develop intense desire, have strong faith and strong conviction to believe that best and fulfilling life is to arrive.</p>
<p>Shilpan</p>
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		<title>By: Edgar Pina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Edgar Pina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 09:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, it&#039;s always dificult to teeach someone to set goals when he dont have a clue of what is a real &quot;goal&quot;.

Thanks for sharing!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, it&#8217;s always dificult to teeach someone to set goals when he dont have a clue of what is a real &#8220;goal&#8221;.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing!!!</p>
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