Comments on: Healthy Relationships: Think Twice Before Getting Married http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Ask http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-102327 Ask Thu, 16 Jun 2011 06:49:33 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-102327 A friend is a kind of help. Rain the life on the road, friends can block wind chill for you, for you share sorrow, remove the pain and difficulties, friends will always friendship. He is you climb up the escalator when you were injured, is a medicine, is you when a bowl of water of hunger, is when you across the river is the boat; He is money can't buy orders not to come of, only the truly can track, and the most valuable for the real thing. A friend is a kind of acacia, a friend is each other, each other about miss, mutual concerns, each other on. Missing is like a flow of endless river, like a gentle frivolous, like a cloud of a fragrant flowers, like a piece of lingering sound made by the wind. Sometimes he also is a kind of light memories, light tea, light resonance...... Have the friendship, little a lot of worry, gloomy leaves, won't fall on the earth, and float on the surface, to distant drift, friendship is the river is, is a kind of pure and fresh air, behind out in front...... A friend is a kind of help. Rain the life on the road, friends can block wind chill for you, for you share sorrow, remove the pain and difficulties, friends will always friendship.
He is you climb up the escalator when you were injured, is a medicine, is you when a bowl of water of hunger, is when you across the river is the boat; He is money can’t buy orders not to come of, only the truly can track, and the most valuable for the real thing.
A friend is a kind of acacia, a friend is each other, each other about miss, mutual concerns, each other on. Missing is like a flow of endless river, like a gentle frivolous, like a cloud of a fragrant flowers, like a piece of lingering sound made by the wind.
Sometimes he also is a kind of light memories, light tea, light resonance……
Have the friendship, little a lot of worry, gloomy leaves, won’t fall on the earth, and float on the surface, to distant drift, friendship is the river is, is a kind of pure and fresh air, behind out in front……

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]]> By: Jen http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-72507 Jen Mon, 11 May 2009 10:46:50 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-72507 Once maturity of the couple is not enough to take the responsibility and over all commitment to that Marriage life. Marriage is definitely not an option. If you know and really understand it's term and deeper meaning, you should probably accept it as another step in a relationship. Once maturity of the couple is not enough to take the responsibility and over all commitment to that Marriage life. Marriage is definitely not an option. If you know and really understand it’s term and deeper meaning, you should probably accept it as another step in a relationship.

]]> By: John Wesley http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-20080 John Wesley Sun, 07 Oct 2007 16:34:27 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-20080 I definitely agree that marriage can be a great decision when you have the right situation, but I thought that article was a good overview of important things to consider when deciding to make the leap or not. I'm still a single guy though, so what do I know. ;) I definitely agree that marriage can be a great decision when you have the right situation, but I thought that article was a good overview of important things to consider when deciding to make the leap or not. I’m still a single guy though, so what do I know. ;)

]]> By: Cindy http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-20065 Cindy Sun, 07 Oct 2007 12:33:15 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-20065 It is smarter to get married many times, than to shack-up with a person who may run out on you and all possessions. An unmarried woman with kids sired from the man she lives with could marry another woman and have kids. The first set of kids and the companion, could get nothing. Marry for the kids, and to retain what is yours. It is smarter to get married many times, than to shack-up with a person who may run out on you and all possessions. An unmarried woman with kids sired from the man she lives with could marry another woman and have kids.
The first set of kids and the companion, could get nothing. Marry for the kids, and to retain what is yours.

]]> By: Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-20045 Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk Sun, 07 Oct 2007 04:12:24 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-20045 Marriage has been great for us. There have been some rough times, but we work well as a team. We married with the idea that it was a lifetime commitment, and we both have a sense of humor. Both of those are important. I can't think of anything more wonderful than a long-time relationship like this. You can be truly yourself and have someone to share it with. Marriage has been great for us. There have been some rough times, but we work well as a team. We married with the idea that it was a lifetime commitment, and we both have a sense of humor. Both of those are important. I can’t think of anything more wonderful than a long-time relationship like this. You can be truly yourself and have someone to share it with.

]]> By: John Wesley http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-20019 John Wesley Sat, 06 Oct 2007 18:26:13 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-20019 Hmmm, well that's a bit extreme. Hmmm, well that’s a bit extreme.

]]> By: Yaroslav http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-20013 Yaroslav Sat, 06 Oct 2007 17:25:07 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-20013 Long story short, DON'T get married. Long story short, DON’T get married.

]]> By: Oddblot http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-19964 Oddblot Fri, 05 Oct 2007 21:32:05 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/healthy-relationships-think-twice-before-getting-married/#comment-19964 I have always wondered if some couples are simply better off not getting married and just being together. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, never with any discussion of marriage (unless we're marveling that anyone does), or even moving in. We need our space and we know it, so why push our relationship into a place where it might fail? We have a hard time being taken seriously, though, because we aren't taking the course usually taken by couples who have decided the invisible timer is ticking and they need to "take the next step". I always have people wanting me to date their friend, or just go ahead and "have fun" because I'm not really "serious" about my guy. But I am, our relationship has been work, serious and meaningful work. I can't imagine anyone better for either one of us, and that's partly because we live apart and respect the wishes of ourselves instead of the needs of our community to see us as a real couple. Thank you for bringing this subject to light. I have always wondered if some couples are simply better off not getting married and just being together. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, never with any discussion of marriage (unless we’re marveling that anyone does), or even moving in. We need our space and we know it, so why push our relationship into a place where it might fail?

We have a hard time being taken seriously, though, because we aren’t taking the course usually taken by couples who have decided the invisible timer is ticking and they need to “take the next step”. I always have people wanting me to date their friend, or just go ahead and “have fun” because I’m not really “serious” about my guy. But I am, our relationship has been work, serious and meaningful work. I can’t imagine anyone better for either one of us, and that’s partly because we live apart and respect the wishes of ourselves instead of the needs of our community to see us as a real couple.

Thank you for bringing this subject to light.

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