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		<title>By: Michelle Santagate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle Santagate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 12:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unfortunately, Not fidgeting is impossible for someone with Tourettes, but you work with what you have.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, Not fidgeting is impossible for someone with Tourettes, but you work with what you have.</p>
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		<title>By: kyle done</title>
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		<dc:creator>kyle done</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2011 08:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i beleive body language is a good sign. but dont beleive its cold hard fact. people say body langauge dont lie. but being a sufferer of aspergers (high functioning autism) my body language is quite oppoistive how i feel. all my sociol being is concious..i got to try to have good body language and say the right thing..what i would like to see is employers put less empahsis on body langauge</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i beleive body language is a good sign. but dont beleive its cold hard fact. people say body langauge dont lie. but being a sufferer of aspergers (high functioning autism) my body language is quite oppoistive how i feel. all my sociol being is concious..i got to try to have good body language and say the right thing..what i would like to see is employers put less empahsis on body langauge</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:52:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eric Embree, Kimberly Kinrade. Kimberly Kinrade said: RT @la_loquita RT @Chillami: Communication: Is your body language sending the wrong signals? http://dld.bz/jqVc #Lifehack #useful [...]</description>
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		<title>By: prom gowns</title>
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		<dc:creator>prom gowns</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 04:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Im glad to see that people are actually writing about this issue in such a smart way, showing us all different sides to it. Youre a great blogger.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im glad to see that people are actually writing about this issue in such a smart way, showing us all different sides to it. Youre a great blogger.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeeshan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeeshan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 11:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello everybody,
                I have been heavily annoyed by my elder sibling just because of her annoying body movements and sounds, it&#039;s ok and easy to tolerate when it happens once in a while but heck I deal with it everyday sitting in front of the annoyer(since we live under the same roof).
It&#039;s been more than 6yrs since i noticed such stuff from her and she always gets on my nerves without a word ,what do i do? I simply keep silent trying to ignore her torture but oh there comes some sharp annoying noise or gesture.
Now i suffer from depression (sadly i am only 20 yrs old and i suffer from psychological erectyle dysfunction) I have even tried to explain this to my psychologist but in vain , since you people are aware of this topic i would like to know how to deal with it.

Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello everybody,<br />
                I have been heavily annoyed by my elder sibling just because of her annoying body movements and sounds, it&#8217;s ok and easy to tolerate when it happens once in a while but heck I deal with it everyday sitting in front of the annoyer(since we live under the same roof).<br />
It&#8217;s been more than 6yrs since i noticed such stuff from her and she always gets on my nerves without a word ,what do i do? I simply keep silent trying to ignore her torture but oh there comes some sharp annoying noise or gesture.<br />
Now i suffer from depression (sadly i am only 20 yrs old and i suffer from psychological erectyle dysfunction) I have even tried to explain this to my psychologist but in vain , since you people are aware of this topic i would like to know how to deal with it.</p>
<p>Thanks.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 12:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Jacki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For the most part, all of this is true. However, when communicating with people from other cultures, you have to be more careful. Eye contact can be considered rude in some Asian countries, anything but stiffness would be disrespectful when addressed by military officials while on duty, and various countries find the OK hand gesture not to mean OK, but either, &quot;you&#039;re an asshole,&quot; or, &quot;I&#039;m going to kill you.&quot;

Unless one&#039;s prone to travel, this shouldn&#039;t be a problem, but it&#039;s something to note.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the most part, all of this is true. However, when communicating with people from other cultures, you have to be more careful. Eye contact can be considered rude in some Asian countries, anything but stiffness would be disrespectful when addressed by military officials while on duty, and various countries find the OK hand gesture not to mean OK, but either, &#8220;you&#8217;re an asshole,&#8221; or, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to kill you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Unless one&#8217;s prone to travel, this shouldn&#8217;t be a problem, but it&#8217;s something to note.</p>
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		<title>By: Kiss, Bow, Shake Hands - but don&#8217;t jingle your change. &#171; Access All Areas</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 13:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I just discovered a great site called Picking the Brain that seems to have an answer for everything you didn&#8217;t know you wanted to ask. A lot of common sense tips, but great reminders for those of us that work with groups of people for a living. Today&#8217;s topic was bad body language. Here&#8217;s the tips and tricks - but be sure to check out the site for other gems: [...]</description>
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		<title>By: John Wesley</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Wesley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 19:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ryan,

I&#039;m glad you found the site. The truth is, the reason I can write about these problems is because I deal with them myself. The fact you know that there is room for improvement is a great sign.

Over-analyzing has been a problem of mine as well. I&#039;d suggest that when you find yourself over-thinking, reel yourself in and take action instead. When you think about something it&#039;s possible to keep thinking forever without making any progress. The key to learning and evolving and trial and error through action.

As far as bad body language goes, I think the biggest factor is comfort. If you aren&#039;t comfortable it always comes through in body language. Again, the best way to get comfortable is experience, so practice throwing yourself into tough situations. It isn&#039;t easy, but the more you do it the better it feels.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you found the site. The truth is, the reason I can write about these problems is because I deal with them myself. The fact you know that there is room for improvement is a great sign.</p>
<p>Over-analyzing has been a problem of mine as well. I&#8217;d suggest that when you find yourself over-thinking, reel yourself in and take action instead. When you think about something it&#8217;s possible to keep thinking forever without making any progress. The key to learning and evolving and trial and error through action.</p>
<p>As far as bad body language goes, I think the biggest factor is comfort. If you aren&#8217;t comfortable it always comes through in body language. Again, the best way to get comfortable is experience, so practice throwing yourself into tough situations. It isn&#8217;t easy, but the more you do it the better it feels.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 19:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi

First let me say that i just found your website today on digg. I really like it so far and I&#039;m sorry to say that I am probably the perfect poster boy for alot of the problems you discuss.

I definitly do alot of the things you listed above. My problem however is that I recognize when I am doing these things, but don&#039;t know how to bring myself out of it. Infact it seems the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I was just wondering if you had any suggested &quot;replacments&quot;. Or some advice of how to get myself out of what seems like a loop from one bad body language to another. My friends say I over-analyze a lot of things and I agree. I don;t know how to fix the problem without thinking about it though, and I don&#039;t know how to think about it without overanalyzing it. HELP ME!

Ryan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi</p>
<p>First let me say that i just found your website today on digg. I really like it so far and I&#8217;m sorry to say that I am probably the perfect poster boy for alot of the problems you discuss.</p>
<p>I definitly do alot of the things you listed above. My problem however is that I recognize when I am doing these things, but don&#8217;t know how to bring myself out of it. Infact it seems the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I was just wondering if you had any suggested &#8220;replacments&#8221;. Or some advice of how to get myself out of what seems like a loop from one bad body language to another. My friends say I over-analyze a lot of things and I agree. I don;t know how to fix the problem without thinking about it though, and I don&#8217;t know how to think about it without overanalyzing it. HELP ME!</p>
<p>Ryan</p>
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