Comments on: Communication: Is your body language sending the wrong signals? http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:38:52 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jeeshan http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-70922 Jeeshan Sat, 24 Jan 2009 11:36:30 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-70922 Hello everybody, I have been heavily annoyed by my elder sibling just because of her annoying body movements and sounds, it's ok and easy to tolerate when it happens once in a while but heck I deal with it everyday sitting in front of the annoyer(since we live under the same roof). It's been more than 6yrs since i noticed such stuff from her and she always gets on my nerves without a word ,what do i do? I simply keep silent trying to ignore her torture but oh there comes some sharp annoying noise or gesture. Now i suffer from depression (sadly i am only 20 yrs old and i suffer from psychological erectyle dysfunction) I have even tried to explain this to my psychologist but in vain , since you people are aware of this topic i would like to know how to deal with it. Thanks. Hello everybody,
I have been heavily annoyed by my elder sibling just because of her annoying body movements and sounds, it’s ok and easy to tolerate when it happens once in a while but heck I deal with it everyday sitting in front of the annoyer(since we live under the same roof).
It’s been more than 6yrs since i noticed such stuff from her and she always gets on my nerves without a word ,what do i do? I simply keep silent trying to ignore her torture but oh there comes some sharp annoying noise or gesture.
Now i suffer from depression (sadly i am only 20 yrs old and i suffer from psychological erectyle dysfunction) I have even tried to explain this to my psychologist but in vain , since you people are aware of this topic i would like to know how to deal with it.

Thanks.

]]> By: How to lower cholesterol through your diet | Self Help Station http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-52114 How to lower cholesterol through your diet | Self Help Station Tue, 08 Apr 2008 12:43:29 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-52114 [...] not all cholesterol is bad for the body. In fact, our bodies need cholesterol to make bile salts. It is also a major ingredients in [...] [...] not all cholesterol is bad for the body. In fact, our bodies need cholesterol to make bile salts. It is also a major ingredients in [...]

]]> By: Jacki http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20401 Jacki Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:50:29 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20401 For the most part, all of this is true. However, when communicating with people from other cultures, you have to be more careful. Eye contact can be considered rude in some Asian countries, anything but stiffness would be disrespectful when addressed by military officials while on duty, and various countries find the OK hand gesture not to mean OK, but either, "you're an asshole," or, "I'm going to kill you." Unless one's prone to travel, this shouldn't be a problem, but it's something to note. For the most part, all of this is true. However, when communicating with people from other cultures, you have to be more careful. Eye contact can be considered rude in some Asian countries, anything but stiffness would be disrespectful when addressed by military officials while on duty, and various countries find the OK hand gesture not to mean OK, but either, “you’re an asshole,” or, “I’m going to kill you.”

Unless one’s prone to travel, this shouldn’t be a problem, but it’s something to note.

]]> By: Kiss, Bow, Shake Hands - but don’t jingle your change. « Access All Areas http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20226 Kiss, Bow, Shake Hands - but don’t jingle your change. « Access All Areas Wed, 10 Oct 2007 13:53:57 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20226 [...] I just discovered a great site called Picking the Brain that seems to have an answer for everything you didn’t know you wanted to ask. A lot of common sense tips, but great reminders for those of us that work with groups of people for a living. Today’s topic was bad body language. Here’s the tips and tricks - but be sure to check out the site for other gems: [...] [...] I just discovered a great site called Picking the Brain that seems to have an answer for everything you didn’t know you wanted to ask. A lot of common sense tips, but great reminders for those of us that work with groups of people for a living. Today’s topic was bad body language. Here’s the tips and tricks – but be sure to check out the site for other gems: [...]

]]> By: John Wesley http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20192 John Wesley Tue, 09 Oct 2007 19:25:32 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20192 Ryan, I'm glad you found the site. The truth is, the reason I can write about these problems is because I deal with them myself. The fact you know that there is room for improvement is a great sign. Over-analyzing has been a problem of mine as well. I'd suggest that when you find yourself over-thinking, reel yourself in and take action instead. When you think about something it's possible to keep thinking forever without making any progress. The key to learning and evolving and trial and error through action. As far as bad body language goes, I think the biggest factor is comfort. If you aren't comfortable it always comes through in body language. Again, the best way to get comfortable is experience, so practice throwing yourself into tough situations. It isn't easy, but the more you do it the better it feels. Ryan,

I’m glad you found the site. The truth is, the reason I can write about these problems is because I deal with them myself. The fact you know that there is room for improvement is a great sign.

Over-analyzing has been a problem of mine as well. I’d suggest that when you find yourself over-thinking, reel yourself in and take action instead. When you think about something it’s possible to keep thinking forever without making any progress. The key to learning and evolving and trial and error through action.

As far as bad body language goes, I think the biggest factor is comfort. If you aren’t comfortable it always comes through in body language. Again, the best way to get comfortable is experience, so practice throwing yourself into tough situations. It isn’t easy, but the more you do it the better it feels.

]]> By: Ryan http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20190 Ryan Tue, 09 Oct 2007 19:11:40 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20190 Hi First let me say that i just found your website today on digg. I really like it so far and I'm sorry to say that I am probably the perfect poster boy for alot of the problems you discuss. I definitly do alot of the things you listed above. My problem however is that I recognize when I am doing these things, but don't know how to bring myself out of it. Infact it seems the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I was just wondering if you had any suggested "replacments". Or some advice of how to get myself out of what seems like a loop from one bad body language to another. My friends say I over-analyze a lot of things and I agree. I don;t know how to fix the problem without thinking about it though, and I don't know how to think about it without overanalyzing it. HELP ME! Ryan Hi

First let me say that i just found your website today on digg. I really like it so far and I’m sorry to say that I am probably the perfect poster boy for alot of the problems you discuss.

I definitly do alot of the things you listed above. My problem however is that I recognize when I am doing these things, but don’t know how to bring myself out of it. Infact it seems the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I was just wondering if you had any suggested “replacments”. Or some advice of how to get myself out of what seems like a loop from one bad body language to another. My friends say I over-analyze a lot of things and I agree. I don;t know how to fix the problem without thinking about it though, and I don’t know how to think about it without overanalyzing it. HELP ME!

Ryan

]]> By: John Wesley http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20172 John Wesley Tue, 09 Oct 2007 17:08:23 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20172 Thanks for the suggestions, Steven. I especially agree with second one, and find myself practicing it unintentionally. It's amazing how the accent or body language of the person you converse with can affect your own mannerisms. Thanks for the suggestions, Steven. I especially agree with second one, and find myself practicing it unintentionally. It’s amazing how the accent or body language of the person you converse with can affect your own mannerisms.

]]> By: Steve http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20171 Steve Tue, 09 Oct 2007 17:04:47 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20171 hi John, I guess it depends on the outcome you want. If you want to improve your rapport with someone then you may want to try and mirror body movements of the person you're speaking with. If you want to feel good, you may just try to smile, stand with you're chest pecked out and you're head up. Stephen Martile Personal Development Made Simple www.stephenmartile.com hi John,

I guess it depends on the outcome you want. If you want to improve your rapport with someone then you may want to try and mirror body movements of the person you’re speaking with.

If you want to feel good, you may just try to smile, stand with you’re chest pecked out and you’re head up.

Stephen Martile
Personal Development Made Simple
http://www.stephenmartile.com

]]> By: John Wesley http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20157 John Wesley Tue, 09 Oct 2007 12:13:33 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20157 That's a good point, Laurent. Reading body language is very subjective -- it's based more on feel and general impressions than any set criteria. That’s a good point, Laurent. Reading body language is very subjective — it’s based more on feel and general impressions than any set criteria.

]]> By: Laurent Brixius http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/comment-page-1/#comment-20151 Laurent Brixius Tue, 09 Oct 2007 11:08:54 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/communication-is-your-body-language-sending-the-wrong-signals/#comment-20151 Hello John, There is one thing very important about analyzing body language: each gesture must be replaced in his context. No conclusion can be made with only one isolated body movement. You have to track other clues to put a name on the body language of someone. An private detective job! Laurent Hello John,

There is one thing very important about analyzing body language: each gesture must be replaced in his context.

No conclusion can be made with only one isolated body movement. You have to track other clues to put a name on the body language of someone. An private detective job!

Laurent

]]>