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The Other Side of Productivity: Coincidences, Synchronicity, and Serendipity

“We but half express ourselves, and are ashamed of that divine idea which each of us represents.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Many books, articles and blog posts have been written on the subject of productivity. Many of these contain great advice, including things such as: check your e-mail in bulk, and only twice a day; touch each paper that comes across your desk just once; set a strict limit on the amount of time you spend on social networking sites; have clearly defined goals; break your goals down into milestones and then into small, achievable steps; schedule those steps into your day; and so on. These are all logical, linear, and progressive steps that you can, and should, take to become more productive.

However, by putting so much emphasis on the linear aspects of productivity – that is, on things such as organization and time management – the non-linear, quantum leap aspects of productivity are being neglected. The other side of productivity involves synchronicity instead of decluttering, serendipity instead of creating processes, and coincidences instead of daily planners.

Coincidences

“Coincidence” is defined in Wikipedia as “the noteworthy alignment of two or more events or circumstances without obvious causal connection.” Swiss psychologist Carl Jung devoted a large part of his work to the study of “meaningful coincidences”, or synchronicity, and how seemingly chance occurrences can move our lives forward significantly. Sitting at a sidewalk café you overhear a conversation at the next table which you incorporate as a brilliant plot twist in the novel you’ve been struggling to finish for the past year; a book you pick up from the discount table at your neighborhood bookstore opens to a significant passage; a missed train starts a chain of events that changes the direction of your life; and so on.

Serendipity

Serendipity can be described as good fortune, luck, or a fortunate accident. It’s the effect by which you accidentally discover something fortunate, especially while looking for something else entirely. Two examples of serendipity are: Fleming’s discovery of penicillin and the creation of the Post-It Note by a 3M research and developer.

In “Do Less, Achieve More”, Chin-Ning Chu explains that the field of quantum physics has discovered that an electron inside an atom, under the proper stimulus, instead of traveling smoothly from one orbit to another, disappears from one orbit and reappears in another. That is, it makes a quantum leap. By planning meticulously how you’re going to achieve your goals, how many calls to prospects you’re going to make each day, how much time you’re going to devote to your writing without allowing any interruptions, and so on, you’re moving forward in a linear fashion. And with discipline and consistency it’s very likely that you’ll achieve many of your life goals. However, by allowing yourself to be pulled forward by sudden, quantum leaps, you could go much farther.

Believing in the phenomenon of coincidences and serendipity does not mean that you shun work and sit cross-legged waiting for the universe to deliver your dreams to your doorstep. It simply means that you plan your days utilizing the best organization and scheduling tools, tips, and advice you can find, while leaving the door open to startling, dramatic occurrences.

Three Methods for Attracting Coincidences and Serendipity

The first thing you can do to begin attracting more coincidences into your life is to consciously expect for coincidences to happen. When they do occur, acknowledge them. As you’re writing down your goals always include the phrase “This or something better for the best of all concerned.” With this phrase you’re sending out an invitation for things even better than those that you have envisioned for yourself to come into your life.

The second thing you can do is to let go of attachment to only one outcome. A lot of people fail to notice that what they’ve been striving for is right in front of them because it doesn’t come to them in the way that they had expected and it doesn’t look exactly like what they had envisioned.

A third method is to put yourself in harmony, or create inner order; create an environment within yourself that attracts coincidences and synchronicity. You can do this through meditation, yoga, tai chi, breathing exercises, or even by spending time in mindful contemplation in nature.

Conclusion

By putting together the logical, methodical, step-by-step side of productivity, with the nonlinear, accidental discovery, sudden quantum leaps aspect of productivity, you can accomplish a lot more than by relying on simply one of these two aspects. Plan your day, but expect for things even better than those that you have planned to happen.

This guest article was written by Marelisa Fabrega, Founder and CEO of http://www.marelisa-online.com. For more information on meditation and other techniques to live and create your optimal life, visit her squidoo lens at www.squidoo.com/better-better-and-better.

Photo: igorms.

  • http://stanleybronstein.com MrPositioning.com (Stanley Bronstein)

    Marelisa:

    Excellent article. When it comes to coincidences, I’ve always been told that coincidences are a normal part of our existence and that when we constantly encounter coincidences, we know that we are on the right path.

    For example, recently I was working to find just the right publisher for my upcoming third book. After several weeks of looking, I received an unsolicited email from a national publishing house that was seeking manuscripts for publishing. I called them immediately and within 2 days, I had worked out a publishing deal.

    THAT is the power of coincidence …

    Stanley F. Bronstein
    Mr. Positioning
    Attorney, CPA, Author & Professional Motivational Speaker

    • http://www.marelisa-online.com Marelisa

      Hi Stanley:

      I agree that coincidences are like signposts telling you that you’re on the right path (kind of like the universe winking at you). About your publishing deal: it proves the point that if you move toward your dreams your dreams will start to move toward you.

      Thank you for your comment,

      Marelisa

  • http://www.totalselfimprovement.com Self Improvement

    Marelisa,

    That’s an encouraging article. I have found that creativity is closely linked with productivity. When we are working on things that stimulate our creative capacity we tend to more productive.

    Geoff Robertson

  • http://dedroidify.blogspot.com Dedroidify

    Very inspirational.

    “Synchronicity reveals the meaningful connection between the subjective and objective world.” Jung

    I recently stumbled onto the concept of Seriality, which is like Synchronicity yet not acausal, check it out it could be easier to talk about with skeptics and make their lives a little more magical too.

    • http://www.marelisa-online.com Marelisa

      I’ll look into “seriality”, thank you for bringing it to my attention. I like your reference to magic; drawing on “the magician archetype” is a great way to help us get things done. Marelisa

  • http://www.miyazaki-mic.ac.jp/faculty/docchi/Welcome.html Debra Occhi

    Yes! Don’t be upset when you get that feeling of fogginess that is only your intuition waiting for the right elements that will precipitate into the ideas you crave. Wait and breathe. Go through your own library, or into another knowledge source. Talk to helpful ones. Allow those electron leaps to happen. Thank goodness that no one of us is alone.

  • Jo

    I enjoy all of Pick the Brain’s articles, but I especialy enjoyed this one. Thankyou!

  • Jason

    It was by chance that I came upon this site and this post, however there was an ‘intention’ to look for something inspiring. Life is truly remarkable!

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  • steven

    I think this is one of the best articles I’ve read. And it’s very true too.

  • Hester

    I like that quote by Emerson with the photo above this article. It’s an accurate description of most people I know, including me. In fact, instead of half expression, I could qualify as 1/4 or less of really saying what I need and want to say. The words hide inside my heart and my mind takes charge with the sensible side of communication. But sensible becomes ridiculous when I pass up the opportunity to really connect with another human being through revealing words and truthful touches. When did it become so hard to be real?

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  • stephen

    Best article ive read about this subject. Ive been searching on the net for an article to explain why I seem to experience coincidences and positive experiences after meditating and this offers an explanation.

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  • http://talk.thetruthaboutmeditation.com/ Anna Houck

    Nice post but is this also a form of meditation? Is meditation somewhat related to law of attraction? Thanks!

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  • Ritakowats

    How refreshing it is to hear from someone who is a part of
    today’s culture, but not imprisoned by it.  
    Especially significant to me is the call to “consciously expect for
    coincidences to happen,” and to “create an inner environment that attracts
    coincidences and synchronicity.”

    I think we often miss the obvious:  that we must practice conscious living 
    It doesn’t automatically happen. 
    In order to create an inner environment to attract synchronicity, I
    think we must change our lifestyle dramatically.  An example is the medical profession.  Doctors are expected to see so many patients
    that they have no time or psychic space to engage their intuition in the
    process of diagnosis.  Managed Care’s new
    motto seems to be, “Get in, fix it, and get out.”  As individuals and groups we have to start saying
    “no” to expectations of productivity that shut down the creative spirit.

    I’m starting small.  I
    will sit on the beach alone more often and wait and look and listen.  Thank you, Marelisa, 
    for your wise words.