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		<title>By: "MAGIC MAKEUP METHODS" To Get Your Wife Back &#124; Magic Makeup Methods - Get Your Ex Back - Prevent Divorce</title>
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		<dc:creator>"MAGIC MAKEUP METHODS" To Get Your Wife Back &#124; Magic Makeup Methods - Get Your Ex Back - Prevent Divorce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 07:19:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] you &quot;want my wife back&quot;  Incorporating the above &quot;MAGIC MAKEUP METHODS&quot;can get you on your way.&quot;Magic Makeup Methods&quot; to help put you on the path to getting your wife back. Incorporate them along... hole and now you&#039;re stuck in it. So are you going to just stay in that hole or are you going to try [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] you &quot;want my wife back&quot;  Incorporating the above &quot;MAGIC MAKEUP METHODS&quot;can get you on your way.&quot;Magic Makeup Methods&quot; to help put you on the path to getting your wife back. Incorporate them along&#8230; hole and now you&#039;re stuck in it. So are you going to just stay in that hole or are you going to try [...]</p>
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		<title>By: flashgameport</title>
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		<dc:creator>flashgameport</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 19:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you very much for your contributions.


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you very much for your contributions.</p>
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		<title>By: Guy Farmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy Farmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 06:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the ideas Mary Lee.  It is amazing what we can do when we set up a concrete plan and then measure the results.  I&#039;ve also found that it helps to do things we love and really enjoy doing.  When we have something to look forward to doing we tend to move more easily toward change.  Even then, it takes conscious and ongoing effort.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the ideas Mary Lee.  It is amazing what we can do when we set up a concrete plan and then measure the results.  I&#8217;ve also found that it helps to do things we love and really enjoy doing.  When we have something to look forward to doing we tend to move more easily toward change.  Even then, it takes conscious and ongoing effort.</p>
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		<title>By: Choosing Your Emotions A-Z Link Directory</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 00:21:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Changing Your Life Tips A-Z Link Directory &#171; ACOA, Codependency and Your Inner Child</title>
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		<dc:creator>Changing Your Life Tips A-Z Link Directory &#171; ACOA, Codependency and Your Inner Child</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 19:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Andy Feld</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy Feld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Mary Lee and Kim. A primary reason that change does not work for many is that they are undertaking change because of the desires of others. Your wife thinks you should change, your parents, your boss, your church etc. etc.Often, based on what others think we undertake change and then find out although we are doing what others we love and respect suggest, it is not making us happy and then the change becomes unsustainable. Change is wonderful, powerful, and sustainable, but only when we are acting from our own heart.Learning to listen to our own hearts (without fear of judgment from others) to affect personal change creates the foundation for success.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Mary Lee and Kim. A primary reason that change does not work for many is that they are undertaking change because of the desires of others. Your wife thinks you should change, your parents, your boss, your church etc. etc.Often, based on what others think we undertake change and then find out although we are doing what others we love and respect suggest, it is not making us happy and then the change becomes unsustainable. Change is wonderful, powerful, and sustainable, but only when we are acting from our own heart.Learning to listen to our own hearts (without fear of judgment from others) to affect personal change creates the foundation for success.</p>
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		<title>By: Anto Dwiharja</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anto Dwiharja</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 05:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Kim McGinnis

Self-Responsibility is the same as Be Proactive mentioned by Sean Covey and his father Stephen Covey in their book 7 Habits.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0684856093?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amatedigitpho-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0684856093&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;

Habit 1 BE PROACTIVE 
&quot;I am the force.&quot; 

Take responsibility for your life.

Being proactive is more than taking initiative. It is accepting responsibility for our own behavior (past,
present, and future) and making choices based on principles and values rather than on moods or
circumstances. Proactive people are agents of change and choose not to be victims, to be reactive, or to
blame others. They take an Inside-Outside Approach to creating changes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Kim McGinnis</p>
<p>Self-Responsibility is the same as Be Proactive mentioned by Sean Covey and his father Stephen Covey in their book 7 Habits.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0684856093?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=amatedigitpho-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=0684856093" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0684856093?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=amatedigitpho-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=0684856093</a>&#8221; rel=&#8221;nofollow&#8221;</p>
<p>Habit 1 BE PROACTIVE<br />
&#8220;I am the force.&#8221; </p>
<p>Take responsibility for your life.</p>
<p>Being proactive is more than taking initiative. It is accepting responsibility for our own behavior (past,<br />
present, and future) and making choices based on principles and values rather than on moods or<br />
circumstances. Proactive people are agents of change and choose not to be victims, to be reactive, or to<br />
blame others. They take an Inside-Outside Approach to creating changes.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim McGinnis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim McGinnis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mary,
I really enjoyed your article and think you made some really great points. I particularly like the part where you went into how destructive blame is. One of the most proactive, positive, and life-affirming things we can do is take responsibility for our lives. When we recognize that our choices have led us to where we are we not only become leaders, we become conscious creators. I recently read a book by Andy Feld called,&#039;Wake Up! Your Life is Calling.&#039; I mention this book because the author believes that self-responsibility is probably the most important value we can employ if we desire a happy successful life - I think he and you are right.
thanks for listening,
Kim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary,<br />
I really enjoyed your article and think you made some really great points. I particularly like the part where you went into how destructive blame is. One of the most proactive, positive, and life-affirming things we can do is take responsibility for our lives. When we recognize that our choices have led us to where we are we not only become leaders, we become conscious creators. I recently read a book by Andy Feld called,&#8217;Wake Up! Your Life is Calling.&#8217; I mention this book because the author believes that self-responsibility is probably the most important value we can employ if we desire a happy successful life &#8211; I think he and you are right.<br />
thanks for listening,<br />
Kim</p>
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		<dc:creator>Changing Your Life Tips A-Z Link Directory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 06:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
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