Comments on: Breaking Free From the Pattern Trap http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: teo http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-97093 teo Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:37:30 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-97093 complimenti complimenti

]]> By: giovanni http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-97092 giovanni Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:35:56 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-97092 Hello...i like this blog Hello…i like this blog

]]> By: Rande Howell http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-77243 Rande Howell Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:58:18 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-77243 Dominique You are never taught the skills required to create a meaningful life through ordinary life. You have to get used to that. Then leave that limitation behind. If you hold on to "if only" and all of the shoulds and oughts of the world, you simply get entangled. Freedom is only for those who strive for it. Most seek safety and bargain to live in a compromised world. The choice is always ours. Rande Dominique
You are never taught the skills required to create a meaningful life through ordinary life. You have to get used to that. Then leave that limitation behind. If you hold on to “if only” and all of the shoulds and oughts of the world, you simply get entangled.

Freedom is only for those who strive for it. Most seek safety and bargain to live in a compromised world. The choice is always ours.
Rande

]]> By: Dominique http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76981 Dominique Mon, 07 Dec 2009 18:16:23 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76981 It is a shame that most of us go through our whole lives unaware of the power our biology has over our lives or the fact that there is a way to disrupt those patterns. Why is it that the most important life skills are not taught to us while we are in school? I think diaphramatic breathing is infinitley more practical than algebra! It is a shame that most of us go through our whole lives unaware of the power our biology has over our lives or the fact that there is a way to disrupt those patterns. Why is it that the most important life skills are not taught to us while we are in school? I think diaphramatic breathing is infinitley more practical than algebra!

]]> By: Rande Howell http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76753 Rande Howell Mon, 23 Nov 2009 14:30:40 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76753 Alex Help me understand -- I'm curious. What do you mean by "I like this blog, but the comments are ridiculouss". Rande Howell Alex

Help me understand — I’m curious. What do you mean by “I like this blog, but the comments are ridiculouss”.

Rande Howell

]]> By: alex http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76739 alex Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:29:32 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76739 i like this blog, but these comments are ridiculous i like this blog, but these comments are ridiculous

]]> By: Steven Handel http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76697 Steven Handel Wed, 18 Nov 2009 23:56:10 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76697 The unknown can always be a fearful place to go, but if we learn to see it as an opportunity for growth then it can become easier to break from those same old patterns...and maybe we can even build a pattern out of that! The unknown can always be a fearful place to go, but if we learn to see it as an opportunity for growth then it can become easier to break from those same old patterns…and maybe we can even build a pattern out of that!

]]> By: Rande Howell http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76695 Rande Howell Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:32:23 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76695 You're right. A donut is seductive because it is sweet, but it is also a prison. It is so much easier to stay stuck in the confines of the comfort zone. Yet, life beckons us to explore. When we come to a moment where we realize that beliefs are fluid, transformation takes on different meaning than just change. Beliefs create the perceived reality we live in. Once we learn how to untether ourselves from identifying unguestioningly with our believes, a whole new world of creation becomes possible. Rande Howell You’re right. A donut is seductive because it is sweet, but it is also a prison. It is so much easier to stay stuck in the confines of the comfort zone. Yet, life beckons us to explore. When we come to a moment where we realize that beliefs are fluid, transformation takes on different meaning than just change. Beliefs create the perceived reality we live in. Once we learn how to untether ourselves from identifying unguestioningly with our believes, a whole new world of creation becomes possible.
Rande Howell

]]> By: Rande Howell http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76694 Rande Howell Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:27:09 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76694 Negative, or positve, thought in the process I teach both comes from "voices" living within the self. Depending on the skill you develop for observing this internal dialog, determines what controls the "thinking" going on in your mind. The power to create your life anew is concerned with which voices within the self give rise to your thoughts. The couragous voice within you will sound very different than the fearful voice within you. Each will lead to different possibilities for you life. To discern these voices is to develop choice in the direction of your life. Rande Howell Negative, or positve, thought in the process I teach both comes from “voices” living within the self. Depending on the skill you develop for observing this internal dialog, determines what controls the “thinking” going on in your mind. The power to create your life anew is concerned with which voices within the self give rise to your thoughts. The couragous voice within you will sound very different than the fearful voice within you. Each will lead to different possibilities for you life. To discern these voices is to develop choice in the direction of your life.
Rande Howell

]]> By: Rande Howell http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/breaking-free-from-the-pattern-trap/comment-page-1/#comment-76693 Rande Howell Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:20:51 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1203#comment-76693 Yes. You are talking about the hero's journey. We stay stuck in the patterns of our comfort zone until we invoke the courage to push through our fears. The fear is like a door, that once we open and move through, we find that we can begin creating a life worth living. Rather than stay in a trapped life as you described your former life as. Developing the skills and tools to create life is needed. But first, you have to discover the courage to actually go on the journey. Good for you! Rande Howell Yes. You are talking about the hero’s journey. We stay stuck in the patterns of our comfort zone until we invoke the courage to push through our fears. The fear is like a door, that once we open and move through, we find that we can begin creating a life worth living. Rather than stay in a trapped life as you described your former life as. Developing the skills and tools to create life is needed. But first, you have to discover the courage to actually go on the journey. Good for you!

Rande Howell

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