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9 Reasons Why That Person You Gossip About is Happier Than You

9 Reasons Why That Person You Gossip About is Happier Than You

“Big people come up with ideas. Average people talk about things. Little people talk about others.”

That person you gossip so much about is the big person. He’s busy being his own person and doing his thing. He is growing. He is happy. r

7 Ways To Start Appreciating Yourself

7 Ways To Start Appreciating Yourself

You’re good enough. You’re capable and probably doing really well today.

You just have to realize that.

Here are 10 ways to start appreciating yourself: r

11 Things To Remember When You're Feeling Down & Hopeless

11 Things to Remember When You’re Feeling Down and Hopeless

It’s easy to go out of control and walk down that spiral of sadness. That’s why we need to constantly remind ourselves of these things.

Here are 11 things to remember when you’re feeling down and hopeless: r

9 Things That Happen When You Actually Stand Up For Yourself

9 Things That Happen When You Actually Stand Up For Yourself

As sad as it sounds, when you stand up for yourself, your beliefs and your values, not everyone will agree with it. It sounds daunting, especially when you think you’re in the right. r

4 Reasons Why You Should Be Alone Today

4 Reasons Why You Should Be Alone Today

Sometimes, you just have to be alone.

That’s right. Be alone.

This may sound counter intuitive, but there are many benefits to simply being on your own and NOT trying to attract a partner in life. r

3 Reasons You're Capable of Happiness Right Now

3 Reasons You’re Capable of Happiness Right Now

I’m here to tell you today, that you’re capable of happiness.

This applies to everybody and yes, you are part of everybody and anybody.

It doesn’t matter if you’re old, feeling guilty, lacking confidence, young, unmotivated, anxious, angry, ugly, tired or whatever you think it is that you are. r