Comments on: An Article for the Always Wrong http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 08:49:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Anonymous http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-112180 Anonymous Tue, 03 Jan 2012 19:24:00 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-112180 Finding the root cause of problems can not only help you understand yourself better but also anticipate future situations. We recently posted a piece <a href="http://academy.justjobs.com/practice-situational-awareness" rel="nofollow">http://academy.justjobs.com/practice-situational-awareness</a> where we discuss the importance of practicing situational awareness to obtain better results. - Erich Finding the root cause of problems can not only help you understand yourself better but also anticipate future situations. We recently posted a piece http://academy.justjobs.com/practice-situational-awareness where we discuss the importance of practicing situational awareness to obtain better results. – Erich

]]> By: Christa-Ann Godsdaughter http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-89630 Christa-Ann Godsdaughter Sat, 02 Oct 2010 19:01:14 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-89630 To return to "being" after living with outside and self afflicted verbal abuse does take courage and strength which grows as you take each tiny step. I have witnessed this in my own life. It doesn't get easier either. As I have healed I have "lost" relationships that seemed so important to me but I have come to find out they were not "real" anyway if I could not "be". Even in healing inside, having gone through the process I can look at the world and see so much pain. I cannot return to a place of ignorance and victimization. I must continue the trek "up the mountain" as it were and hold out life lines that show others the way. I believe we are here to "find ourselves" and to help others do likewise. Each of us has to take a hold of our own thoughts, conscious and subconscious and choose who we will be. It is a lifetime endeavor, don't forget to "smell the roses" along the way and do your best to "enjoy the journey". Blessings, Christa-Ann To return to “being” after living with outside and self afflicted verbal abuse does take courage and strength which grows as you take each tiny step. I have witnessed this in my own life. It doesn’t get easier either. As I have healed I have “lost” relationships that seemed so important to me but I have come to find out they were not “real” anyway if I could not “be”. Even in healing inside, having gone through the process I can look at the world and see so much pain. I cannot return to a place of ignorance and victimization. I must continue the trek “up the mountain” as it were and hold out life lines that show others the way. I believe we are here to “find ourselves” and to help others do likewise. Each of us has to take a hold of our own thoughts, conscious and subconscious and choose who we will be. It is a lifetime endeavor, don’t forget to “smell the roses” along the way and do your best to “enjoy the journey”. Blessings, Christa-Ann

]]> By: Kim http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77893 Kim Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:11:23 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77893 I have been blamed throughout my life. By my parents for beating me, neglectingme, and finally giving up on me, foster parents for anything and everything that could go wrong and now as a single parent, by my child's father. I stand up for myself but not in a good way. I usually fight scream and yell to be heard. I am tired of being the blame person and also being angry about being blamed all of the time. I don't want to feel like an imbecil or that everything that goes wrong is my fault. I have lived like this for almost 30 years now and I can't live like this anymore I have been blamed throughout my life. By my parents for beating me, neglectingme, and finally giving up on me, foster parents for anything and everything that could go wrong and now as a single parent, by my child’s father. I stand up for myself but not in a good way. I usually fight scream and yell to be heard. I am tired of being the blame person and also being angry about being blamed all of the time. I don’t want to feel like an imbecil or that everything that goes wrong is my fault. I have lived like this for almost 30 years now and I can’t live like this anymore

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]]> By: karunanidhi http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77510 karunanidhi Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:19:28 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77510 sir, thank you very much for your very valuable concern.After your reply a spark of hope and a breeze of positive vibe,i can sense.... really thank you very much for this reply,full of intimacy.. May God keep us in touch. sir, thank you very much for your very valuable concern.After your reply a spark of hope and a breeze of positive vibe,i can sense…. really thank you very much for this reply,full of intimacy.. May God keep us in touch.

]]> By: Doug Cartwright http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77486 Doug Cartwright Thu, 07 Jan 2010 21:29:16 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77486 Karunanidhi, my heart goes out to you, please don't give up. God did not create you in order to punish you, far from it. I can understand your desire to do something flawless but none of us can do anything flawlessly. I can imagine how attractive that idea must be if you've felt so strongly about failing but the idea that failure is due to your output is just not 'true'. It seems that way but it's not. And because it's not, there is hope. Your whole perspective can change. Years ago I was in a place where I almost felt there was no hope for me. Today, God has turned things around for me and although they are far from perfect, I am glad I didn't listen to my mindset then. That is one of the reasons I write about these tools. I would be happy to pray for you if you would like that and I urge you to seek some professional help, perhaps from a trained cognitive counsellor. If you want to talk to me, I am not a counsellor but I'd be happy to exchange emails and see if there is some way I can offer you some encouragement. My email address is admin@livingwords.net I'm not looking for money here, just to help. Doug Karunanidhi, my heart goes out to you, please don’t give up. God did not create you in order to punish you, far from it.

I can understand your desire to do something flawless but none of us can do anything flawlessly. I can imagine how attractive that idea must be if you’ve felt so strongly about failing but the idea that failure is due to your output is just not ‘true’.

It seems that way but it’s not. And because it’s not, there is hope. Your whole perspective can change.

Years ago I was in a place where I almost felt there was no hope for me. Today, God has turned things around for me and although they are far from perfect, I am glad I didn’t listen to my mindset then. That is one of the reasons I write about these tools.

I would be happy to pray for you if you would like that and I urge you to seek some professional help, perhaps from a trained cognitive counsellor.

If you want to talk to me, I am not a counsellor but I’d be happy to exchange emails and see if there is some way I can offer you some encouragement. My email address is admin@livingwords.net

I’m not looking for money here, just to help.

Doug

]]> By: karunanidhi http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77483 karunanidhi Thu, 07 Jan 2010 20:53:27 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77483 i read "an article for the always wrong" but even after reading this i feel myself unable to relate by this because why i feel that i am always wrong due to my life output.i got nothing but the failure in every work,task,studies even in day to day life chores since last ten years when i was in my mid teenage.i am fed up of life now,i had undergone 6 surgeries in last 11 months.god punished me on health front too. i want to live a life.i want to do something flawless in my life now.please please please help me. i read “an article for the always wrong” but even after reading this i feel myself unable to relate by this because why i feel that i am always wrong due to my life output.i got nothing but the failure in every work,task,studies even in day to day life chores since last ten years when i was in my mid teenage.i am fed up of life now,i had undergone 6 surgeries in last 11 months.god punished me on health front too. i want to live a life.i want to do something flawless in my life now.please please please help me.

]]> By: Doug Cartwright http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77426 Doug Cartwright Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:42:01 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77426 Quinn, I really relate to this and I've not found it easy although it is possible. I think the hardest part after learning its ok to want stuff that YOU want is to work out WHAT you want, especially if you've spent a lifetime agreeing with other people. I like the concept of tentative definiteness whereby I decide that this is what I want now, and I'm sure about it but also open to something better at the same time. It seems like a paradox but it helps to calm me if I feel anxious about missing out on something better. Thanks for sharing. Doug Quinn, I really relate to this and I’ve not found it easy although it is possible. I think the hardest part after learning its ok to want stuff that YOU want is to work out WHAT you want, especially if you’ve spent a lifetime agreeing with other people. I like the concept of tentative definiteness whereby I decide that this is what I want now, and I’m sure about it but also open to something better at the same time. It seems like a paradox but it helps to calm me if I feel anxious about missing out on something better.

Thanks for sharing.

Doug

]]> By: Steve-Personal Success Factors http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/an-article-for-the-always-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-77410 Steve-Personal Success Factors Mon, 04 Jan 2010 20:10:37 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/?p=1326#comment-77410 Understanding why we overextend our personal boundaries is one thing; aggressively challenging ourselves to start thinking and behaving in ways that help ourselves and others versus costing ourselves and others takes courage and healthy self-interest. Thank you for a great article! Understanding why we overextend our personal boundaries is one thing; aggressively challenging ourselves to start thinking and behaving in ways that help ourselves and others versus costing ourselves and others takes courage and healthy self-interest. Thank you for a great article!

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