Comments on: 7 Undeniable Reasons Why Some People Fail Where Others Succeed

By: AnonymousSD

AnonymousSD — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:17:00 +0000

Reading this article sounded like my own “LIFE STORY”. This article hit at home with me for sure. A huge “wake-up call” for anyone that can relate. It’s good to know tn hat I am not alone in this struggle to succeed in life. Good Job on the article Kevin! (5 STARS)

By: AnonymousSD

AnonymousSD — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:17:00 +0000

By: JBounds

JBounds — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 05:26:00 +0000

Becoming a success has a distorted view these days. I write Screenplays. I’ve written 10 of them and that is pretty successful just to finish them because it is very hard work. Will I ever sell any? I believe I will at some point. For right now I’m just writing the best I can.

I also play music;Guitar/Singer and have been in many bands in a span of 20 years. That was my dream to make it and it never happened. But just to play music and be good and happy at it was a success. Becoming famous for what you do is overrated, imo.

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By: Lea304

Lea304 — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 13:11:00 +0000

This article has truly been an inspiration. Thanks so much. Im so glad that I read this!!!!

By: dancethenightaway

dancethenightaway — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 23:43:00 +0000

where are my other comments? maybe one was taken down for bad language but the others??

By: dancethenightaway

dancethenightaway — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 19:56:00 +0000

Some people become self actualized in their 20′s, 30′s, 50′s. For me, I had a knowledge and feeling of independence really early (17) despite the crazy circumstances or maybe because of them, cuz they contrasted so deep with me. I only later related official terms – This is how it went down. I was sitting in my AP Psychology class pondering over how this social science got the audacity to classify the human mind. With frustration I participated in this class; half of which was common sense and the other 1/4 based on assumptions. This was the routine of my thinking process throughout this basic course .. until my teacher brought up and defined a term; self-actualization and that pyramid. It wasn’t that ooh ah wonder but hey, wait I’ve been there already and it’s awesome feeling. I didn’t know how to react. For the first time I truly connected with psychology. I thought it was brilliant that someone actually found it necessary to coin a term for this. I wasn’t AlONE. and such a fitting term!

‘sally’ below calls it “smelling the roses” and goes on to describe her conclusions …

By: dancethenightaway

dancethenightaway — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 19:20:00 +0000

actually although i wish i committed suicide while still in high school or earlier because that would’ve made a greater impact, I’m still sorta proud that I’ve made it this far.. you know, but where am i going with this? hell? I had expected much more work and activity/energy from myself but I am going mad from the abuse.
- — “Keep on keepin’ on” and it gets worse.

By: dancethenightaway

dancethenightaway — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 19:10:00 +0000

okay i see that you’re on the right track. but there are those who are willing to but CANNOT or are not allowed to achieve their dreams. they made the best out of involuntary situations for years (excelled when they didn’t want to) and cooperated/compromised but when the time comes for YOU to shine and make something of yourself everyone turns their back. You turn ugly and give up because you made it a strict objective that when the time for you to ‘make it’ comes, it’s All or Nothing lest you go crazy. You are not going to compromise or bend your knee for these ruthless bastards/fools. And then they erase history with visions of you now> that you were always LIKE this. AND IT’S ONLY BEEN 1 year since I lost it. Unless you want to upset society and move out of the house – living poor alone or in a shelter for victims of abuse – you might as well commit suicide. Look at it this way, “If you aren’t dead yet”, you might as well be rather than live a dead life: i mean i don’t want to see myself anymore.. it’s defeat, SUBMISSION, and humiliating (to see myself still not living my life) because I’m 19 now, still a woman american and being beat up.
Any help would be appreciated. I want to keep my job and go to medical school but how, without remaining in this hell? I don’t want to take out huge loans to dorm undergrad AND i don’t know what I’ll do if my grades drop
Yes failure is final. This is not failure, it’s my choice to lose it (hope).. right? when there actually is no practical hope. Those years i cooperated, there were failures and i know what you’re talkinh about that’s why i said your on the right track. i know morality. There were failures but strength to get back up . . what strength?; The hope of Today. the Today that i’m defeated. now i know tomorrow never comes and i knew not to dream but there was no other way to survive (you don’t have a choice) without humiliating yourself / police involvement.
thanks for reading.