Comments on: 7 Common Reasons Relationships Fail http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/ Sat, 20 Mar 2010 10:32:21 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: me http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-76994 me Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:55:21 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-76994 you forgot money. you forgot money.

]]> By: yzap http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-72931 yzap Wed, 10 Jun 2009 01:21:09 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-72931 It's true!!!! when i am in the relationship i felt that i am selfless that's why i change and honestly not consciously i hurt my partner untill we broke up. i dont realize that being selfless is showing my partner the true love and the time i change my partner felt divergent on me, yes it's true and i penitent all of this. Ego is the other reason and sometimes if your partner hurt you time will come that you also want to deprived your partner, be able to feel the pain of what you felt. Great Post!!!! It’s true!!!!

when i am in the relationship i felt that i am selfless that’s why i change and honestly not consciously i hurt my partner untill we broke up. i dont realize that being selfless is showing my partner the true love and the time i change my partner felt divergent on me, yes it’s true and i penitent all of this.

Ego is the other reason and sometimes if your partner hurt you time will come that you also want to deprived your partner, be able to feel the pain of what you felt.

Great Post!!!!

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]]> By: cchiovitti http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67641 cchiovitti Sun, 21 Sep 2008 01:31:53 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67641 Very succinct. So often, these types of posts are nothing but self-serving, sappy, psycho-babble, but you've really hit these right on the head. Now, if everyone who wasted money on every new "guru's" latest book would just read this, the world would be a better place. Very succinct. So often, these types of posts are nothing but self-serving, sappy, psycho-babble, but you’ve really hit these right on the head. Now, if everyone who wasted money on every new “guru’s” latest book would just read this, the world would be a better place.

]]> By: Nelvz http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67326 Nelvz Sun, 14 Sep 2008 11:40:19 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67326 OMG so true... OMG so true…

]]> By: Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67139 Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome Thu, 11 Sep 2008 10:09:30 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67139 I have been in relationships dominated by some (or all) of these challenges. I think most people find it easier to slide into one of these rather than kill the ego, step outside our heads and communicate clearly and openly. I have been in relationships dominated by some (or all) of these challenges. I think most people find it easier to slide into one of these rather than kill the ego, step outside our heads and communicate clearly and openly.

]]> By: RaAr http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67131 RaAr Thu, 11 Sep 2008 06:03:19 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67131 Yaa above points affect relationships, in that some of points like to highlight that for children they don't know about what right & wrong they are doing, they does as per their knowledge or around what they find, so elders should guide them towards right things else they may move towards wrong path. One more thing that some of the mistake we can ignore but some are very critical so we have to take care about that mistake & warn or prepare partner not to make that mistake. Some times we need to be selffish when it required that if we not become selffish than we lose much more things which may not recover or becoming selffish leads good for all Yaa above points affect relationships, in that some of points like to highlight that for children they don’t know about what right & wrong they are doing, they does as per their knowledge or around what they find, so elders should guide them towards right things else they may move towards wrong path. One more thing that some of the mistake we can ignore but some are very critical so we have to take care about that mistake & warn or prepare partner not to make that mistake. Some times we need to be selffish when it required that if we not become selffish than we lose much more things which may not recover or becoming selffish leads good for all

]]> By: B J Keltz http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67117 B J Keltz Wed, 10 Sep 2008 22:25:33 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67117 The issues in the article apply to more than relationships. They apply to anything we deem a worthy goal. Priorities, communication, and follow-through make for good relationships and good growth. The issues in the article apply to more than relationships. They apply to anything we deem a worthy goal. Priorities, communication, and follow-through make for good relationships and good growth.

]]> By: Ken LaDeroute http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-67112 Ken LaDeroute Wed, 10 Sep 2008 21:14:58 +0000 http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-common-reasons-relationships-fail/#comment-67112 <p>Dear Tejvan,</p> <p>Thank you for your work in illuminating our consciousness with your wisdom. Keep writing and revealing truth.</p> <p>Relationship is the expression and reflection of Divinity in our selves and others. Our unbounded highest Self curving back on itself is simply our relationship with Pure Being, and why we're here on earth. I find this relationship in meditation. In deep stillness, I have God's attention, and I can relate to All That Is. As I sink deeply into the Ground of Being, I experience a deep, abiding peace, and I become aware of a field that nurtures and supports all of creation, beyond space and time. It is unbounded, all knowing, omnipresent and everywhere all at once. Its basic essence is love. </p> <p>This love is reflected in my 25 year marriage. It's a love that is caring and supportive without being judgmental and colored by a life of devotion and service. I always say, "a healthy me is a healthy we." Therefore, I strive to be the best I can be. Not for me, but for my wife, because she deserves the best of me.</p> <p>I am aware of the divinity in others. All my relationships deserve my most highest and reverent attention. This love and attention is a recognition and acknowledgment of the presences of God inside us all. This awareness turns into a deep abiding compassion for all creation. It brings peace and freedom from fear, knowing that all is as it should be, and that life is temporal and illusory. In meditation, I am fearless and I immerse myself into All That Is. This, is my ultimate relationship.</p> <p>Ken LaDeroute<br /> www.AffirmationPower.com</p> Dear Tejvan,

Thank you for your work in illuminating our consciousness with your wisdom. Keep writing and revealing truth.

Relationship is the expression and reflection of Divinity in our selves and others. Our unbounded highest Self curving back on itself is simply our relationship with Pure Being, and why we’re here on earth. I find this relationship in meditation. In deep stillness, I have God’s attention, and I can relate to All That Is. As I sink deeply into the Ground of Being, I experience a deep, abiding peace, and I become aware of a field that nurtures and supports all of creation, beyond space and time. It is unbounded, all knowing, omnipresent and everywhere all at once. Its basic essence is love.

This love is reflected in my 25 year marriage. It’s a love that is caring and supportive without being judgmental and colored by a life of devotion and service. I always say, “a healthy me is a healthy we.” Therefore, I strive to be the best I can be. Not for me, but for my wife, because she deserves the best of me.

I am aware of the divinity in others. All my relationships deserve my most highest and reverent attention. This love and attention is a recognition and acknowledgment of the presences of God inside us all. This awareness turns into a deep abiding compassion for all creation. It brings peace and freedom from fear, knowing that all is as it should be, and that life is temporal and illusory. In meditation, I am fearless and I immerse myself into All That Is. This, is my ultimate relationship.

Ken LaDeroute
http://www.AffirmationPower.com

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