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5 Things You Must Consider Before You Actually Start Living

In November 2011, a local farmer reported seeing a spider monkey in a Colombian park.

Scientists couldn’t believe it, because they thought that the species was locally extinct.

However, they organized a short expedition to explore this matter and it was a shocking moment when they could see fewer than 30 spider monkeys exist per 1 square kilometer of the park.

Despite the potentially false news, scientists were still curious to explore and that’s what made all the difference.

This passion for exploration teaches us a very important lesson on how to get started in our passionate living quest.

After finding their purpose, the most common question I receive from my life purpose coaching clients is, “How Do I Get Started?”

Unfortunately, this question leaves many people defeated, before they even get started.

Why?

Because usually, people get very disappointed when they can’t find an easy instant way to flip their life overnight and start making a living doing what they love.

In addition, they know very little about their field of passion that the can’t see beyond a very limited number of possibilities through which their passion can put food on the table.

One of my clients was so passionate about mathematics. But, he believed that the only way mathematics could be profitable is through becoming a university professor. This was not financially satisfying for him – a thing that could leave him defeated.

So, I did a quick exploration in the field of mathematics and discovered something very interesting.

When I told him about Arthur Benjamin, the mathemagician, he had a breakthrough and a new hope to live his passion!

He could see a role model who creatively integrates mathematics with magic and performs highly entertaining live shows. That for my client was a totally new and a very rare possibility to make a fortune from something he was truly passionate about.

When you take your time to explore your field, you too can find a unique possibility to make a fortune doing what you love. Exactly like the scientists who couldn’t believe in the existence of spider monkeys in the Colombian park, but with further exploration they could find the near-extinct species.

That’s why my answer to the “How Do I Get Started?” question always comes in one word, “EXPLORE!”

Here are 5 things you must put into consideration while you’re exploring your field:

1. Before blindly setting unrealistic goals and plans, you must first take your time to extensively explore your field. Read at least 5 books, follow the footsteps of role models in your field, and connect with people who share the same passion with you.

2. Give yourself enough time to learn and make mistakes on a small scale, so that you can confidently advance to higher levels.

3. Do your homework and research your field well enough, so that you can find creative ways to connect your passion to a profitable path and manifest your dreams.

4. Be patient. You need to realize that it is a journey of joyful transformation, not a flip of a coin. That’s why practicing patience is key at your early stage of passionate living. A passion-driven life is built slowly – one step at a time.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Every artist was first an amateur” It takes time to grow from being an amateur to being an artist in your field.

5. Don’t think of how long the journey will be. Instead, think of how joyful it is to spend every second of your life knowing that you’re moving in the right direction, doing something meaningful, and living your dream.

Explore!

If you followed this advice, you’ll grow on a solid foundation, become an artist in your field and develop essential business skills in small manageable chunks. This means more confidence and less risk in pursuing your passion.

If exploration helped you find your breakthrough, please share your experience in the comments section below.

 

Mohamed Tohami is a bestselling author and the creator of “The P.A.S. Technique: The World’s Easiest Way To Find Your Passion and Purpose In Life”. If you want to set your heart & soul free from the prison of the paycheck and discover how to proudly follow your passion, give a visit to his Transformational Motivation blog now.

  • Tania Ramonde

    Great advice :) Although I think I’m already living, I’ll review those points. Just in case ;)

    http://planificacionespontanea.blogspot.com

    • http://www.transformationalmotivation.com/ M. Tohami

      That’s great! We’re all living but very few people are actually ALIVE. It seems that you’re one of those lucky people. Congratulations :)

  • blindsight202

    Good article. Many people don’t have the patience to go on a long, personal journey, but if they do, it is worth it. Thanks for the tips!

    http://blindsight202.com

    • http://www.transformationalmotivation.com/ M. Tohami

      That’s why successful people are very rare!

  • Carrisa

    This is fantastic! Of course we are all living but not all of us or even many of us are alive!  I will take these 5 tips to heart and begin exploring my field. Great article!

    • http://www.transformationalmotivation.com/ M. Tohami

      Thanks Carrisa. I’m glad you like this article.

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  • http://PracticeThis.com/ Alik Levin

    I liked your take on exploring the field and especially the one about following the footsteps of role models.

    • http://www.transformationalmotivation.com/ M. Tohami

      Modeling successful people is one of the greatest lessons I’ve ever learned.

  • http://twitter.com/RajivKumarLuv Rajiv Kumar Luv

    I totally agree with you ‘Find creative ways to connect with your passion to a profitable path.’

  • http://www.youturnlifecoaching.net/ Coach Nea

    Exploration is so important. I find that many of my clients feel that it’s too late.  We’re taught as children to choose a career and pursue it in college. However, there’s little guidance on what to do if you realize you’ve taken a route that doesn’t inspire you. I love working with people on discovering what they’re passionate about and finding ways to incorporate it into their lives.

    Awesome article!

  • http://www.facebook.com/Sheva.BENSAID Mehdi Blackheart

    when passion and skill works together .. expect a masterpiece !! 

  • naveed akram

    very well ideas

  • Gail Kasper

    Great post! Love your tips – Confidence is key in moving toward your passion; resilience makes it happen. I would like to add that another important element is seeking support from others, which can help propel you forward. In my self-help book, I discuss that unfortunately, too many people seem to attempt life’s goals alone, unaware that help is out there. They think they have everything under control, yet as the years pass, they find that they struggle to achieve their goals. 

    Gail Kasper, Motivational Speaker and Author, www.gailkasper.comUnstoppable: 6 Easy Steps To Achieve Your Goals

  • Gail Kasper

    Great post! Love your tips – Confidence is key in moving toward your passion; resilience makes it happen. I would like to add that another important element is seeking support from others, which can help propel you forward. In my self-help book, I discuss that unfortunately, too many people seem to attempt life’s goals alone, unaware that help is out there. They think they have everything under control, yet as the years pass, they find that they struggle to achieve their goals. 

    Gail Kasper, Motivational Speaker and Author, www.gailkasper.comUnstoppable: 6 Easy Steps To Achieve Your Goals

  • TheMusician

    Im not one to be cynical about this matter, however it hard to explore your passion when your graduating collage with around 200k in debt and not a job offer lined up. Surviving becomes more important than your long lived desire to follow your passion. Its just this whole capitalistic, screwed up education system, that we have imposed which sucks all the creativity out of an individual and turns them into a cog in our society. Thus preventing them from pursuing their passions. Don’t have me mistaken, there are many people who still go to school for their passions, however the rate of that i feel has drastically decreased. 

  • Jim Morris